Hello. An 18-year-old boy writes to you. A few months ago I met the girl in question and we had a relationship until recently. I really loved her, only she interested me. But I failed and because of chats with her friends under the influence of alcohol, she dumped me. Then I asked her forgiveness, but she said we couldn't get back together and that she had another friend. After a while, she invited me for coffee with two of her friends. I agreed, and when I went there were the three of them and a boy hugging her. I froze, realizing that he was doing it to hurt and irritate me. Then I sent her two friends and they told me the whole truth. Just before I came, she told him to pretend to be her boyfriend and hug her in front of me. I was also told that there was no other boy and there hadn't been one since we broke up. I was told she used to be crazy about a boy, but he left her very painfully, and she has not been the same since. She doesn't care about anything, she just makes fun of the boys and has no feelings in her. Her goal is to hurt everyone, because since they hurt her, she's been the one for everything. That's what her two friends told me after the night in question with the fake boyfriend. I was also told that she had no feelings for me and even if it weren't for my chats, she would still do so. I am writing all this not to ask for advice, but because it is quite strange and I do not understand how a girl can do such things honestly. Just watching him touch her made me want to beat him.
She can't be with him because he's much below her level, but the very fact that he was stroking her drove me crazy. And yet I even thought that the fact that he was annoying me meant that there was a way to get together. But after what her friends told me, it can't happen anymore, and of course I don't want to hear about it anymore. I'm just interested to hear your opinions and whether it is possible for a girl to go through such a difficult separation and become a numb person who sows only ruin. Please publish my story.
1 ricocums answered
It is possible that the victim in turn becomes an abuser, unfortunately! She will grow it, but you found some cool chick, good luck!