Special Women

They're all guys talking about it, don't you understand? This is not the place to be courtesy of compliments.

It's all changing, even the special ones. I mostly like it and it makes an impression if a woman looks good, but not having contied for 307 hours and making adjustments, it just seems ok. She took care of herself, but not to overdo it and pretend to be a chutney. It makes an impression when he speaks calmly, discusses, thinks logically. It makes an impression when she's a good mother, if she has kids. When she's being nice to her husband, if she does. And it's not just about people, but respecting him (of course he should, and he should, support him and not compete with him. The latter things mostly impress me, especially in this amazing competition which is more emancipated and who is bigger fuck-macho and similar.

Most men say these things to everyone. They've been told to me, too. Don't fool yourself. :)

I think you're missing male attention right now, and maybe secretly maalko envy the bachelorette, who can easily tie a fairy tale with boys. If you were as confident as you're pretending to be, you wouldn't even think about what they do and how other women behave. But I still believe you're really beautiful, both externally and internally. Maybe if you believe a little more in yourself and at the same time assume that other girls are also entitled to male attention, it will certainly become easier for you to your soul. I hope you don't interpret my comment as critical.

Ha, what does it mean, it's losing its charm, men don't need much, most of all, to look good, otherwise every woman tries to look good.

A man who writes "I" has a lot to learn. Which is generally not a problem, a problem is that usually "I" writers do not think there is much to learn because they concentrate on their "superiority". But otherwise we're settled...

You made a good commercial. If you're at peace with yourself and you're happy with yourself, why ask strangers what they think of you? If you were so perfect, after all, why did you break up? Or did men not get up? You're not irreplaceable, if that's what you meant.

I don't know, but you have a writing style that doesn't resemble that of a 20-year-old. Not that it's not possible, but so structured speech suggests a far more mature person! If your age is this, great! If not, play theaters all you want... This is where you're in the right place! ...

What do you think makes up such nonsense? Are you dating drug writers?

Contrary to other comments, I will tell you that every man has women who have stood out and remembered with something. It's just that most won't admit it.

I've met, but I've never heard a man tell them that he awakens a sense of admiration and feat (as that means that). These things, if they really feel them, men show them in an unambiguous way with actions, they don't put them into words. Get down a little bit, author in your early 20s- they still have a lot to learn.

These bragging rights sound to me, too. If it's true, the fact that you believe in compliments from men who wanted you to like it, it says you're not mature at all. And yes, wonder if they wanted you forever, why are they exes?

There's something very strange about your statement. It's as if you're struggling to self-highlight, telling readers on an anonymous forum how unlikely, beautiful, confident and enlightened you are in your early 20s. You wrote the theme like you were sitting on a pedestal and handing out sentences for the other inferior people. I'm a man in my early 40s, and I'm going to tell you something that's going to land you and get you back to reality. When a man tells you how "amazing and alien beautiful and great" means one thing - he wants to sleep with you. Flattery is a trick that men often use to make women more sympathetic to their purely carnal desires. As we have heard all - the main female sexual organ are the ears. As a man, and from personal experience, I can tell you that flattery is a pretty powerful tool, especially with less experienced women. Since you're young and probably quite attractive, you'll often hear from all sorts of men flattering, lifting your self-esteem to the heavens and making you think, it's more than just other women. Because humans are social (herd) animals, we often need the approval (validation) of others to feel well and accepted, and to build our self-esteem. In women, this is especially pronounced and on its basis whole industries such as cosmetics, fashion and plastic surgery are built. The bitter truth is that all this male attention to you is highly dependent solely on your appearance and your age. Now you're young and you think you're going to meet men all your life who will tell you how "charismatic," "smart" and "wonderful" you are, and women will envy you for "achievements" and "irresistible charisma." This is a huge delusion of many young and beautiful women. The reason a man is interested in communicating with a woman at all is a single - sex. Trust me, that's the truth. No man cares how educated you are, with a wonderful soul, whether you've read Dostoyevsky and if you have a professional future.... he only cares if he wants you and how to have you physically. Many pretty women fall into this trap, and after a certain age, when cosmetics will no longer be able to help, fall quite badly into reality and fall into depression, desperate to get back what they lost. This is the drama of every person who has built self-esteem all his life on the basis not of his inner beliefs and principles, but only on the opinion and approval of the people. In conclusion, truly valued and elevated people never feel the need to think or be anything more than anyone. The fact that you think you're some kind of "premier league" only shows that there's still a long way to go until you really become a mature person. There's a great quote from Margaret Thatcher about your case - "If you have to explain that you're a lady, then you're not."

It's clear that men don't need much, but these women begging for attention are like a walking circus. They absolutely lose both charm and self-esteem.

What don't men say to get a woman to bed?

Commenters want to get all the men insensitive robots out, who just repeat the same phrases. That they don't feel anything and every woman the same. People are different, and there's no way that all the women who went through a man's life couldn't have left a mark and couldn't help but remember at least one with something. There's no way one could have felt closer. Just because people are different, you can't argue that all compliments are fake. When they're a lie, they feel very easy.

These people who claim to be something special and outnumber many others, and actually are not and do not have any superior qualities over other people, just make themselves funny and to be ridiculed. They didn't want to part with you because such a woman with charisma would not find, which awakens in them a sense of admiration and feat. I'm amazed at what a feat these men are willing to do to catch a live lion in the juongly tail. And that's what every new man you meet. As you can see, almost all the commentators accuse you of claims you don't have, but it seems that it doesn't concern you at all. The important thing is that in your thoughts you think you're something genius. I mean, it was for us, but unfortunately it's not. I think they were the most indictment of your story. I expect my comment to be published.

Strong character usually build women frustrated with life. Others don't have to because they are cared for and happy, satisfied with their existence. No matter how beautiful you are, you're short of anything, since all your relationships are ex-girlfriends. You're underestimating men. They're smart enough and skillful enough to blow you away, despite your self-esteem, and maybe it's because of him. Charismatic, your exes know why they're exes. It's nice to make a sober judgment, too, not to put yourself so brazen. It's quite repulsive. g41

Number 16, I'il supplement your post with a fun observation. When I was the author's age, I desperately wanted men to communicate with me because of my mind, serious interests, education, culture, etc. But they - unknown why - were always mistaken under my skirt, as we were supposedly talking about Dostoyevsky. I was just desperate! It's become a complex for me. I tell him the gentleman about the French symbolists, he looks at me, the cheeky, the neckline, and he's supposed to show me his home library, and unbeknownst to us how we end up in his bedroom... Today, 20 years later, I am a Doctor of Literature, behind my back are books, research, articles, in my circle are famous scholars, writers and people of intellectual labor. And... no one but my husband wants to mess with my skirt! Unfortunately! If i'm invited to lunch or dinner, I know it's going to be a job, and indeed, if not yet on the salad, then before dessert will spit out the pebble that he needs as a reviewer for eddie what you are. It's a complete disappointment! I'm joking, of course, but the joke-joke - that's the truth. I'm kind of sorry I've never been more naughty in my youth, or at least more cheerful. Now I'm really surrounded by this type of man whose respect I so frantically wanted to win and eventually won it, but none of them have it in mind to woo me lightly - we're family people, we have partnerships, our priorities are other, which doesn't stop those same gentlemen from running after the students and novice poets. I realize that at a younger age the most attractive in a woman is precisely her unencumbered man naivety, and if she is cunning (as I was not), then she would point out precisely her, not her questionable education. And now I turn to the author. Dear girl, "special women" in the eyes of men are those who do not make them strain and do not condemn their natural appetites. And five senior scholars to have, and a professor at the Sorbonne to become, the man will be attracted to your decolletage and the ease with which he communicates with you. And once you want to "inspire," you're going to have to learn to step back, enabling the man to outrun you. That's why I have a good marriage, because I never bother my husband with the success of my report at the scientific conference, for example, but I'm interested in detail how his day went at work, how he broke the competition, how he showed himself again as a smartman and a hero, because he's the best, the best, the most successful, and he's both handsome, and athletic, and manly.... Well, how can my man not love me and look at me like a muse?

From The Author: It wasn't my goal to point out myself or compliment myself. As Number 21 says, of course, every woman leaves a mark in a man's life differently. I was interested to find out which women in you left a new strong impression and with what. To give examples of women who have changed men's lives for the better and influenced their lives positively. Women after you're just not the same, you feel like you're flying to them, that you can take over the world and it's going to be worth it, you feel full of energy and ready to fight it all. The compliments I've written, I've really received them, not for someone to take me to bed. It's even funny. These are words I received when the person came to know me as a person and a character. In a relationship, it's not all about bed, not to forget that we're PERSONALITIES first and foremost. I don't sleep with men who can't take the time to see who I really am. Those willing only to consume quickly realize that they are in the wrong place with me and the others... others stay forever in your heart because they have a standing in your life.

It's not the second sex that deserves respect or admiration, and they know it all. However, I do not rule out that it is possible in a drunken state for a man to express respect and admiration for a woman.

26 out of 21 Very few understood the meaning of the subject, as you can see. I don't want to say anything. I've had this being told, and it's a particular person who's changed a lot. Some of my advice took that they helped him get out of difficult situations, and he appreciated it, and that I was there for him at the time to support him. Each person can affect the life of another , it depends only how. Why shouldn't it be possible for a woman to be by the side of the man at a difficult time - to appreciate it, to appreciate her help, her influence? As banal as it sounds, there are people who change your life positively.

Author, if I were you, I'd read #16 and 25 comments again. And to remember that even the highest flight ends on earth. And the most special woman for a man is not the one who went through his life and left you not know what trace, but the one that stayed in him and raised his children.

On the other hand, it seems to me that the more common option is to start to point out when they are impressed. The complimenting to the point you're describing... it's never happened to me with the intelligent men who value me. Elle, someone saying they don't want to lose me because they're not going to be able to find anything better, it sounds a little like a mockery.

25 and 24 were not written by women. ;) And 28 is obviously very impressed and complimented by our gender. ;) It is known from time to time to where the complexes of the "strong" sex go, when most of the "weak" excels in everything, and the strong sit on the side like a poke.

28 Congrats dude!! COCONAvirus has spread everywhere these days!... Salvation is immunization with MGTOW or a slow and excruciating death...

You're Wrong, 31: comment 25 is really written by a woman, by me. Like you, I like to have fun pretending to be a text detective, and I usually de-section on some telltale traits in the style of the real author's gender, so Now I've been thinking about why my post is perceived by one reader as "male." It is not down to the manner of the expressions (men are usually more laconic, expressed with simpler syntax constructions and rarely use rhetorical figures). So I came to the conclusion that "male" seems to be the content and message in it, namely: "Be natural. Your most attractive trait is your spontaneity, and your uniqueness is your beauty, positivity and kindness. If you want to leave a mark in a man's life, be the mirror where every day he sees himself better and stronger." The fact that this advice is accepted as given by a man proves that the strategy works! At the years of the author, I was very impressed by the words of Lilia Brick - The mistress of Mayakovsky and the inspiration of many great artists at the time, today called "the muse of the Russian avant-garde". She says this: "If you want to win over a man, find a way to convince him that he's wonderful or even genius, but others don't understand that. And let him do what he's not allowed at home. Like smoking, whatever he wants. The rest will be done with the nice shoes and silk underwear." Lilia Brick's personality is quite unpleasant to me, and in my ears to a young student then these words of hers sounded downright vulgar (and I, like the author of the subject, bet on my own individuality), but apparently remained somewhere in my subconscious. Today I'm signing under them with both hands!

Man 32d Years ago, I met a woman who I really thought "This one's a super rare guy." To this day, I'm thinking that. I never told her that, and I don't regret it at all! I've shown her a lot of action if she didn't appreciate it - it's her decision. Sori, but these are the real men, we speak by actions, not empty words, even more so explanations. At least, no matter how good/handsome you are, there are no irreplaceable people.

There was a trend at one time of running ads that featured phrases like "Inspired by you" :) I suspect they were targeting people like you... And to tell you, you won't understand me because people like you live in their own world, like the one in commercials and movies. But one morning you'il wake up at 35, go to the bathroom to pee and scream like all the other people, and when you look in the mirror, you'il finally realize that's where a "non-special" woman looks at you from there.

Author, this site is not good for sharing or asking questions. And that's very clear. Examples: Number 16. He made a super banal and inadequate comment. He's been a little late, and he's deluding himself that he knows a lot. He even gives advice on female psychology... Total laughter and ignorance of women. Judge the nature of women by the nature of men. Number 28. A 100 percent complex, bitter misogynist, probably devoid of love, or never seen one that was illiterate. Number 33 is the same vicious loner. Number 20. Another typeage with behavior that does not know the female nature and sexuality. Almost all other comments except 1-2 are also tragicomilic. People are so bitter and envious, there's nowhere else to go. The war on the sexes is a fact, but it's as if men are more evil, although there are many such women. Let's be honest. :) Basically, the reigns in all its forms and on all fronts. Almost everyone, regardless of gender, watches how to "pass" the other with whatever he can. Unfortunately, many pseudo-women are interested in the material. And many pseudo-males are perverted whores in their guts and make their wives on rags and servants. Noo, there are still normal women and men who value each other for his beauty, his qualities and his soul. Remember, author, forever - Who wears from the inside, it also shows out. Bile comments clearly show it. I'm not an angel either, but I'm not as relegated as they are.

Um, did you pay for the ad on the site before you posted it? Are the CEM aware that there are already advertisements in the form of themes here? I'm happy for you! I just don't see any benefit from this topic. When you're important enough for humanity, there's going to be a story about you on tv. Until then, I'm happy for you, but I really don't understand why it was the subject.

You change your age as often as you often change your underwear. Not only that, you continue to comment on your own story from a different age and a different hash number. You've done that many times, and you keep doing it now. You pretend to be the author in comment 26, but I tell you that comment 25 is also yours, and in it you are already flying very high. It's not the first time you've performed in a different profession, and this time you chose to introduce yourself to a com. 25 as a Doctor of Literature with many books, articles and research. And "of course" in your "circle of friends" are known "scholars", "writers" and in general people of "intellectual" work. They even want you as a "reviewer" for what you are. Nor do you deal with your husband's "success of your report" at the "science conference." Well, you can't see your husband as a muse. Now I understand why you're one of the "special" women. But remember one author of the com. 25, a woman as special as you will not come to this entertainment site with as limited people as we do, but will stay in the circle of people of intellectual labor. That tells you that you're not a literature doctor with a lot of books behind your back, research and articles. Your only articles (stories) are here on this site and that's already many visitors who understand it. But you can't stop writing and publishing these stories yourself because you suffer from graphomania. You don't belong here as a doctor of literature, stay in the circle of "scientists." Since you have many published books please tell the titles of some that we can buy them, read them and enrich our knowledge. Don't forget to fulfill my request. Please publish this comment of mine.

Author: Who understood the meaning of the subject, understood. Whoever didn't understand it wouldn't even understand it. Number 38 Thanks for the comment. I think all valued people, be it men or women, as you share, appreciate the other because of their character and soul. Unfortunately, we never really managed to give examples of those women who remain forever special in someone's life. I don't agree that there are no irreplaceable people. Every single person is unique and irreplaceable. Everyone has such a strict personality that even if you search for a lifetime as a person, you will not find the same one that awakens the same emotions and feelings in you. But with clichés, it's most convenient to handle... To Number 37: I'm sorry if you define your value and value by what the mirror says when you look at yourself. For me, this is derived from my inner sense of dignity and value. For this, some women remain special all their lives, and others only up to 35 . I want to point to my mother as a special woman, for her faith in my father, who started out of nowhere and is now one of the most influential people in my city. For her, for not getting tired of being faithful to him, to support him when he was on the edge. That she forgave then and when he was wrong. I don't know a woman with such a strong and somewhat blind love. My father worships her. For my mother's 50th anniversary, he had given a composer a song, and he had written the lyrics himself and sang it in front of everyone. He always says it's what it is because of my mother and that nothing in his life would be the same. Does this man, my father, think there are irreplaceable people? I don't think so.

Number 40, and sit down, leave the girl alone! The comments under numbers 25 and 34 were not written by the author of the topic, but by ME. I'd introduce yourself, but the site's rules forbid it. I don't understand why you're underestimating the audience here so much. I personally do not see a sign above the site "Forbidden for researchers". Everyone comments on a question through the prism of their own life experience. Mentioning my professional activities, I just wanted to illustrate my thought that being "special" at different stages of life is appreciated differently and that I now regret that I didn't have any more fun when it was his time. I went back to the subject and read my post again. I don't understand what's bothering you so much, number 40? Or what's bothering you? Everyone - no matter what works - is a decent person if his work is useful to others. My choice of time fell on literature. I took a bachelor's and master's degree at the Maxim Gorky Literary Institute in Moscow, and I defended here at the University of Sofia "Neofit Rilski". Do I have to apologize for that, number 40? I'il tell you that I'm nobly envious of people like my husband who have mastered some kind of craft with their hands while I've spent years in libraries, because scientific work is neither well paid for nor brings the authority you think he enjoys.