Hello .. I don't know if this is my stupidity or love ... I hope you will help me in the right decision .. I love my best friend. We met him at the beginning of the summer. She left with her boyfriend at the end of the summer and in the fall we started going out just to smoke one or two cigarettes ... we are best friends, I didn't mind, there was nothing to do. But alas, he started to like me, but I didn't tell him. One day my best friend asked him if he had anything to do with me and he said that I was nice to him ... nothing serious. But then he was teasing, nagging, and by the time I realized he had already kissed me. We started to deal and I started to get annoyed with her, to be jealous, to ask him when they would break up. He told me when the holidays were over and I okay, I believed him ... he told me soon, and that was for 4 months. A week ago, my ex-best friend found out from me and didn't react well, but these are other movies ... she had written to his boyfriend if she wanted him to see only the two of them. And she asked him what it was for and he said that I like him, which is the coolest thing to blame you for ... but I was dumb that he wanted to stay with her. He is not a man not to stand behind his words ... but he is quite strange, he is not like the other boys and I do not say that, because I am in love, he just has a different character, nothing that he is a coward and accuses everyone so that he comes out innocent ... but I love it. I really see that he loves me ... I'm pretty naive in general, but I know him better than his boyfriend ... she doesn't know anything about him. I was trying to be bad, I didn't care about anything, I didn't kiss him, even once he would cry because I didn't even hug him ... we didn't try to write to each other. . it became even less, now I show him all my love to understand that he will lose a lot. And in the summer we will have a lot of time together and we can do something, and if I don't break up with her I go to ... They tell me to give up, but I don't want to I can't .. we constantly fight because I think negative things about our relationship if there will be one .. but the people around me make such movies for me and I am terribly confused .. for example, that he only wants sex for the summer or to have a female company because his boyfriend is in another city. And he doesn't want to break up with her, because they are in the same class, that after him she will become a light girl and in general he cares a lot and I understand him. And she thinks it's best to break up at the end of the summer, because she'd take it better and not commit suicide .. she loved him a lot .. she was attached ... And no, I don't love him, I'm not not attached at all, I do not suffer .. what should I suffer .. What should I do? See if I break up with her by the end of the summer or? : (((((
1 cici_shellz answered
Will you wait for it until the end of this summer or next summer? Try to limit yourself to at least 3-4 summers, the best ... At the moment you persist and think that this liglio is the love of your life, that you liked it once and you will never forget it again. NONSENSE was a girl. If he left her, she would become a light girl, you shout. I understand. But what are you doing right now? How can you let anyone play with you like that. And yes - of course he wants sex, you're in high school after all. There, everyone wants it and no one chooses who knows how much, it's age. But I am most interested in something else. Let him be cowardly, etc. How can you want to be with someone who is cheating on his girlfriend? Don't you find it base and pathetic? The men you would like to be with hardly do that.