Hello! I am a girl, 17. I do not live in Bulgaria, in America. My family stayed in Bulgaria. And because I live in a room with friends, only they give me advice, but they are not very good at ideas. Well, here's my problem. A girl appeared in my class, very strange, nobody noticed her. She dresses in black, always with a hood, does not talk to anyone, walks alone, sits at a table at noon. I noticed her in an hour, she was staring at me, you ignore that. But at noon, while I was with friends, I turned around and saw her, staring at me, again. I smiled at her and talked to my friends again. When I came home I saw her following me, she was about 10 meters behind me. In the evening I received an invitation from her. I looked at a bit of her profile. She only uploads drawings, not bad, but scary. He had about 10 friends, strange ones too. And I accepted her invitation. Exactly seconds later he wrote me "Hello", one more time "You remember me, don't you?" and again "I'm the new girl", and again "We're in the same class", then again "What are you doing", I didn't answer her, I didn't even read her messages. When I went to bed, I received notifications that she was writing to me, I ignored her again. In the morning I got up and looked at my phone and saw that I had over 99 messages from her. I opened them and read the last three, "Why don't you answer?", "Are you angry?" And "Tomorrow I'll take you from you and apologize to you personally if I scared you." I wondered how she knew where I lived, but I remembered that she was following me to us. I was thinking of going to school with my friends, but they had already left. When I went out, she was sitting outside on a bench. He got up as soon as he saw me and smiled at me. I tried to smile, but I'm sure I was scared. They go to school with her, no one said anything, but suddenly right next to the school she spoke and said "You have a birthday in 3 days, right?" I was surprised that she knew, but I confirmed it. She even invited herself, I kindly said nothing, I just smiled and they entered the class. During lunch all the time it was taken in me, I did not dare to look at her. He started posting things on my Facebook wall, how we were supposed to be together, he posted pictures on my wall (at least about 30 pictures of me). He walked 10-15 meters behind me wherever I went. I started having nightmares about her and her harassment. On my birthday, my friends had reserved a table at a restaurant, and as soon as I left I was reassured that she was gone. But just as they were embracing a girl, she entered. As soon as I sat down, she sat at the other end of the table, staring at me. I smiled slightly at her, they started giving me presents and she came to me and said "I've been cooking your present for a month" I was startled, so we've known each other for a week and I was amazed. He gave me a strange necklace, it was obvious that it was made by hand, I thanked her and she sat down again. As we all talked and laughed, she stared at me. It worried me even more. After my friends and I left, she followed us. And they got scared, we went home. I came out of the bathroom and saw her under my window, opened the blinds as if I hadn't seen her. I was just going to bed and she called me on Skype, but I hadn't given it to her. I was even more startled. I didn't pick her up. She rang, rang and I got tired, and I picked up. She told me that she would draw more pictures for me soon.
As she spoke, I looked around her room, she was gluing my pictures and drawings, I told her, that I am tired and thinking of going to bed and she said well and left me. But I was worried, I even slept next to a friend. Every day he uploads drawings and posts on my profile about how we are meant to be together. He writes to me, calls me, he already has my number. She's watching me, staring at me, even when I was with my boyfriend, she was looking at me, and it was as bad as killing him. Comment on each of my photos has each of my social profiles on Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, even my Snapchat has. He sends me drawings everywhere. She even processed my photos and made them look like we're together. Well, I can sleep from it, it scares me. My friends told me to tell her to get lost. But they have to be rude, and I don't want to. How can I make her stop stalking me, what's wrong with this girl? Why is he stalking me? Does anyone have an idea or advice on how to get her to leave me alone, I'm going crazy.
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Hi, I think this girl is rejected and misunderstood and when she saw your smile, she felt somehow accepted. Its essence is hardly as scary as it seems from the side, because artists, especially artists, are quite specific and are often rejected by society because of it. I think you should go and explain to her in the most humane way that you were not created to be together, that you are committed, that you do not fall in love with girls (if so), but remember that she is no less a man of you and also seeks love and understanding like all other human beings. I am sure that under the reputation of a cold person she is a sensitive and intelligent girl, she just wants a special approach that no one has. I've been in a similar situation to her for a few years, and what I can guess from that position, is that she probably hides pain in herself, is depressed, and is afraid to reveal herself because she may be rejected. That's why she shrinks and waits for someone to notice her. But here, you did it and that's why she stuck to you. Anyway, be human with her and tell her! Black Sabbath