Hello, you're a girl in 12th grade. I've been liking a boy for two months (years, to be honest, I just admit it now). I know I sound frivolous, because he and I haven't talked to him before, and he's pretty shy. I really want to get to know him... I usually try to keep looking everywhere. Where he is, that's where I am. Even yesterday I sat next to him without asking... And we still didn't say anything to each other. Deliberately... After a while more, I'll just invite him to a bench in the yard and share my feelings with him, and I'll finally tell him he's free to answer me anyway he wants. I don't really want to push him. You know when you like someone and you feel like weight and an incandescent environment when you're in the same place. I've never experienced anything like this in such a long time. I've always had the first steps, and in general... it all ended in about a month. I've always used them as a mirror reflecting everything beautiful and ugly about me. Never have I ever - I've never had the desire and tried to get to know anyone. Everything I've had as information, I've used it to prove how good I am to feed myself some pride. But now it's different... I have an eager, sincere, pure desire to get to know this boy, to touch who he is... I've stopped wearing makeup, I'm smiling, I want her to see me who I really am... Strangely enough, in his presence, I feel beautiful and alive. I believe in myself where he is. Give me some advice. What do you think of a girl if she fully reveals her feelings and intentions? Is that stupid? Is that naïve? Especially if it comes from nowhere... without the other person suspecting this? Would it be better if I waited until spring, until the end of the year? To the prom? Let me wait and see if he tries to take a step??? Maybe when his desire becomes stronger than shame and worry?
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jokershigh answered · June 14, 2020
Advice from a shy boy, if you already think you can take the first step better go, because you don't know if his feelings will get to the point where he can do it.
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aussie_ben23 answered · June 14, 2020
No, don't do that. And don't reveal them to yourself, because he's going to back off. You should provoke him to catch you, not you run after him. You start running after a man, you lose it. After a man, you don't run. If he doesn't run after you, you put up with it and don't humiliate yourself to propose to him. And if you think he's shy and doesn't do anything about it again, you don't need one. What you have to do is be beautiful, sweet, smiling, play with your eyes and give him signals. No invitations, no suggestions, no feelings. If he likes you, he'il catch them and want to win you over. When that happens, you'il both be happy. He's the one he likes, that the man you like has answered your feelings. And most of all, you're saving yourself the humiliation if you don't like it.
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ladyjeen answered · June 14, 2020
It is no longer so small, yet at this age the shame almost disappears, and in some it is not at all, but there are also shy/disturbing, generally shy people.
I think you should be showing your conversations, in his emotions, or just risk when you talk, shame on him, but first find out if he's just not like the others, and it's likely that he's out of shame or there's already a girl he's targeting. Listen to the answer, and whatever it is, it'il make it easier for you that the secret doesn't weigh on you anymore.
The options are two, you're going to have a boyfriend or you're not going to get up from that point of view at the prom, but my advice is, don't wait a chance and look at that age is not something crazy, it's not embarrassing and it's not embarrassing to talk to him!
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nigro_luciano answered · June 14, 2020
There's nothing wrong with acting first. I've done it two or three times and the results have been great. Just don't call him on a bench to tell him how you feel, because it's a little scary, and it's frivolous. Talk to him, directly at the company, turn to him specifically. Ask him something - what is his perfume, is he happy with his martini, where he bought it from. Turn the conversation around for something that maybe connects you - pet, style music, something like that. Add it on social media, write to him. What's more, if he's really that shy, he probably thinks she wouldn't pay attention to him. Success!
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luana789 answered · June 14, 2020
A woman doesn't have to admit to a man. The woman was made to fight for her. You've done enough. Accept that he just doesn't like you and live your life. Men who fall in love - in those who can't have, there's no man who wants a woman and, out of shyness, not to talk to her at least. He just doesn't like you. The sooner you understand it, the better.
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kaylee_goddess answered · June 14, 2020
Look, now... Men know when someone likes us!!!! You drew your own conclusions. If you want denial or regret, go talk to him. But I'm telling you again, men know when someone likes us. For example, I know that a girl likes me when she sees me and starts acting like a complete hacho. But I'm doing my pass, and I'm giving her no reason to think anything. Come head up and good luck in love!