Should I Look For Him?

   Look for him and tell him how you feel and what you think. Write in advance above - below what you will tell him. Remember that you may only have this chance! In love we sometimes swallow our pride, humiliate ourselves, do things that are not typical of our character. This should not stop you and bother you! Be brave and try to be happy! Be completely honest with him! If you don't try, in years to come you will almost certainly be blamed for not trying. We must be brave in love! Woman, 36 years old

   Don't look for it, it doesn't make sense. If he has decided so, there is nothing you can do. The stupid thing is that most people are silent instead of telling themselves what the problem is. At least you know if it's up to you to fix things if you've offended him with something or he just doesn't want you to be together anymore for his own reasons. If he is still interested in you, he will certainly look for you in time. But don't count on it. With such behavior it almost never happens.

   Didn't he give you any explanations? Didn't he give a reason for his withdrawal? This is usually done when the other person has done something "fat" and knows the reason. It's not very logical considering that he behaved like a normal couple, and you even know his family. Something is not connected. Did you do something and think that he doesn't know, that he has understood? Intrigue from someone? If there was another, I guess he would have told you, but despite his behavior as a man in a relationship, you did not have a clear relationship. Write to him as soon as he avoids a meeting and ask him what the reason is. Tell him that whatever it is, you will accept it, but you still deserve it, and it is more worthy for him to explain. I hope it's some kind of misunderstanding or just his personal problem and you fix your relationship.

   Well, write to him, but if he refuses to tell you or doesn't answer you, don't go on, he may find you repulsive or you may have become indifferent to him, but what to do is the reality. Only if you had a family and children, even though they are separated, you will be connected in some way, but since you are not, you don't know anything, no matter how bad it is in relationships, she may look for you ... she may not look for you, there is no way to know. Try to write to him and if you see that he has no desire to have other men, do not despair. (p. 27)