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Should I Be Afraid Of The First Time

By 50shadesduo October 30, 2020 9 answers Last updated October 30, 2020

Hello, thanks in advance to those who will take some of their time and read my story. I am a girl and I am almost 17 years old. I have a friend whom I care about, I love him very much and I trust him. So my question is whether it will hurt when my hymen is torn and whether every girl has a delayed cycle after the first sexual intercourse. Once done with a condom is it likely to break and become fatal mistakes. Do I have to worry that something like pregnancy could happen He is very careful with everything he has done so far and I think I can trust him.

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pampitaoficial answered · October 30, 2020

   Use a condom without fear. For a start, get a lubricant (for example, Durex). If you use a lubricant you will feel better and there is no way to break the condom. If it does happen to you, you have 48 hours for Escapel. I have been using condoms for almost 10 years and my condom broke exactly 2 times during that time. I have no abortions, nor have I ever become pregnant. Calm down! P.P. It is important to use a condom from the beginning to the end of intercourse. The boy has to cum in the condom and get his cock out while he is still erect. Trust your partner!

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_fayencel_ answered · October 30, 2020

   There are probably hundreds if not thousands of such topics. Go to Google and read.

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annanystrom answered · October 30, 2020

   I'm 16 and a few months ago something happened to you that you're so worried about. And I was like that, I wrote on forums, I read and finally what? Nothing who knows what! : d even now it's funny how much I was worried. It hurt, but it's not a pain to die. Every girl is different. The important thing is to be calm and relaxed, not to worry, because if you are tight and nervous you will spoil your mood. We didn't use lubricant the first time and so far I haven't had to, but if you think you'll need it, buy it. For a condom, it is mandatory! at least for the first time. Oh, and you know, you will have fun only after 3-4 times, but everything will fall into place;) as for tearing the condom, yes - it happens, but very rarely. Calmness and confidence are his mother Success

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arni_strong answered · October 30, 2020

   My boyfriend and I tried many times before it happened .. it's not who knows what pain depends on you, I didn't even have blood, but before getting sig we used 1-2 boxes of condoms .. I don't think it was too late for me this. Be careful and be sure that you love him, because the first one is not forgotten .. :)

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abbicute answered · October 30, 2020

   Отпускаш се и не се притеснявай! Не е кой знае каква философия, и аз мн се притеснявах но.. Мен не ме боля изобщо.. прокървих аз и то не една две капки. :) бая си текнах.. но след 5 мин спря някъде след това нищо. само 1 ден след това ми прицапваше и край Не се стягай нека и той да те предразположи!! .. но аз не казах че съм девствена, но така или иначе мъжа беше нежен с мен.. може би по рязко влезе в мен :) Не закъснява цикъла поне при мен не!! Ако не си готова не го прави! Аз по късно почнах да водя полов живот което донякъде е плюс донякъде минус!! :))

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model0003 answered · October 30, 2020

   Hello :) I have a problem at the age of 15 and I don't know what to do. My problem is the following, I don't know if I should call it a problem ... I decided to do it with my ex-boyfriend. He did it a lot, and it was my first time. The problem is that he opened me, he inserted it just once, pressed it a little and took it out and it hurt for a while and then he had blood, but then you didn't have sex with me and 8 months have passed alone since then and nothing I did we broke up with him and didn't make me in the end. However, I am very worried whether my skin has healed or not or whether it is possible, because during sex you expand and contract and gradually it hardly takes its shape and I do not know if the same thing will happen during the next sexual intercourse. blood, etc. and I'm very worried about what the next boy will find downstairs, and I don't know what to do also to ask if it will hurt me during the sex itself .. I will be very grateful if you express any opinion on this issue .. I think about it every day and it bothers me. I will be much calmer if you can help through your experience :) Thank you in advance :)

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suzie answered · October 30, 2020

   Do not worry. The pain is bearable, I can't call it ominous or terrible. I have shared with many friends and our opinion is that every time it hurts almost like the first one, it just gets used to. The pain is from stretching and lasts until you put it all in, then there is no pain. So every time the first insertion is a little painful, but it is relatively natural. It also matters whether you are narrow or wide at the bottom. It's hard to tell, but I don't recommend trying different deodorants or perfumes or other items because it's not the same. The male penis, no matter how hard it is, is not quite like a deodorant, for example, it is slightly crushed when it enters you and this is still a knife, not plastic. If you still want to try, get a beer or some other sausage. Do not peel it, wash it and gently push it. I don't think you will have any difficulties or pain. But don't push it in enough so you don't tear the zipper. As for her, you may not even feel her tearing, it's as if someone scratched you, but slightly. By the way, I know girls who have a sex life and their skin has not yet been torn. He put the worries aside. Try to relax, you are a woman and your vagina is adjusted so that something much bigger than a male penis comes out of it. It's stretchy enough, but until it stretches it's true that there's some pain, but I told you it's tolerable. About condoms. Durex is the brand I use, but it broke the first time I put it on. They do not break into small holes, if they break it is very big and feels calm. There's no way your friend can't feel like he's broken. However, he will feel everything more sensitively. I advise you to take thicker condoms as a start so that you do not have unnecessary worries. If you're still worried, get it out of you, check the condom and continue the act. But in no case do not put a used condom again, then the chance of rupture is 90% because it dries, stretches in the opposite direction and a bunch of other reasons. № 1 is right in its postscript. ALWAYS FROM THE BEGINNING OF SEXUAL ACT !!! Let me not scare you further, but you will still have to know it - every man secretes sexual secretions, as our white current, whether from arousal or not, there is no way to know, but what is special about them is that during of erection, in these secretions (which you can see at any time of intercourse in the condom-around the glans), contain 50% semen. That is why sex without a condom is dangerous. YES it can be 1-2 drops, even a little, but it's proven and you should and you know it. I wish you good luck, Valentine's Day is coming, give yourself an unforgettable sex and no worries darling :) I'm 17 years old too, I'm very interested in this topic, it also matters how old your friend is and whether he has had sex so far.

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jenesuispasjoli answered · October 30, 2020

   Hello! I have a problem that is not who knows how big! So, 1 week ago we went with friends to a club in Sofia! And since I am 18 and I already thought that I should have sex, we suddenly saw Ivan Tishev and his company! I wanted so badly to meet him and ask for an autograph and a picture, but he first noticed us and came to meet me and my company, when I took his hand to shake his hand he smiled at me and winked at me. So after we danced a bit I saw his pants and he was quite woody! He noticed me looking there and offered to take me to comfort. Accordingly, I accepted him immediately with a smile. He took me away, his parents were asleep and it was around 00:30 and I started watching him, watching and touching his guitars. Until I finally went to him and told him. " your guitars are great "and he turned off the lamp and started to take off my jacket and I started to take off his blouse until finally he kissed me and said" do you want it "I said" yes but I haven't done it before ", then he told me He looked at me and said "I want you to be calm with me" I smiled at him and he took off my jeans and I was left only in a bikini and a bra, and he in boxers. and slightly, I burned him and told him "you're great", and he started to amplify the thrusts while I was moaning slightly. So my problem is, if someone finds out that Ivan Tishev opened me, will they think I'm a liar or they say 'are you boyfriends' ??? Please help me??? until he finally kissed me and said "do you want it" I said "yes but I haven't done it before" then he looked at me and said "I want you to be calm with me" I smiled at him and he took off my jeans and I was left alone in a bikini and a bra, and he in boxers. We took off our bra and started kissing, after he inserted it slowly and lightly, I hugged him and said "you're great", and he started to amplify the thrusts while I moaned slightly. So my problem is, if someone finds out that Ivan Tishev opened me, will they think I'm a liar or will they tell me 'are you boyfriends' ??? Please help me ??? until he finally kissed me and said "do you want it" I said "yes but I haven't done it before" then he looked at me and said "I want you to be calm with me" I smiled at him and he took off my jeans and I was left alone in a bikini and a bra, and he in boxers. We took off our bra and started kissing, after he inserted it slowly and lightly, I hugged him and said "you're great", and he started to amplify the thrusts while I moaned slightly. So my problem is, if someone finds out that Ivan Tishev opened me, will they think I'm a liar or will they tell me 'are you boyfriends' ??? Please help me ??? I smiled at him and he took off my jeans and I was left only in a bikini and a bra, and he in boxers. We took off our bra and started kissing, after he inserted it slowly and lightly, I hugged him and said "you're great", and he started to amplify the thrusts while I moaned slightly. So my problem is, if someone finds out that Ivan Tishev opened me, will they think I'm a liar or will they tell me 'are you boyfriends' ??? Please help me ??? I smiled at him and he took off my jeans and I was left only in a bikini and a bra, and he in boxers. We took off our bra and we started kissing, after he inserted it slowly and lightly, I hugged him and told him "you're great", and he started to amplify the thrusts while I moaned slightly. So my problem is, if someone finds out that Ivan Tishev opened me, will they think I'm a liar or will they tell me 'are you boyfriends' ??? Please help me ??? ??? Please help me??? ??? Please help me???

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cercle answered · October 30, 2020

   Are you sure you're not making it up? I don't want to blame you or anything, but it's a little weird that it's so easy. Besides, I don't know, it's weird to be so easy on him, you're a girl after all. Anyway, on the subject - I would laugh, it's just funny, everyone knows that people like him knock and leave. Good luck darling, but at least if it was tragic you can pour it a little on the Internet, so at least they will tie, or at least I would.