What about the typical story of a failed relationship at a distance? I'm 20, my girlfriend is 19, I study and I live in London, otherwise, I'm from a smaller town, she's also from my town. Last year we started, we were at her prom together, everything exactly, but she went to work in England with hers, with the caveat that she wanted to come back until she decided what she was going to study, that she didn't want to right away, and I was already 1st. If she had said, I would have gone with her and gone in absentia, but she even assured me she didn't have to and would come back. I missed you so much, but every day we heard each other, kept in touch without suffocating virtually. Even a few times she was jealous of me and was very worried about replacing her, but I proved she wouldn't. I'm blind to other women, I don't even sing them, I only like her, I love her! At least I'm like that when I love only one person, and I'm not dizzy from every beauty around, I'm cancer and I love a real one. Besides, I don't go out, study and work, I don't have time for, I don't want to, I'm a homemaker. However, she has time to apparently go out and she has met some Hungarian, not an Englishman. She told me just like that out of nowhere. "We need to talk, you're there, and I'm here, I'm starting to get torn apart about a guy who's my friend and he's like a personal psychologist... She told him how much she felt about her work sometimes, and mostly because of our dividing distance. And she must have seen something more in him. Otherwise, he wouldn't have thought about it like I don't. The irony is that I've always been there for her sharing and advice, but she wanted live contact, and not to burden me. I didn't get mad, and I told her that after the exams this year, I'd go to her right away, and she, I hope it's not too late then. First, we agreed that she would come back because she wanted to, then she backed off, and I guess she'd be still there. Second, we've promised each other many times that if we break up, it'il be live and we won't give up while we're away from each other. I guess she only knows how to say her word. Well, I'm stupid. It's not enough that I'm struggling and making all the compromises, what does she imply? That he's going to cheat on me with him, that he's going to dump me for him? Then I got mad at her, she immediately started apologizing, but now my trust is half over. I love her very much. I've been thinking about her even more since then. I've had a girlfriend before and I loved her so much, but she cheated on me, and that's my sick subject! I'm not one of those players to spin a few or with weak angels at every turn. I want her back. After the first relationship, I was shattered and a year, and something came together. Now a second time? And all the lost time, since October has gone, and I live to see her again, and she slightly replaces me? What kind of people are you? How do you like to yesterday, today another? Is that how love goes? I've spoken to hers, they said they didn't know and thought everything was fine between us and they were angry at her actions, but I asked them not to bother her and that everything was her choice after all. It's interesting where he puts my feelings in the picture. Just pretend they matter. What am I supposed to do? Is it over?
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