Hello! I am a 19 year old girl and I have a girlfriend of the same age with whom I have a problem. I thought we were very close until something happened. I recently met a guy on social media who insisted on seeing me and wrote to me every day for 10 days until I went out with him. I didn't understand why he was so insistent, and when we met we behaved as if we were cousins and he didn't even hug me to part. When I saw him live, I really liked him, not to mention that there were butterflies. After that meeting, he wrote less often and one day invited me to go to them during the day while he was making repairs to talk and see each other. He insisted on taking me by car and I agreed, I even helped him a little with the work. We talked, he constantly offered me drinks and food, I refused because I was worried. Light a hookah, we smoked and when it got dark we stood and talked in the dim light and smoked. It was a pleasant atmosphere, but I did not understand his intentions. He was looking at me with a look that cut my legs, I also looked him intently in the eyes, I even thought he would kiss me at some point, but nothing. Even a hug or some touch to my hand to say. I didn't take the first step because I was insecure. I spent 4 hours with him that day. As we talked, I said he was a nice guy and he blushed and laughed. I felt like I was taking him off and he was scratching his ego.
This meeting was not followed by another. He stopped writing, became withdrawn, and the previous "fierce" interest disappeared. Here comes my girlfriend. He offered to send him an invitation and write to him to see how he would behave. He wrote the same things as me, bragged about his car that he even had two, wanted to see her. I felt sick, but I realized that this boy was not doing well. I thought about him for a while, during which my girlfriend fished at the bottom with him and even seemed to go out. I realized when one day I asked her to read what he had written to her, she exploded and started calling me. And just to mention that she has a boyfriend, and cheats on him with different. She decided to jump on this particular boy, I would never deal with someone I know is not indifferent to. Then in another case, her phone rang in my hands from Messenger and it was this boy. She began to excuse herself by telling him not to look for her and not wanting to deal with him. He told me what to do, that he wrote to me and asked. I said and get rid of it, block it for me. She said she would, but she didn't. He wrote to me in front of me, annoying me, he wasn't looking for me. Piss and thumb. But I know they kept writing again, she hid the chat with him. Who knows what it says.
He even said about me that he deliberately stopped writing to me because I might have decided that by paying attention to me I would have decided that something would come out. She repeated it to me several times with irony. I'm not a repulsive girl, I'm beautiful no matter how bloated it sounds, I'm thin 1. 68 with waist-length hair. I'm not confident in heaven, but my friend always seems to point out that she is better than me in everything and that men want her more. Anyway. I swallowed that she was lying to me and I was doing something pleasantly distracted. I forgot about this boy. We went to a disco one night and there the bartender started taking me down. I liked him too, she looked at me all night and at one point she pulled him to one side and started flirting with him. He asked for his Facebook ... he gave it to me too. Then when she left she came back as if she had forgotten her jacket and said that he had kissed her on the cheek. Then the next day he said he had written to her. Here, throw yourself again at someone I liked first. I don't know what they wrote to the bartender, he didn't write to me, but the next time we went to this place he didn't even look, let alone tell me. He greeted her. I'm sorry I wrote everything so chaotically. I just wanted to pour out my thoughts and hear opinions on the issue. I told her everything in person, and she answered what to do, that they wanted me or wrote to me. I also told her that it was low to throw herself at any boy I wanted and that she even had a boyfriend and still did. I also said that he hides chats because there are things that if I see it will hurt me a lot. I stopped contacting her because I was tired of these numbers. In her words, she showed how important I am.
1 thatlonelysinglemom answered
This complex girl is just proving some things that are only in her own head. I guess you envy both the boys and other things and show yourself as the "irresistible" to which everyone writes and she has nothing to do on the issue: D: D. The girl is not a commodity, I would have dumped her in the incident with the first boy ... since she has so much fun with the boys going straight to them, just fuck her and that's it. It behaves like an easy one, that's why everyone is looking for it.