Hello. I am writing again, unfortunately. My friend doesn't want me, refuses me sex, behaves badly. And he can put me in someone else's arms again, as he did years ago. But only then did he realize that was the problem. His head is peeling, he doesn't follow perfect hygiene, like me. I've been to the bathroom twice and I'm still judging bacteria and currents. Our difference is in age and sexual experience, he is bigger and has more sex. It disgusts me how he brags about how much he has slept, he has had so much sex with me that there is no mention of another .. We go to the sea, walks, discos. And while drinking, we don't do it. I don't want to have sex so bad lately, maybe with him. Not only does he never prepare me before sex, it hurts a lot and I have a little blood. And we're talking about me doing a lot, and he's telling me to fuck yourself, bitch. It's not normal for me to talk to me like that, because if a woman loves someone, she will not cheat on him because the other is better, but because she lacks something. So if I find someone else, or look around for something serious ... I don't know, I love him, but sometimes he disgusts me.
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God, was that love? I, on the other hand, as a complete fool, thought that it meant respect, love and understanding. And now seriously - what are you doing with this boy at all, as it is clear that he is in that job for you. What exactly do you like about him - hygiene, rudeness in bed, bad treatment and insults or the fact that he hates you? Get to realize that you are purely and simply addicted, most likely out of habit. Separating will not end the world, nor will you die from being alone for a while. There are always candidates for a normal woman, let alone one who is not right in the world. By the way - if you start "looking around, listening, finding" and the like before you break up with the current one, then you deserve the treatment you get. There's a right way to do things, and it's not behind someone's back,
You do not need such an individual.
find a normal man, dump this garbage
Lord ... take away your heresies, Lord!
He doesn't look normal to me, but you're not perfect either. :) He pushed you into the hands of another by denying you sex, but since when is sex the most important thing for a woman. I thought they wanted love, attitude and things like that, for the first time I hear someone pushing you into someone else's arms just because it itches you. The problem is that it has nothing to do with you, you go to it ... it's out of the way, hygiene, are you also sure that you don't catch these bacteria from him, have you talked to your gynecologist and your partner, respectively, if there is a possibility that it is so. The other thing in this regard is washing your underwear with hot water and ironing, because that's how you treat some, but if there is no disinfection, they will still appear. This with blood, etc. why are you together since the meeting when you don't understand why then? Think about whether you present the worst to us and whether there are any good ones at all and decide for yourself what you should do, but this presentation seems like you are together to fuck and so much and you have no respect for each other at all and it is the same for the other.
I'm a man, I'm looking for a friend just like yours. If you're still woody, you can give it to me.
There is a little more info in my other story, in general I wrote and waited 7 days and it was not uploaded. It's generally titled My Friend Doesn't Want Me. Thank you for the quick feedback. In general, love has always been compromise, swallowing and kindness.
Up to number 1 Things are a little complicated. I still have to be with him for a while, because I live with him and I have nowhere to go. I have to study and at least rely on him a little, because unfortunately I don't have anyone ... I have never lacked attention, but only from other men. They look at me, talk to me, push me, but I'm only with him. At a banquet one pushed me on the dance floor to play with me, I didn't reflect I was dancing with my boyfriend. At another gathering, one was dancing with me, he was his friend, and he tells me your friend can't play with you. And the boy danced with me as if he were my friend, holding my hands, for a romantic dance, singing to me, I didn't pay much attention, because everyone was behaving strangely then, and we were just dancing. I kept looking at my friend's eyes because I was very embarrassed to tell the boy I didn't feel like dancing.
I was disgusted just by reading, how can you chat with this kirlivets? That he has no basic hygiene habits, no upbringing, no respect for you, what do you love him for? Are you so pathetic? If you have any self-esteem, drop it and find something better. And I advise you not to describe it to the new one, because it will not create a good opinion of you.
You don't respect yourself, you want him to respect you. Hey, how you tolerate all kinds of perversions for the sake of someone, as if he is unique and unrepeatable! Why do you think his desires are more than yours? If someone says such words to me - his way! Everyone has dignity and limits. Stop looking at this one as a prince and master, and think of yourself. When you don't feel good about it, and there is no prospect of improvement, you leave it anyway. There are thousands like you, but there are others.
Get rid of him, I don't know why you're still standing with him when he treats you like a rag ???
Read my other story .. So To number 5 He didn't push me into other people's hands just because he refuses me sex, unfortunately the reasons are many and years ago I didn't think much. At the moment I can say that I miss a lot of love. I miss a nice word, nice kisses everywhere, a little cream on my belly and breasts ... and a little nice sex, which doesn't just put it in me .... I want that wild, passionate sex with a lot of Feelings and orgasms. From the author
Author, what exactly are you looking for as an answer at all? You won't find these things with your current friend if you don't have them right now. Even if there is an improvement, it will be temporary, typical in such cases. Not to mention that it offends you and the like. Have a little dignity and dump him, let's see who else will tolerate his behavior. There can be no question of love here, so he doesn't even have elementary respect.
It is very easy for you in front of your keyboard. I tell you that at the moment I have no other choice. If you read my comments, there will be no meaningless comments like ns: "dump it ..". The author