Should I Fight For Her?

   Not worth it. You don't like it. Everything she says is an excuse not to tell you directly that you are not for her.

   If you want to have something to do with this woman, stop looking for her and play it as if you have lost interest. Reply to messages with a long delay, try to understand that you take down other women, be formally kind in the style of "you're just my friend", etc. At the moment she takes you "seriously" and will make you a monkey to her you prove yourself endlessly, until he finally "likes" to let you go. This is the behavior of a woman who has a lot of suitors and does whatever she wants with them, in order to raise her self-esteem with how many men want her, and thus to prove to herself and / or her ex how much she is wanted. He constantly drops hooks on you, sometimes showing interest, sometimes pretending to be uninterested, keeping you on a "semi-clutch" and in constant readiness. Stop playing her game and start yours. It is your turn to be disinterested and inaccessible. Once she begins to feel that she is letting you go, she will probably be aggressive and start looking for you hard. This is the time to have sex ... the faster the better. Then ... you'll be the boss in the relationship.

   "I love my ex, I gave him a few days to fulfill my whims, but he didn't, so now I'm going to lick other people's penises" Don't deal with this woman at all. Unfortunately, you sound quite desperate and it is normal to succumb to her manipulations and have some illusory hopes. She obviously sees you as a trash can for emotional waste and nothing more. Stop writing to her, stop communicating with her, don't deal with her. Work on your self-confidence and masculinity (you don't sound masculine at all with this despair). Do things that you enjoy and that you want to do and that increase your quality of life. Get cool clothes, shoes, visit things you enjoy, play sports. Have fun, in simple words. When women see a man enjoying his own life, they are instinctively attracted to him.

   She told you in plain text that she was waiting for her ex. If you are so sure that she is a serious girl, then you should know that serious girls cannot overcome their serious relationship from today to tomorrow and embark on a new one. When a girl breaks up with her boyfriend, she needs confirmation that she is still attractive and wanted by men and therefore seeks their company. But this does not mean that he has overcome the ex - on the contrary - he seeks sex, compliments and courtship from men to overcome it. In my opinion, now she does not accept you as a potential partner, but simply as someone with whom to waste her time and feel wanted. One species feeds its ego. What's more, you made the mistake of admitting to her that you wanted her for something serious. As cool as you are, she probably doesn't care at all right now. My advice is, if you want to win it, and show that you will not wait for her forever. Let her see that you have a life outside of your relationship with her - that you have fun, that you have friends, admirers and so on. If you constantly hang around her neck and explain to her how beautiful she is, how much you want her, etc., the chance to become interesting to her is 0%. However, if she sees that you are a man on the spot and you don't run after ****, but you have a great time without her, there is a chance that after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, she will think of you. It's just that there is no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I will accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. that you have a life outside of your relationship with her - that you have fun, that you have friends, admirers and so on. If you constantly hang around her neck and explain to her how beautiful she is, how much you want her, etc., the chance to become interesting to her is 0%. However, if she sees that you are a man on the spot and you don't run after ****, but you have a great time without her, there is a chance that after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, she will think of you. It's just that there's no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I'll accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. that you have a life outside of your relationship with her - that you have fun, that you have friends, admirers and so on. If you constantly hang around her neck and explain to her how beautiful she is, how much you want her, etc., the chance to become interesting to her is 0%. However, if she sees that you are a man on the spot and you don't run after ****, but you have a great time without her, there is a chance that after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, she will think of you. It's just that there's no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I'll accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. If you constantly hang around her neck and explain to her how beautiful she is, how much you want her, etc., the chance to become interesting to her is 0%. However, if she sees that you are a man on the spot and you don't run after ****, but you have a great time without her, there is a chance that after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, she will think of you. It's just that there's no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I'll accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. If you constantly hang around her neck and explain to her how beautiful she is, how much you want her, etc., the chance to become interesting to her is 0%. However, if she sees that you are a man on the spot and you don't run after ****, but you have a great time without her, there is a chance that after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, she will think of you. It's just that there is no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I will accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, to think of you. It's just that there's no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I'll accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck. after she makes a living and overcomes her boyfriend, to think of you. It's just that there's no point in doing it now - even if he lets you go and you get into a relationship, you won't get anything out of it - I'll accept you as a vent and a substitute. The best way to fight for it is to fight for yourself. Don't fixate on her and she will come by herself. I'm not saying fuck her - just don't be like a puppy running after her. Good luck.

   So now it is a hurricane of emotions. He certainly still loves his ex, who is probably not ex yet for sure. He certainly wants revenge on him, so he throws himself "at random." If you are so firmly convinced that you want it, you have to wait. Let her calm down, but don't lose sight of her. It is possible for him to return to his friend, but if he separates permanently, he will give you a chance. Be kind and patient. However, if you drive it through the millet, re-evaluate it.

   Keep paying attention to her, but be restrained. Try to turn things around, let her look for you, but be on the line, which doesn't mean answering the minute and throwing away everything you've done. Don't insist on new meetings, judge the moment when she wants to see you. He doesn't talk about his serious intentions at meetings, most people are startled when you talk to them about long-term relationships, even when they are looking for them themselves. Now she is scalded by her previous one, it is normal not to trust anyone else that she wants a serious relationship, she does not trust you, and trust is not built with talk and declarations. Your task is to provoke her to speak and let her talk, she does not seek advice, she wants to be heard and to show sympathy and understanding. Do not raise the subject of the former, and if she speaks for herself, refrain from evaluations and condemnation,

   She obviously wants to scratch .... I don't see why you're dealing with her. Being untied, you better not bother. She wants to get attention from you because she obviously knows you want her - so she gets annoyed when you don't write to her. Show her that you are not a puppy that will run after her. Either take it in your hands or grab the forest.

   FROM THE AUTHOR: Everything is very wonderful when I am around her, but she decided to return to her ex. These 10 days passed, he allegedly went to the sea and there to be distracted and when he returned to travel with me, but he remembered to write to her and she shivered again and wanted to be with him ....