Thank you very much for realizing the problem and looking for a solution. Yes, in this case you are a hypocrite and a gossip. But as number 2 said, who isn't? Of course, this is not an excuse or a reason for you to do it, but it's not so scary. The point is to minimize these manifestations, because no one likes gossip and intriguers, right? If you do not change this part of your character, you will repel people and stand alone. You know, I had a moment like that, maybe as a kid. I couldn't keep secrets at all, I admit. By nature I am such that I love to share with people, to talk, to discuss various things. I don't do it maliciously or for any purpose, I just chatted a lot .. I realized that it was not correct that I was wrong, but I kept whispering to someone. And you know when someone came and threw some gossip at me or wanted to tell me some spicy news, I said to him: I don't care, I don't want to know. It was difficult for me at first, a few times and then I gradually got used to it and learned not to get involved in other people's things. There were even cases when a relative wanted to share something with me and I told him - Don't, you know I'm going to say something ... Even people who have known me for a long time are already joking about it and are not angry with me. What to do - I'm human. With each accumulated year on top, I learn more and more not to get involved in other people's things and to know where, what and with whom I am talking. :)) And you will learn, as long as you want. Good luck There have even been cases when someone close to me wanted to share something with me and I told him - Don't, you know I'm going to say something ... Even people who have known me for a long time are already joking about it and are not angry with me. What to do - I'm human. With each accumulated year on top, I learn more and more not to get involved in other people's things and to know where, what and with whom I am talking. :)) And you will learn, as long as you want. Success Bad There have even been cases when someone close to me wanted to share something with me and I told him - Don't, you know I'm going to say something ... Even people who have known me for a long time are already joking about it and are not angry with me. What to do - I'm human. With each accumulated year on top, I learn more and more not to get involved in other people's things and to know where, what and with whom I am talking. :)) And you will learn, as long as you want. Success Bad
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You gossip said it yourself;)