Strongly In Love

   Don't do what you don't want them to do to you.

   DID YOU FALL IN LOVE AT THIRTY? I WAS ALSO 30 WHEN I FELL IN LOVE, AND I AM ALREADY 40. JUST LIKE YOU. IN A MARRIED MAN. I ALSO HAVE A FAMILY, MY LOVER AND HE. WE HAVE LOVED EACH OTHER FOR 9 YEARS AND WE HAVE NO INTENTION TO SEPARATE. IN THE FIRST 8 YEARS WE WORKED TOGETHER, THEN HE LEFT. WE CONTINUE TO MEET. AND TO LOVE LOVE NATURALLY. NOTHING THAT WE ARE AT 40. THERE ARE NO LIMITS FOR LOVE. SO CONTINUE. IF YOU ARE OK, DON'T STOP WITH HIM. EXPERIENCE THE SHORT TIME ON EARTH AS YOU FEEL GOOD. NO ONE WILL JUDGE YOU. EVERYONE MUST BE HAPPY.

   And so am I, only I am the man in the case. It is very difficult not to be with the person you long for.

   Well don't long just get together

   Put yourself in her husband's shoes. Then ... imagine he did it before you ... how would you feel?

   So am I, and that's why I understand you, it's just different nice with both. I leave it to the current, whatever happens. We both know we don't want to lose our families, but we're good together.

   I understand. I have a friend, we quarreled and broke up, I met another, we were together for a while and then I reunited with the first one. I didn't have the courage to be with both of them at the same time, neither of us is married, which is good, but with my second friend we can't forget for many months, we hear each other every day, we don't see each other, it's terribly painful. I wish I could make a harem. Still, it sucks to learn that the closest person is cheating on you. My ex-husband cheated on me and made me the unhappiest woman in the world. I will never forget what he did to me. I am 43 years old.

   Hey, people! What is going on in your brain, what is going on in your heart? Man loves wisely with his mind, and not madly with his heart? Be aware! You have families, you claim to care about them and you love them. How then did you allow love to leave the house? I have loved my heart, I have loved with my mind. True love is a conscious act. Falling in love is a temporary loss of ego boundaries, you don't know who you are, you don't know where you are. Do you think that the feeling of fluttering butterflies in the stomach and softened knees will last forever? I do not think. It's good to be in love, but it's bad to be a blind and deaf fool. I prefer to see and hear ..... In the end, everyone is free to do what they want. I just share my opinion.

   These days I will turn 40. For several months I have been almost mad with love and I realize that it is radically different from the time when I was 20 ... I fell in love with a man 25 years older than me, also married, but our relationship is virtual, we live very, very far from each other and we will hardly ever see each other. None of us wants to violate the integrity of our family, but our longings are unstoppable. This love fills me and makes me happy, the unpleasant thing is when I have to share the bed with my husband at night and I understand that the thrill has subsided. I try to avoid deep intimacy, but when it comes down to it, the only way out is to imagine that I am with my new lover. I'm afraid it's starting to hurt, and there's no prospect of breaking free from the snare of love any time soon. I am grateful that my loved one is honest with me and shared, that he still loves his wife. I hope this helps me experience my relationship by staying in the virtual without giving lasting damage in real life. Love, however, is love and the feeling is very real ... I didn't expect it to happen to me ... I didn't think I could love so deeply, a person who only touches me with words ...

   Being in love is not bad at all, no matter if it is about being in love with a free or engaged person. Falling in love is a new beginning in every sense, to feel the thrill of it is a rare opportunity that must be experienced when the time has come. I have been married for a long time and just as long ago I stopped believing in my husband's love for me. But after years of vain hopes and expectations that things might not be lost forever between us, I somehow fell in love with another. Looking for some fun and a moment of satisfaction, I went to the other extreme, where I didn't even expect to fall, but it happened. Just when you stop looking for that familiar sensation of fluttering butterflies in your stomach, the anxious anticipation of the phone ringing, the constant thoughts in the direction of a loved one, they, they invade and you are again full of desire and thirst for life. I'm still married, but I don't want it to be part of reality, precisely because I'm in love right now and experiencing a so-called renaissance in my own worldview. I feel like a student and I am extremely pleased. But I keep telling myself that this is a different world and the reality is different. We are both married, and at this stage we want nothing more for ourselves than to be together when possible and to enjoy each other. I do not know where it will take us and what will happen tomorrow or in the future, but I have left the moment and I experience it with all my soul, without remorse. So married women or single, married men or free from commitments, whenever love comes to you and touches you, let her do it and experience the moment,

   I fell in love with a man but he doesn't notice me I guess it's because I'm younger we are not married and he doesn't even know that I love him so much but I don't know what to do

   I have a friend of 3 years and I love him very much, but recently I met another and fell in love. I can't stop thinking about him. Every time I see him I tremble. I don't know what to do, I don't want to hurt my friend, but otherwise I'm torturing myself. Please give me some advice!