I'm a girl, 21. I've had a relationship and a sexual partner. We did it 5-6 times, but the pain was huge and I could not feel any pleasure. He later went abroad and we broke up. During the holidays I met a man of 36, who attracted me visually, I attracted him too. Without further ado, he just offered me sex, but for me it's something foreign and I don't know how it will affect me mentally and physically. I've been alone for more than a year, and "just sex" as far as I know - is not for me. I have always refused such invitations, but for the first time I feel that I want it ... but I don't know if I am able to do it! People don't seem to care, and I need feelings, attention, some commitment, security to feel ready to be with the person next to me.
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If you want a relationship, this is not for you.
Go for it! I'm in the same situation with the difference that I was 20 and he was 40 and he was actually my first. The important thing is not to get too attached, which is quite difficult for women in general in this type of relationship. I look at it from another angle, I'm just gaining experience with a person who is already aware of sex and can teach me a lot. We both know that one day I will meet someone who is ready for a serious relationship and then everything between us will end. But then I will have gathered enough experience and self-confidence not to feel uncomfortable with the man with the main Ch. In other words, this man has something to give you if you still feel insecure about sex.
Do not imagine that as it is, an uncle of 36 years. will do magic with you in bed. Any man can do this thing with a girl in bed, as long as he knows how. Here is your contact with me, I code it with the international standard Morse code, because the admins will block it, otherwise. You obviously want the man next to you, write to me! ;) / - / / ********* / Moderator7 - Well, I just didn't like the Morse code experience. I can't post it, but I can remind you that here on the site in another topic at least three ways of contact are discussed without violating the rules of the site. If you think a little you can think for yourself, and if not - a nice dig.
Hello, I am much younger than you, but I will tell you my opinion, if you think that if you sleep with him you will fall in love and he will then leave you or use you only for sex better not do it do not hurt alone, but if you think that he now and then will want you to have a serious relationship to be able, but I do not know how you decide this is my opinion :))
In my opinion, if you think that there are no real feelings from either you or him, it would be better not to throw yourself into something like that, especially since you yourself claim that "just sex" is not your thing. I understand that you feel lonely, but it's probably better to wait and find someone with whom you can actually share feelings other than purely physical attraction.
This is really a very complicated choice. From personal experience I tell you, although I am significantly smaller than you and I have the same problem and to tell you honestly I need you, you just need to be really aware of what you are doing and to you don't expect anything, but it's possible that this simple sex will one day grow into a great love story knows such cases
The author: I do not want a relationship with him, from what I saw we are radically different, and age is a problem for me. It just attracts me. I'm not experienced, but I don't see it .. rather, he may think the opposite, because I'm not shy .. He just worries me too much about what he will think of me .. and to go and explain myself in such circumstances is unnecessary.
I think you have to decide what exactly you want at the moment. If you just want a sexual partner - this is the ideal option - you are attracted, you both do not want a relationship. Of course, the best option is with feelings - but unfortunately this is not always the case. Make your own decision, life is diverse, sometimes everyone needs to break their own rules, so get to know yourself. When you make your choice, all you have to think about is what YOU want, not what someone else would say about you. That way you will never make a mistake.
I think you will be wrong for the simple reason that this man "confuses love with fucking" tell him exactly as I wrote it to you and push him away find someone your age and if you want to have any experience before that - go through some sex shop and like a vibrator for starters. Another question is whether you are prone to experimenting with sex with a man live
Number 2 - you gave very good whore advice. Gained experience - are you preparing for the highway?
Good job! You always deal with "big men". Apparently you are so nice that a normal boy ...
11, with what I have explained, how he decided "everything", what I do and what I look like - I don't know;)
And what, did you sleep? : D
10, define "whore", please.