I am 82 set male (37 years old), my wife is 84 (35 years old). We have been together since 2008, 2012 we got married. We both have lucrative professions, so it cannot be said that one supports the other. We fell in love as young people and were inseparable. We don't have children, she never wanted to. Her character is a little special, and I loved her too much. Since last year, something first stopped having sex with me, then began to get nervous about me and my presence. On the weekends, she kept traveling to her "parents", ostensibly because she missed them. I love people too, so I once asked her to go with her and we went. And I had no idea she had gone elsewhere the other time. The scandals on her part became more frequent, and she finally packed her bags and ran away, and I wondered what I had done so much. I called, looked for her, questioned hers. She didn't pick me up, she blocked me everywhere. Understood, that she wrote down her maiden name on FB. Finally, she called me herself and said she had another. Simply because I'm tired of her, not because I'm bad at sex or because I'm not beautiful, for her I was very beautiful at the same time, but she was tired of being with the same man, she wanted to wake up to a new face. However, the lover took him to her apartment (we both have one of our own, and we lived together). He told us to sell the apartment and share the amount or, if I wanted, to buy part of it. It was the end of our marriage. And as cold and insensitive as it all sounded, it was obvious that he had feelings for this man. I found out that he was 8 years younger than her, a waiter was in a popular restaurant. It's nice to be, although it's not like he's much more attractive than me. We are both tall, otherwise we are very different in vision. She finally admitted that she was very much in love. I only asked her if she thought he would be with her for the rest of her life, and she replied that even if she wasn't, she wouldn't come back to me. He wants something new. Yes, she is beautiful, but it is a fact that the boy will most likely not stay with her and he is more attracted to the fact that she is wealthy (and her family is) and a successful woman, and he has not yet realized himself seriously. I do not know what to do. I'm sick, I feel cheated. I loved her very much. And I imagined her being the mother of my children, even though she kept procrastinating.
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And now, do you feel how much time you lost. It's neither annoying nor can you stop thinking just like that. It's a terrible humiliation, honestly, but there's nothing you can do. I'm 26, as old as my lover and what's his name, and you're as old as my brother. I have a brother your age. I can only imagine how stupid you feel. Just don't make the mistake of looking for it and asking for something from it, and so on. Start being super cold, even if you still have feelings for her. Stay away, answer with 1 word at a time if you need to communicate. This is hers typical of all women of all ages, no wonder. At least she was relatively honest that she wanted to be with a new person. But again I tell you to distance yourself, let him hear absolutely nothing about you. Don't ask, don't look for her, nothing ... fix your apartment as you see fit and start working on yourself. Work on yourself a lot, fitness or sports, because it will keep you in a good mood constantly, start traveling, read, do things you always wanted to do yourself. As you can see, love is very imaginary and illusory. The more you give to a woman, the harder it will be to overcome her, because inevitably she will dump you at some point. Women are selfish and are never happy with what they have. This is the biggest paradox. That's why they love typical bad boys so much, because this type of men don't care about them. The less you care about a woman and look at your life, the more her love grows. Just open this stupid site and see for yourself how many hundreds of topics there are, written by women who cheat. That's why they call me a misogynist. Because when I say that for a woman it doesn't matter what the man is like, she always wants something new. You have money, and she stumbles on a waiter, if you didn't have money, she would go with the head of the company, for example. The woman wants what she can't have. If there is security, she wants variety, if there is no security, she is looking for a provider to provide it. However, as it turns out, you turn almost 40 and the woman you gave everything for and you were in love runs away with 200 without saying a word and fucks with a 20-year-old who still doesn't know where he is, because at 26 we really don't know where we are, no matter how much some argue. Our thinking is different. Listen to me. Break off any connection with her and you can be sure that in a maximum of a few months she will look for you again, because the illusion she has created will be different. Then she will look for you, but if you are a man you should be iron and close the door for her forever. Otherwise it is a humiliation, which will make you even softer in her eyes, and the control she will have over you will be even greater. She is 35 and there is no other option, because once she is abandoned she will find it more and more difficult to find something new. Even if they are together for 5 years, I guarantee you that this will not last forever. Glad you didn't ruin a small child's life. Good luck and listen to me.