Successful Connections

I thought about my life experience in the search for intimacy with the opposite sex and found something at least for me, interesting - to classify relationships according to how things "turn out": - relationship with mutual understanding - this is the situation when the two can to be heard well and / or to work well. It is not necessary to be liked externally, nor to be liked on a human level, on the contrary, one may be sexually repulsed by the other or despised; but by coincidence they had to do something together or got into an arranged marriage and it turned out that they understood each other. You don't have to fall in love with someone or share their values ​​to understand what they are saying to you and to listen and understand you. Thanks to this mutual understanding, they both loudly or tacitly realize in which territories they should not set foot, that is, they voluntarily observe certain distances, and it turns out that if there is no love or passion between them, then there are no painful conflicts; - connection with good sex - no need for explanations :) - connection with emotional closeness - they feel loved / comforted / reassured / appreciated, etc. next to each other, but it is quite possible that they do not have shared values ​​or do not understand each other; on the other hand, after the conflicts they will easily forgive each other or at least during the conflicts themselves they will not be sharply hurt. They will gather frustration and neuroticism rather than hatred and revenge; - connection with shared values ​​- both share close values, for example both are disgusted with life in the big city or both think that it is not right to drink alcohol, etc. They may have a bunch of other misunderstandings, but because of the shared values ​​they have a deep respect for each other; - a relationship with an interesting time spent with the other - they may not fit in a bunch of things, but they have a story, they are interested in talking, in general, there is love between them because they are of different sexes and this is an additional opportunity to take advantage of; if they were of the same sex, they would be friends who see each other often; - connection with an unspoken deal - she wants an easy and comfortable life, he sex doll; she wants to control him, he wants to dondurkat him; she wants to appear with him in public, he wants to have heirs; she wants not to be told that she has already become an old maid, he wants someone to tolerate his ugly appearance / small member / dirty life, etc .; - relationship with mutual admiration - one has some qualities, which in the eyes of the other seem much larger than they are or are simply less common (e.g. artistic talent, unique beauty, qualities of kindness and selflessness, a high-level profession in science, etc.) or have specific, irresistible for the opposite sex qualities - for example, if she is a man, a high position of power, if she is a woman - an excellent housewife, kind and unconditionally devoted; - a relationship based on passion / sex appeal / strong radiation - one has sunk into the other due to some impact that he can not resist, an impact that acts directly on his instincts and skips all judgments of reason - for example sex appeal (which has nothing to do with quality of sex itself), falling in love with the eyes / voice / gestures of the other, etc. What do you think all this, would you add / refute something,