Sick Jealousy And Threats

   Go away. He is a bully and by staying with him, you kill yourself. What he will do next is solely his fault and responsibility.

   What is this abnormal depressant for you? Draw one for him and run with 300, delete it from your life, social networks and everything. I don't even know how you lasted three years, maybe you're not mentally well?

   I don't think nonsense! Gather your luggage while it's gone and leave! If he threatens you - immediately a complaint to the police for mental harassment. They will call him and warn him. How can you be guilty that he is not well and wants to commit suicide! As the situation is so serious, go to a psychiatrist. You are not responsible for his health and you cannot help him. He manipulates you so that you stay and continue to harass you. He doesn't love you, the people he loves don't harass their loved ones. Also, if he wants to commit suicide, I don't need to share it with you, it's pure manipulation, are you a doctor that he has to tell you exactly? Get away from this freak before he beats or kills you, because this moment is near. And mine was threatening to commit suicide, he was chopping with a knife and whatnot, and I thought that the aggression was directed only at him. Well, a few years later, he started threatening to kill me, and I ran away. When I asked him to go to the doctor, after another suicide threat, I was still bad, how could I not be ashamed to talk to him like that ... Share with your mother, sister, someone else or a friend to help you. And in no case do not go back, this will motivate him to start behaving even worse.

   Hello, from the author. It got scary, he wanted to kill himself again and I talked to his mother, I told her, although I had told her about these problems many times and she knew them well, she denied it, as if it didn't exist. This time I wasn't with him, I was at home and I didn't want to go to his rescue and tell his mother, I told her I wasn't there. She sent his father, I don't know what happened, but after a while she wrote to me and told me that I was to blame for things, that I was partying and living my life, and that he was suicidal, right? I was a lower almond. I just wanted to help because I could no longer bear this burden alone and I needed help. He then called me, shouted at me that I was wrong, got angry, threatened me all night that he would take revenge on me, to say goodbye to his face, he would find me anyway. I felt really bad because I didn't seem to be doing the right thing, I didn't have to say, I just had to take my things and leave, but how could I leave him, knowing that he could reach out. Last night it took my fear, it came twice, insults, threats. He finally said that he would not look for me anymore and not come to his grave, but I did not stop him. I don't go online now because I'm afraid of harassment, I make others watch when it was last online. He was on the line today, otherwise he wasn't looking for me. I don't know what to do, whether to call to see him, to apologize for my action, it shouldn't have happened. drive others to watch when it was last online. He was on the line today, otherwise he wasn't looking for me. I don't know what to do, whether to call to see him, to apologize for my action, it shouldn't have happened. drive others to watch when it was last online. He was on the line today, otherwise he wasn't looking for me. I don't know what to do, whether to call to see him, to apologize for my action, it shouldn't have happened.

   Author, no more communication with these. You are being abused, understand that. These people are crazy and you are not responsible for them. The sooner you leave, the less likely you are to get hurt. Don't let them hold you with fear, guilt and manipulation anymore. If you need to call a phone for victims of violence or directly to the police because of the threats.

   The author thanks you for the words. I need to hear that. I've been enduring all this for so long that I've run away. Last night there were threats, today he wishes me all the best, calming down. I don't know what he's thinking of doing, but I can't do it anymore. I realized that his mother was interested in something, but I don't read, I don't watch. He must be insulting me and not making me feel guilty. I have been holding her son for so long, even though he knows how things are, now with almonds, because I can no longer go to save others. I'm really sorry, I'm sorry for him, I'm in pain, but I can't go back. It shouldn't have happened that way, but if I had left and left it without telling anyone, then if something had happened, I would have been guilty of not doing the right thing.

   Author, you will not receive understanding from this family. To them, he is the perfect son, just happened to a bad woman. They will never take your side. Who knows what he said about you. Besides, they will side with their son, not yours, the stranger's. Very few parents will blame their child. From people like this further away, they are abnormal in the full sense of the word. His exact diagnosis is unknown, but he is completely insane. If it gets stuck in you, there is no escape. Don't make excuses that you love him, that he is kind and suffering. You fall victim to it because of your thinking and excuses. Run while it's time. Good thing you don't have children.

   Don't call, don't look for him. His mother has no right to shift all the burden on you, given that you have reported the problem many times and she has closed her eyes. It's easier for them to blame you now, instead of admitting that something went wrong with their child and they failed as parents. Run away from these people. Regarding the threats he makes to you - if you have them somewhere on record or in writing or someone can confirm that there were such, directly to the police and ask for a restraining order !!! He's mad at you because he didn't expect you to send his father and see other circuses - he's exposed, kind of. You embarrassed him. So there is enough sober judgment to understand that what he is doing is not normal and to be ashamed of his parents - but with you everything allows. It blackmails you emotionally because you are kind, patient and yielding. You did the right thing by telling theirs - let them try the results of their own upbringing - the next time they tell you where they will commit suicide, send the police directly, not his parents. He must be under the supervision of a psychiatrist. Don't be alone - invite a friend to stay with you if there is a danger of her returning. Change the keys. And again - report to the police that you have been threatened - a conversation with the neighborhood will sober him up. Please write what development is and what is happening to you. You are in greater danger at the moment than him - such rare shit does not touch or do it only if they know that someone is nearby and will be able to react and save them in time. Look, the threats against you are serious and a cause for concern. that you told theirs - let them try the results of their own upbringing - the next time he told you where he would commit suicide, he sent the police directly, not his parents. He must be under the supervision of a psychiatrist. Don't be alone - invite a friend to stay with you if there is a danger of her returning. Change the keys. And again - report to the police that you have been threatened - a conversation with the neighborhood will sober him up. Please write what development is and what is happening to you. You are in greater danger at the moment than him - such rare shit does not touch or do it only if they know that someone is nearby and will be able to react and save them in time. Look, the threats against you are serious and a cause for concern. that you told theirs - let them try the results of their own upbringing - the next time he told you where he would commit suicide, he sent the police directly, not his parents. He must be under the supervision of a psychiatrist. Don't be alone - invite a friend to stay with you if there is a danger of her returning. Change the keys. And again - report to the police that you have been threatened - a conversation with the neighborhood will sober him up. Please write what development is and what is happening to you. You are in greater danger at the moment than him - such rare shit does not touch or do it only if they know that someone is nearby and will be able to react and save them in time. Look, the threats against you are serious and a cause for concern.

   get rid of these, the whole family is out of order. Whatever you are, everyone is responsible for their actions and their outcome. Whoever really wants to commit suicide will not repeat it for years, but will simply do so. This is his lower manipulation and mental harassment. File a complaint with the police and leave him and never, under any circumstances, return, no matter how much he begs, roars, thrashes, etc.

   Author, change your place of residence if you can.

   Hi, it's me again. He wanted to kill himself again last night, I prevented him. Today he wants again, I talked to theirs again, they raised their hands from him. It must be a manipulation, but it is certainly not good with the head. He says he is convinced of what he wants to do and he is sure. I won't stop him anymore, I can't. Tonight the same thing will happen again, I tell theirs and I do nothing. I don't know if he has the courage to do it, he wants it, but he's afraid. He starts drinking and feeling sorry for himself. I'm not good with my blood, my head, my heart, so much tension, fear and all that. I'm even thinking of going to the hospital tonight to be examined and, if I can, to stay there for at least one night. I raised my hands and I already have no support and help from anywhere, I can't save another for the rest of my life in order to be well and I have to be laughing, happy, repeating to me constantly, that he wants to die and keeps letting me know when. Like last night, goodbye, I don't know what, I wanted to gather strength, I didn't want to live anymore, there was no one to go and me again, but I did badly, I didn't have to deal with it, because it's getting worse. I really feel guilty and I don't know what, maybe because I keep repeating myself.

   Well, it's a big mistake that you ran again! Next time, report it to the police - their job is to stop suicides, and then they will be forced to get help from a specialist. Apparently, they don't want to admit that there is a problem and will continue to close their eyes and blame you. I wouldn't move a finger for a man who lets his mother call me "lower almond" and then expects me to run to save her son while she sits in the heat. Change the key, if necessary, and the accommodation. Don't you have a girlfriend to stay with? Warn them that the next time you call, you will call the police directly because you can't do it. His parents are obliged to seek help from a specialist. You have no more work there. Stop giving in - because if you think you're bad now, you don't know what movie you're going to get into,

   I'm starting to think that the author is looking for attention. Author, you were told what to do. If you want to keep doing this, stop bothering us. At the moment you are doing like him, just empty words, so that some people can deal with you.

   100 people have told you that he is a manipulator and will never change, but you continue to deal with him. Leave it so you don't sink completely. Or stay like that, why do you bother us, what else do you want?

   Hello! I'm not looking for attention, I just need to share. I left him to recover last night, he told me that he was coming home to put an end to it and I didn't do anything, I just went home, I wrote to his mother to let him know so that nothing would happen and I would be guilty, God forbid, she even he didn't answer me, he obviously doesn't think it's necessary, it doesn't matter, because I know I've secured myself. What they will do now is their job. The texting started late in the evening, but I didn't give in, I just went to bed. In the morning I saw that he was online a few minutes ago. So he did not commit suicide, I received photos of how he cut himself and I did not react to them. He didn't look for me today, I'm worried because I don't know what to expect, but I'll manage. The only bad thing is that my luggage stayed there, I couldn't take it out in a hurry to escape, and when things calm down I will send someone to pick it up. Thank you!!! :)

   What is this man holding you with? With money, a house, a child? Is it unique and unrepeatable? Get down on the ground! This one doesn't deserve anything, you gave him 3 years of your life, that's enough! The comments so far are the same, and you're still running. Tell him to take care of himself, he has a family, you are not his mother or wife. Such people are manipulators, he plays with you as he wants. If he really thought of taking his own life, he would have done so long ago. He just wants you to feel guilty that you almost got him there, he's struggling because of you. Only a completely abnormal will do so. I wonder to you women how you upload such stories here and sit with them voluntarily! I don't love him, he will change, he has suffered a lot, there is no such movie! Why do you justify such types ?! Where do you see love in them ?! Think of yourself, people!

   I left him. I no longer want to communicate with him, the bad thing is that he is constantly stalking me. He keeps telling me how guilty I am of everything, how I lied to him. How it shouldn't have happened was not the right time. As he is supposedly well and calm, in the next moment he gets angry, becomes aggressive and blames me. I don't even feel guilty anymore, I just feel fear. He became very different when he saw that I would not go with him. He seems to understand why our relationship happened like that, then he accuses me of not doing something. I have already sought help, I have talked to different people. I do not want to turn to the police for now, because it will completely collapse, but if necessary I will have to do it. He almost killed me today, I barely got out, I literally thought I was going to be the next victim on TV. Starting tonight, I'm thinking of hiding somewhere. I give advice to women, who have people with suicidal thoughts, let them do what they want because they don't really want to commit suicide, they want to manipulate you. When they see that they are no longer active, they will attack you.

   From the author! Hello! First of all, I want to thank everyone who took the time to write to me and give me advice. Like I said, I left him. I never went back there again, as he was about to kill me, I try not to forget that for a day, I repeat it and imagine it every time he prays to me. I do not answer his messages and calls. He waits for me several times, his moods change - from begging and regret to accusations and threats and vice versa. I do not give up, nothing good is left in me. I just want to say that I wonder how I could have been so stupid and cowardly, to believe that he would do something, but when you're in the movie, things look different. Now I feel much better when I'm not under his influence, to manipulate and scare me, I understand that I can make decisions for myself, which are elementary, to judge for myself with whom to talk and what to do. Of course, I'm still worried, I'm looking around all the time, but it will be like this for a while, I have to take precautions. I hope he stops looking for me in time, because he hasn't stopped yet, but it seems to be rarer. There are such people, manipulative, I can't believe what fear I was for him, as the manipulations also came from his family. I feel purified somehow by negative people. I went to pour a bullet for fear, to psychotherapy, I took holy water. A man suffers from his kindness, but I turn to all women, who have ever been in my position or who will be - we must be stronger and not give up. Let's not allow them to crush us and get on our heads, to threaten us. The decisions that a person makes for himself are his responsibility, we are not to blame. Good luck to all!