Hello dear people, Help with advice, I'm very confused ! I am a man of 30 and I have been in a relationship for five months with a girl of 21 years. The circumstances are such that we can only be together on the weekends because we live in different cities. We met her on a dating site and from the first day we met we realized that we are for each other and without knowing each other we indulged in passion! Of course, our characters are different and this difference of almost ten years is not to be underestimated, but we have a bunch of common interests, tastes, we share common dreams. When we are together it is just magical, she is passionate, affectionate and tender ... But during the week it is as if she is not! I have to provoke her every time I want to hear a gentle word from her and I don't even always succeed. Often? I write why and what I love in it, I write? how do i feel when i think of her and in response I receive only "and I love you very much" or "I feel the same way" and only that much ... Does this seem normal to you? I think that when a person is really in love, he should share more, talk about his feelings, try to express them clearly, whether on the phone, on Facebook or Skype, and not just when we are face to face ... maybe I can be very romantic and film myself, because in the end I don't get the tenderness I would like, but believe me I do my best to keep the passion in our relationship! They are playful photos, crazy poems, spicy text messages ... and whatever comes to mind, and from it I get only - "me too", and sometimes he doesn't even comment on the phone the jokes for which I have invested all my imagination and passion !! Otherwise he calls me several times a day, asks me how I am, what I do, but we talk mostly about everyday topics ... This drives me crazy, I need more passion !! I am confused!! I don't understand this my girl, I know she loves me, but I don't know why she is so reserved. I still don't want to talk to her about these things, I want to get to know her more, maybe she's just like that. And one more thing - I told her that I had updated my profile on the site where we met and I fixed it as "bound". I did this because I saw that she visits this site every 2-3 days, I guess she writes to someone. I've checked several times already and she still hasn't updated her account and it still says she's single? So how do you think I feel? An idea came to me and because of it I tell you everything! I'm thinking of registering a profile on the site and putting a picture of someone really cool dude! Advise me what message to write, to provoke her? And is that a good idea at all? But if I do, if? I write that she is very beautiful and that I want her to become my friend or something more ... and if she misled the beautiful stranger and didn't even mention to him that she has a relationship ... then what ...? Maybe without asking her she will answer all my questions and put an end to all my doubts and torments !? Share what you think, should I try it?
1 kazikgdyn answered
I don't think you have anything to worry about. Your girlfriend is like that by nature. It may just not be that this muse constantly writes you love text messages, etc. The fact that you are considering whether to make a fake profile shows that you are jealous of her, but you also love her very much. I don't think it's right. If you still want to know if there is something, no one can stop you from creating an account. Good luck. :)))))