Hi, I want to share how I got rid of a man like that. I mean, I'm tied up, I have a child. But things haven't been going well for a long time, maybe a year and something. We were living more like roommates. Just after this year and something, I started a new job, and that's when I met the scorpion in question. At first, I seemed quite strange, cool somehow, and he's not my type at all. After a few months, we started writing to each other and of course, we could see each other at work. At one point, I let it go in my life. He seemed very nice to me, very caring. He didn't have many relationships in his life. He's had some kind of relationship for years on the Viber, and the woman was from another city and they saw each other very rarely. At one point, he couldn't stand it and ended it. I forgot to say she was married. So after writing on Viber, the meetings started. We've always had a great time together and we got along beautifully. We've been on the same page about everything. We just understood life in one way. For us, love existed, and sex is about love. I mean, no one's on short-lived relationships. We were together all day at work if we were on a Viber if we could hear each other. We just went to bed and get up together. After a few months, we decided we couldn't live together anymore. I loved him so much, I stood up to everyone, my whole family told about him and fought for us. I risked a lot, really. I wanted to give us a chance to have a real connection and feel the sweetness of it. And of course, we lived together. I introduced him to my child. They got along great. I also had a big fight with my ex-husband, I felt guilty. My family didn't accept my decision and told me not to rush, that I didn't know him, but I swore at him. And we lived together. During this time I felt very guilty and had a lot of problems that did not give me peace. I may have acted strangely at times, but I attribute it to that. It's just a lot on my mind. We had some good times, of course. And now comes the worst in exactly 3 weeks the man in question has left our home. I couldn't believe it. It's like the whole world has collapsed on me. I thought he was coming back. I really think he's a good man. I don't know maybe he didn't live with a woman, and it all came to him. You can't imagine me praying and dragging him down the ground to come back, but it wasn't like another person looking at me from above and telling me not to make a scene. We've been separated for a few weeks now, and I can't help thinking why, why it got so cold. We've been out 1, 2 times after kissing him at first, pulling up then it's like he's relaxing, I can't understand it. He doesn't categorically deny any contact, but he refuses to get back together. It didn't make sense. And I love him so much. I dreamed of that love we talked about with him. I want to write to him, but I don't know what. Does he even love me? Is it possible that everything is stubborn? And I forgive, of course, his betrayal I don't know how I'm going to forgive, but I'm just powerless and still in love. I wonder how it happened to me and why. The kid lived with us and he was a great guy. They understood it perfectly. They were playing. Now, however, there is a development in the case. He's been writing me more about sexual issues all day. It's a kind of sexual relationship, but how can he say he loved me for so long, and now that's a chance. I wonder if he misses me. He used to say he couldn't have sex without feelings. It's starting to confuse me. If he's got it, he's probably got it in him. I'm not raising the issue. I'm just watching him and getting into the tone of the conversation to see where he's going to go. But a very strange man. I have no idea.
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