Well ... The girl wants to live. This probably involves riding other stallions while you wait on the bench. I may be wrong, of course, but I am a woman and that was my first thought when I read what was written. At least if he loved you, he wouldn't risk letting you go.
And I as number 1 think if he loved you he wouldn't let you go. He is in the habit with you, he goes around and goes to discos and wants to fuck her * at least 2-3 more so that he has a base for comparison, and you keep the reserve. Life is just sweet for every girl from the countryside. From what is written, it is clear that you are a cool boy and you have not experienced love. For this I will advise you to live your life, be with her, but look out for others and do not toss so much.
She's not right not to want a good boy like you (at least according to what is written), but everyone has their own taste, said the dog and licked his e. If he prefers to live with a merle instead of a treasure like you, he obviously doesn't deserve you.
Why do the decent ones always come across those who don't deserve them ...
I envy your girlfriend, honestly. But I envy her a lot. I hope she soon realizes how lucky she is. If not - leave her and look for the right one for you.
In a towel and tied up, she thought, that's why
She doesn't feel ready to live with you. Talk to her, but don't push her. The problem may be with her parents - still allowing her control and forbidding her to live with you. Another possibility is that she is scared that living together means a duty - to cook, wash, clean, etc., instead of living with friends.
The third possibility was said in a higher comment - she doesn't feel secure in your relationship to take this big step.
In any case, her behavior is an indication that she does not love you unreservedly - she is either subordinate to her parents, or she has prejudices, or she has doubts about the future of your relationship.
Family life after 25 and a wedding after 30 seems too much to me ... Talk to her, say you want a serious relationship. I'm not talking about an engagement and a wedding, so as not to shock her - some acquaintances lived together, the girl was taken to a dormitory (obviously just in case ...), she had a door ...
Do her parents approve?
You're both right, everyone has a different opinion. This is it. The girl wants to experience her student life around her colleagues, to see friends, to have fun. At 21, this is completely natural. She's just not ready to live together as an adult and make things so serious. You are ready to take this step. There is no right or wrong here, it is up to the person. She wants to have a boyfriend, to go out on dates and so on, you want to have a partner, to share a roof, bills and obligations. You're ready, she's not.
Put a camera in the dorm to see what the show is like at night (without you).
Ha numbers 1 and 9 gave quick and accurate comments just to say the least.
The show continues during the day. Otherwise, I would agree more with her way of thinking. For what to become a sacrificial lamb at 21 and may have played a tigress at 30.
Student City is not Kyustendil, so go to a boarding house before you have wasted your youth.
The problem is that if you are living together, you will have to clean, cook, wash, and start a young family life. You are 21, where are you in such a hurry ?! The girl wants to live free, to be among other girls, to have roommates, to remember those years with something, and not to serve from now on. And at her age, I didn't want to live with anyone at all. Love has nothing to do here, you're just young yet, where is the hurry? To start living together now with all his everyday life and get bored and quarrel? You sound jealous and controlling. It's different from living with girls and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will grumble to you not to go out, not to drink, not to wear any clothes. It will get on your nerves much more than any girl.
Author, I think the girl is smart, and she understands that you are looking for someone to replace mom in the homework. You are not saying that you promised to share your responsibilities, you are only talking about her responsibilities. As a cleaner for her roommates, she had better clean for you. You define yourself as lazy. It's good that today's girls are bullying, so you can't tie them up easily.
I also have a friend for 3 years, we are even engaged, he is also a good boy and does not limit me, etc ... I also had the chance to live with friends in a dormitory, but I chose to live with him because I like him better. Well ... as long as your girlfriend is either not ready to live with you and it will take some time or there is something else that bothers her, so I think you should sit down and talk about the pros of living together. This step will only strengthen your relationship and spend more time together.
I agree with number 1. I am a woman, it also occurred to me first.
Dude, this relationship won't last, believe me, in those years ... especially as a student. These are the best years of debauchery, and so on. When mom and dad pay you to study. She doesn't want to be with you because she feels free, because she goes out somewhere and even if she doesn't do anything, sometimes someone like her comes and starts teasing her and she feels good. It's just a matter of time before a dude shows up or has already appeared. Don't ask the old man, ask the Patil. These years, unlike before, are not for a serious relationship, especially when you come from a small town/village and visit Studentski in Sofia, where the nightlife does not stop.
Author, do you know what it's like to live with someone? It's not as rosy as it seems at first and in your imagination. These are everyday life, everyday life and again everyday life. To see the same person every day, and so on day after day. Won't you get bored? You just want to control it, that's your problem. If she has decided to cheat on you, she can always, no matter where or with whom she lives. It's different with girlfriends. There are still everyday life, but it is always like that. Maybe these friendships will last a lifetime. Otherwise, what will she remember the years with - that she lived with her boyfriend, and that she has to comply with him, because they already live together? That she can't move anywhere without him, that she has to cook for him, clean up? It's not always about parties, men and so on. And just enjoy your youth while you can. To be carefree. You sound like a person who doesn't want to give her space.
Author: Where did you just read that I want him to serve me? First, from the age of 16 I lived alone. Secondly, I can cook superbly and I am ashamed of anyone else doing my job. Unlike my roommate, who sends bags of clothes to mom for laundry and brings pots, I do everything myself! This is exactly what I said, that she will NOT serve me, but she serves them, because they are non-Pukists and only she takes care of the community. The other thing is, where did I say her duties are? I just want him by my side, even just lying down. And I never forbade him to drink, so we both go out in companies and get drunk. I always wanted the woman next to me to drink, not scold me. You jumped on me without knowing! The only thing is that I would be jealous of other guys if I went out alone with them, but she doesn't. From mutual friends - no. And from girlfriends - no. I just want to be together. I just said that I do NOT want to serve me, I like modern women and if you want to know my mother never served, she is a lawyer and has always been a busy woman, but heard or not heard ... Now what do you say? I want a joint youth life, not a family one.
Yours is a child's first love, but life after school is different and you have to go to a new stage in the relationship, but obviously she does not want and will begin to fall apart slightly but surely this childish relationship without commitments ... a common story, adolescence continues to about 30 years in the 21st century. mother's children ...
12 го каза най-точно. Освен това е много забавно как пък така си решавате, че едва ли не е длъжна и ще си пропилее най-хубавите години и младоста, че да не опуснела "свястното момченце" видиш ли. Смях! Дано си се чука наволя и си дивее с приятелки. Няма за милионен път да обеснявам за наглоста на ганьо... то се знае. А 3 явно ще да е поредната комплексирана грозница надяваща се на принца на бял кон. Да ама нЕ Хахага Свестните ви принцове ви усещат, че сте смотанки и отчаяни заблудени овце, ползват ви тоя тип за разиграване и ви изхвърлят като си намерят хубавката отракана принцеса. И вие смотлите сте свестни колкото и смотльовците тук бълващи злоба.
Author, you want to control it and there is no space and time without you. It is your obsession and desire to take away her young years. Comment number 16 is mine.
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