A 24-year-old boy writes to you. I have a serious problem. I am actively involved in sports (fitness), I don't know if this is the case, but it happens to me terribly ..... Many times I have found myself in awkward situations because of this, for example at work after a colleague "involuntarily" bends down or public transport when she saw the lavish shapes of a schoolgirl. I have a girlfriend who I like very much and I care about her. She's very sweet to me, a little chubby-abe super, but in sex it's pretty bad, she can't last more than 1 hour, she finishes 2-3 at least and then she says that it hurts, and I manage it myself (manually), and I really want to go crazy until I go crazy, because I have air and I get very hot, and she can't, darling, I even pretend that I'm dirty or a pervert, that she wasn't some whore, some of them I talk and I feel so bad. I had a previous mistress, 2 years ago, a Turk, she lives in the Netherlands.
We met there, I was an intern in a Dutch company and she was my boss. I used to do up to 4 times a night with her and I really like her. The bad thing is that she is in Bulgaria now and she calls me all the time - see you, and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer? Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer?
Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer? Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE
1 grantuk answered
"If I cheat, whether he will accept it as infidelity" - well, what should he accept it, in your opinion.