The story I'm writing about is quite recent, but it's quite difficult to make an accurate and correct decision. I was abandoned by my wife after about four years of happy life. We had great experiences, we loved each other truly and unreservedly, we did not have conflicts and crises, and we paid a lot of attention to our child. But something cracked and after a period of alienation of a few months, he just moved in with someone else. Naturally, everything is born before that, gradually, after it has been obscured by loud promises of material benefits, prosperity, business, real estate, etc. of this type, who actually has two children and a wife, maybe divorced, but maybe not. For a long time I was thrown dust in my eyes, there were a lot of lies and tricks, which I later found out. Apparently a manifestation of weak character, will, but for a woman of almost thirty years. He says that he realizes this mistake, that he loves me, but we need this to subside in order for things to get better, but then he takes the other direction again. Frequent mood swings, clearly why, right. But as a more reasonable, sober person, I am looking for a constructive way out, but I do not know where the breaking point is between truth and falsehood, the value system and selfishness. A second chance, forgiveness that was asked of me, but if it is missed, it must be the last.
1 celeste_lopezzz answered
Hello, Mr. X. I am a woman and I will comment from my belfry. If a woman / man has looked away, then something in the relationship is lame. Think about where the problem is, what is the pebble that cracked the tile. If it's with you, remove it, if it's with her, it's almost pointless. Are you willing to forgive her? She replaced you with another! I would not forgive infidelity, no matter how much I love the other person. Think first of all about yourself and how you will feel. If you love her so much, forgive her, but she will break again. Trust me! I know female psychology better than you do. The last thing I want to tell you is don't listen to what people have to say, because you are the one who lives with her, not the people. The decision is yours alone.