1. did you have a goal or a dream that is not possible to achieve for some reason (and without gossip of the sort to have wings or any other) Of course. When I was 16, I wrote in a file every day. I had given him a name, I had accumulated about 200 pages of stories. Most had a plot, but among them there were those that were more emotional and related to intangible things, thoughts and feelings. I wanted to publish a collection of short stories. There was no way it could happen, I didn't have the financial means and I wasn't familiar with publishing books. It has remained that way to this day, I think I will simply not succeed. I can't believe it, I'm not financially stable, I don't expect a good advertisement for the book and it's more than clear to me that without readers there is no success. 2. What is something that makes you wake up from bed happy in the morning? When I go to bed with good thoughts I wake up with them. I'm a very happy person in the morning, as long as I have coffee, otherwise I'm a goblin. I'm glad to wake up from the sun's rays creeping between the blinds. I don't know why, but it really gives me a positive start to the day. I am happy when I wake up and someone has already made me coffee or is working on breakfast. I have a very nice start to the day if I wake up and hear it raining. If I'm in love, if I have friends around or my relatives are nearby, I wake up with a smile again. I seem to have a problem with waking up completely alone and I am happy to have loved ones around. 3. Have you made a dream come true that you thought was impossible? Yes, I won a competition and I really dreamed of the prize. I was in high school and I had a period in which I was very active. I participated in various projects, went to extracurricular activities, participated in competitions and Olympiads. I won a trip abroad for two weeks. I really wanted to visit the country in question, but I never imagined it would happen. Seats were limited and there were many candidates. I just participated, I didn't believe I would win and I hadn't invested all my capacity. My dream was to visit that country. Other similar things have happened to me, but this journey is closest to my heart. I entered the desired specialty, my brother was born, I found a partner ... I am quite skeptical about most of my dreams and goals, but the truth is that most of them are real today. 4. How and in what way do you show your love for yourself? I give myself all the time I need. I used to hurry and stop, I was like a racehorse. It didn't take me long to overload myself and fall into more severe emotional states. I was so responsible that I felt guilty and caught the flu, because it kept me from doing my errands. I'm not like that anymore. I allow myself to rest, I give myself time to deal with difficulties. I allow myself to refuse a job I don't want. I allow myself to accept invitations that I like, but I'm embarrassed to go. I learned to look in the mirror and not look for flaws, now I find so many positive things in myself. I analyze myself, looking for the good rather than the bad. I pamper myself with jam more often. I used to have a habit of accumulating a pile of money and not spending it on anything. Now I spend my savings relatively wisely, but in a way that satisfies me. I realized that if I can afford something and it will make me smile, it's not bad to give it a little end and give it to myself. Oh, I can afford to cry before, I used to accept tears as a failure. I allow myself to show my emotions, I don't keep them to myself that much. I became a much more open and cheerful person. I changed everything I didn't like about myself and this is the greatest expression of love for myself. I allowed myself to live the way I wanted to. I gave myself a chance to please myself.
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1. did you have a goal or a dream that is not possible to achieve for some reason (and without gossip of the sort to have wings or any other) Of course. When I was 16, I wrote in a file every day. I had given him a name, I had accumulated about 200 pages of stories. Most had a plot, but among them there were those that were more emotional and related to intangible things, thoughts and feelings. I wanted to publish a collection of short stories. There was no way it could happen, I didn't have the financial means and I wasn't familiar with publishing books. It has remained that way to this day, I think I will simply not succeed. I can't believe it, I'm not financially stable, I don't expect a good advertisement for the book and it's more than clear to me that without readers there is no success. 2. What is something that makes you wake up from bed happy in the morning? When I go to bed with good thoughts I wake up with them. I'm a very happy person in the morning, as long as I have coffee, otherwise I'm a goblin. I'm glad to wake up from the sun's rays creeping between the blinds. I don't know why, but it really gives me a positive start to the day. I am happy when I wake up and someone has already made me coffee or is working on breakfast. I have a very nice start to the day if I wake up and hear it raining. If I'm in love, if I have friends around or my relatives are nearby, I wake up with a smile again. I seem to have a problem with waking up completely alone and I am happy to have loved ones around. 3. Have you made a dream come true that you thought was impossible? Yes, I won a competition and I really dreamed of the prize. I was in high school and I had a period in which I was very active. I participated in various projects, went to extracurricular activities, participated in competitions and Olympiads. I won a trip abroad for two weeks. I really wanted to visit the country in question, but I never imagined it would happen. Seats were limited and there were many candidates. I just participated, I didn't believe I would win and I hadn't invested all my capacity. My dream was to visit that country. Other similar things have happened to me, but this journey is closest to my heart. I entered the desired specialty, my brother was born, I found a partner ... I am quite skeptical about most of my dreams and goals, but the truth is that most of them are real today. 4. How and in what way do you show your love for yourself? I give myself all the time I need. I used to hurry and stop, I was like a racehorse. It didn't take me long to overload myself and fall into more severe emotional states. I was so responsible that I felt guilty and caught the flu, because it kept me from doing my errands. I'm not like that anymore. I allow myself to rest, I give myself time to deal with difficulties. I allow myself to refuse a job I don't want. I allow myself to accept invitations that I like, but I'm embarrassed to go. I learned to look in the mirror and not look for flaws, now I find so many positive things in myself. I analyze myself, looking for the good rather than the bad. I pamper myself with jam more often. I used to have a habit of accumulating a pile of money and not spending it on anything. Now I spend my savings relatively wisely, but in a way that satisfies me. I realized that if I can afford something and it will make me smile, it's not bad to give it a little end and give it to myself. Oh, I can afford to cry before, I used to accept tears as a failure. I allow myself to show my emotions, I don't keep them to myself that much. I became a much more open and cheerful person. I changed everything I didn't like about myself and this is the greatest expression of love for myself. I allowed myself to live the way I wanted to. I gave myself a chance to please myself.