Girl, 17 years old. I have always been a very contact person, I have many and really good friends to whom I am so grateful that they are by my side. I'm not spiteful, I rarely get angry and I forgive easily. In general, I have no problems communicating with people and maintaining good relations with them, but here is a similar situation. We train dances (unprofessionally) and he is my partner. Things came together somehow and we have been dancing together for 2 years now. I have never been attracted to it, but it is a fact that it causes quite mixed feelings in me. As a character, he is not my type at all - arrogant, quite tactless and a little arrogant, but as I said, that's how things went. He never treated me badly and we've always been friends, but lately, more and more often I feel easily replaced by him - as if he doesn't care if it's me or someone else in my place I get annoyed when he dances with a certain girl from the group who doesn't respect me at all. I wouldn't say it's jealousy, I just don't like how his attitude towards me can hurt me. It may sound presumptuous and impudent, but it is. I talked to him about the girl in question and told him how I felt, and he made a deep apology to me for the way he made me feel. Everything was fine. BUT lately this is starting to happen again (I had personal problems and I didn't particularly like training) and I have no right to forbid or restrict him, so I just withdrew and it's a fact that things are not going our way and he mentioned to a friend that I distanced myself from, he tried to talk to me, I didn't want to and he gave up. It's hard for me to overcome my pride and think about the most sensible way to act ... a little help? Thanks! ; d
1 jeanapvp answered
Well, if his arrogance has taken on the appearance of self-confidence that came from the qualities that you also notice in him, it is no wonder that you have started to like him. However, you are partners and you want him not to be so close to her, precisely because of her attitude towards you.