Should I Admit To Him ...

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Hello! I am a 23 year old girl. I have been in a relationship with a very mature and serious boy for 5 months, things are going well so far, he has not forced me to hurry for anything, he is terribly patient and I appreciate that. But I recently found out from a mutual friend about the high probability that my boyfriend is a virgin. He didn't ask me if I had had sexual partners before, not in plain text, he only asked me roundabout questions, which I tried to answer so as not to betray myself in any way, because I don't know how he would react, if he finds out I've been with two so far. Both my previous relationships were a great failure, the men I was with were absolutely inadequate to me, but I was young and inexperienced, I trusted them and now I regret it, but what was done was done. Do you think that I should wait for my friend to ask me if I am a virgin? which is most likely to happen before our eventual intercourse, or to talk about it as soon as possible, because I don't want to disappoint him. Accordingly, if this is such a big problem for him, I would prefer to leave before something like this happens between us, because I have no desire to be a victim of a complex once again. Also, my second question is a little more global - do you think that virgin men, so to speak, have not made a living and that if they do it for the first time with a girl, then more lightly they would lose her to try and how are they with other women? Please be objective in your comments. I will be grateful to anyone who expressed their personal opinion. :)

Accordingly, if this is such a big problem for him, I would prefer to leave before something like this happens between us, because I have no desire to be a victim of a complex once again. Also, my second question is a little more global - do you think that virgin men, so to speak, have not made a living and that if they do it for the first time with a girl, then more lightly they would lose her to try and how are they with other women? Please be objective in your comments. I will be grateful to anyone who expressed their personal opinion. :) Accordingly, if this is such a big problem for him, I would prefer to leave before something like this happens between us, because I have no desire to be a victim of a complex once again. Also, my second question is a little more global - do you think that virgin men, so to speak, have not made a living and that if they do it for the first time with a girl, then more lightly they would lose her to try and how are they with other women? Please be objective in your comments.

I will be grateful to anyone who expressed their personal opinion. :) they didn't make a living and that if they did it for the first time with a girl, then they would take her away more lightly so that they could try how it is with other women? Please be objective in your comments. I will be grateful to anyone who expressed their personal opinion. :) they didn't make a living and that if they did it for the first time with a girl, then they would take her away more lightly so that they could try how it is with other women? Please be objective in your comments. I will be grateful to anyone who expressed their personal opinion. :)

Last Updated
August 23, 2020
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aaliyah1267

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