Hello! I am 21 years old. I ended a serious relationship three years ago and I haven't felt anything for anyone since. Two months ago, I met a boy and realized that I could feel my leg again, and I'm not just a heartless robot. We went out together, had fun and generally had a great time and I realized that I was falling in love. But he is behaving strangely. He had told me that he was happy when he was with me and that he had always had relationships only for one night, and I was different. But there are times when he doesn't look for me for days and generally doesn't seem to care about me. Then he looks for me anyway. It all affects my mood, of course. I talked to him and he told me that he was just not used to it and not ready for a serious relationship and that I had high expectations and I was right about them, but he could not cover them. And then I thought, that it was all over and then he was looking for me again and writing to me. He hasn't called or written to me for five days now. I know you're going to tell me to stop, but once I fall in love, what do I do?
1 peachyplumms answered
This notion of "wrestling" has always been funny to me. What does it mean to fight? For someone's attention that someone refuses to give you? How exactly will you fight? Will you lie on his pan? This is not a struggle, but a humiliation. These are things that need two. Not to fight, but to play judo, all this. Even with kickboxing, I don't see what you can achieve other than humiliation. At least respect yourself.