I had to name the story "WE want a baby" ... because I love children and animals very much, that's a fact, I'm a cancer and I'm just like that. I matured young, I've never been like the other boys wanting to drink, I go to different women and clubs / bars. I am a connoisseur of family comfort, I can even create it myself, maybe because my father left us with my mother when I was 4 years old, I also experienced poverty and everything, I vowed never to be like him. I never heard from him again, I didn't see support, I ran abroad. But a past story. I am already 23 years old. I have a girlfriend, now a fiancée, 3rd year. You understand that we came together young, as she was my first friend in all respects, I was her 4th, but the first real and serious. It is also 2 years older. But our story is complicated. The real part starts here. I do not have a lot of money, I work in a food factory - at least they pay well, I can't afford to study at the moment, maybe one day. My mother exhausts the woman and helps me on top of everything. I proposed to my girlfriend and we didn't even have the money for a wedding we want, but she is pulling away from the wedding, we only think of signing, but her greater desire is a child, not marriage (I can and want marriage now, but a child is much more serious). That is, hers are very rich people working in the judiciary. They also help her a lot and please her for everything. She has literally never worked, is studying and graduating and will start working with hers. She has a lot of money, I was ashamed because many times she took me to places where I could afford a zero chance, she bought me expensive and branded gifts. I never wanted these things, I read a topic before mine about some attraction and it occurred to me, I do not approve of the use regardless of gender. She really wants a child, too, I want, but ahead of time, but she has it in her mind, she wants it as soon as possible. Hers also rolled up and said that I would not see a job and live like a prince, to have a child, that they wanted a grandson from earlier, that one day great-grandchildren would wait. They attack me from everywhere. My mother does not interfere, she says that this is my decision and does not want to influence it. My friend tells me that I will not run out of money while she has it, she even suggests that I stop working and look after the child together or I look after him and she work, just to have a baby. I agree, but to have my own savings, not her, much less hers to support me. I love them all, very good people, but that's why I can't take advantage. What kind of man will I be Now I don't have to earn more, these are vague stereotypes, but I want to achieve something. Otherwise, I am mentally ready for any serious step. I know you can laugh at the topic, but it is real and I ask you for advice. What would you do? We live differently in a separate apartment, hers. Let's say that with the appearance of the child we do not prosper separately and one day we get stuck or separate, then I will be kicked like a dog. I'm generally the meekest, she's an angel too, but let's say with the financial dependence I have to put up with her every freedom, because whoever pays, he orders the music. that you may laugh at the topic, but it is real and I ask you for advice. What would you do? We live differently in a separate apartment, hers. Let's say that with the appearance of the child we do not prosper separately and one day we get stuck or separate, then I will be kicked like a dog. I'm generally the meekest, she's an angel too, but let's say with the financial dependence I have to put up with her every freedom, because whoever pays, he orders the music. that you may laugh at the topic, but it is real and I ask you for advice. What would you do? We live differently in a separate apartment, hers. Let's say that with the appearance of the child we do not prosper separately and one day we get stuck or separate, then I will be kicked like a dog. I'm generally the meekest, she's an angel too, but let's say with the financial dependence I have to put up with her every freedom, because whoever pays, he orders the music.