I will tell you something different, if it is scandalous. What happened is completely normal and understandable, you even had to be prepared. You are together at a distance and even if you hear each other on the phone every day, you still miss the physical contact and the thrills of meetings. I personally strongly believe that this girl is actually confused about her feelings and just doesn't know what she's feeling. There is no other way. She has been with you for 4 years and she is used to sharing and talking about love, but from afar, and suddenly a second one appears, with whom she can have something here, now, physically and at the moment. She gave in. Whether she loves you or not, we can only guess. No matter how much he loves you, you miss the physical in the relationship and at some point your relationship becomes more nervous, more distant. Such connections are not easy, they are almost doomed and in very rare cases work. You have something to judge her for, but she doesn't. I will not preach forgiveness and other nonsense to you, but I want you to think. What is happening is normal and the reasons for getting here are many. The fact is, this remote connection doesn't work for you. Take a break, pause until you start living in a city and then, if you are written and really love each other, something will happen, you will not be patient. That way with phone love it won't be. He let her live as if she was single, to scratch her name. Let her be free to make her own decisions so that the conclusions you draw can also be true. If she loves you so much when you let her go, she will understand how important you are to her and will even feel guilty. Otherwise I will go to bed with different types, and when it returns you will no longer want it, because you will have seen something in it that you did not anticipate and that you will not be able to forget. It is very important to me what a person does when he is free to do everything. Some time ago my boyfriend went abroad and we discussed the option of being together from a distance. I told him that I didn't want a connection because I wanted to see how much we would look for each other when we didn't have to look for each other and how long we would wait when there was no need to wait. Kind of, to check if love sustains us, or sustains the presence of a relationship. It is one thing not to sleep with someone because you have a relationship and quite another not to sleep with someone because you love another person. These works sound silly, but they show the real faces of the people and the grief is worth the truth afterwards. Let her go. You are young, your relationship is exhausted, let alone to organize your thoughts and feelings without outside interference. There is a variant in which you will gather in years and then you will have more capacity in your heads, you will be more mature and wise, then you can be together and you will be much better, but for now you will not received nothing constructive by force.
1 raymanxxx answered
You leave her right away, that's what I would do. I don't understand some people. She kissed another and does not know who to be with, but you dream of loving as in the beginning. For those who can advise you to "fight". The struggle for the relationship is a two-way process and it must be fought with the circumstances that may prevent it, and not one side to fight for the other.