What about the typical story of a failed relationship at a distance? I'm 20, my girlfriend is 19, I study and I live in London, otherwise, I'm from a smaller town, she's also from my town. Last year we started, we were at her prom together, everything exactly, but she went to work in England with hers, with the caveat that she wanted to come back until she decided what she was going to study, that she didn't want to right away, and I was already 1st. If she had said, I would have gone with her and gone in absentia, but she even assured me she didn't have to and would come back. I missed you so much, but every day we heard each other, kept in touch without suffocating virtually. Even a few times she was jealous of me and was very worried about replacing her, but I proved she wouldn't. I'm blind to other women, I don't even sing them, I only like her, I love her! At least I'm like that when I love only one person, and I'm not dizzy from every beauty around, I'm cancer and I love a real one. Besides, I don't go out, study and work, I don't have time for, I don't want to, I'm a homemaker. However, she has time to apparently go out and she has met some Hungarian, not an Englishman. She told me just like that out of nowhere. "We need to talk, you're there, and I'm here, I'm starting to get torn apart about a guy who's my friend and he's like a personal psychologist... She told him how much she felt about her work sometimes, and mostly because of our dividing distance. And she must have seen something more in him. Otherwise, he wouldn't have thought about it like I don't. The irony is that I've always been there for her sharing and advice, but she wanted live contact, and not to burden me. I didn't get mad, and I told her that after the exams this year, I'd go to her right away, and she, I hope it's not too late then. First, we agreed that she would come back because she wanted to, then she backed off, and I guess she'd be still there. Second, we've promised each other many times that if we break up, it'il be live and we won't give up while we're away from each other. I guess she only knows how to say her word. Well, I'm stupid. It's not enough that I'm struggling and making all the compromises, what does she imply? That he's going to cheat on me with him, that he's going to dump me for him? Then I got mad at her, she immediately started apologizing, but now my trust is half over. I love her very much. I've been thinking about her even more since then. I've had a girlfriend before and I loved her so much, but she cheated on me, and that's my sick subject! I'm not one of those players to spin a few or with weak angels at every turn. I want her back. After the first relationship, I was shattered and a year, and something came together. Now a second time? And all the lost time, since October has gone, and I live to see her again, and she slightly replaces me? What kind of people are you? How do you like to yesterday, today another? Is that how love goes? I've spoken to hers, they said they didn't know and thought everything was fine between us and they were angry at her actions, but I asked them not to bother her and that everything was her choice after all. It's interesting where he puts my feelings in the picture. Just pretend they matter. What am I supposed to do? Is it over?
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raunchyrepunzel answered · June 06, 2020
I'd rather do. Long-distance relationships are doomed to failure. She's 20, and you know, that's exactly the age every young person needs intimacy. Loyalty is something that is born in a person, and most of the people are not. Too bad you love her so much, and she responds like that. Only 20 years old and twice breaking your heart is not good. And I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a long way, and I see things aren't working out. The bad news is that I can't concentrate on my endeavors and I'm afraid I'm going to hit the bottom emotionally and risk my education, and if it's worth it - maybe not, but I don't feel alive for sure. I understand you very well, but I can only sympathize with you.
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maridekoks answered · June 06, 2020
Such honest and dedicated people as you are, in this life, are always deceived and abandoned. Which is a pity, really, but a woman's faith not to have. In time, you'il get bitter and start them with no feelings. But for the Dults in question - she didn't love you at first, much since she easily accepted to live apart. And she's accepted you from dawn zaman, just like that- to have someone for security, not to cuckoe alone. And it's very shameless to keep you to the point where he's going to find out if something's going to happen to the new one or not: like the monkey doesn't let go of the branch before it's hooked on a new branch.
Don't you have pride? Why do you let her lead you by the nose like a jerk? You're going to wait to see if that guy's going to get her, and if he just hires her and kicks her out, you're going to take her back, because you love her and you're with a good heart? Well, she's going to start rolling her eyes for something better [for her]. Spit on her on top - she doesn't deserve love.
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xxhothotxxx answered · June 06, 2020
Such honest and dedicated people as you are, in this life, are always deceived and abandoned. Which is a pity, really, but a woman's faith not to have. In time, you'il get bitter and start them with no feelings. But for the Dults in question - she didn't love you at first, much since she easily accepted to live apart. And she's accepted you from dawn zaman, just like that- to have someone for security, not to cuckoe alone. And it's very shameless to keep you to the point where he's going to find out if something's going to happen to the new one or not: like the monkey doesn't let go of the branch before it's hooked on a new branch.
Don't you have pride? Why do you let her lead you by the nose like a jerk? You're going to wait to see if that guy's going to get her, and if he just hires her and kicks her out, you're going to take her back, because you love her and you're with a good heart? Well, she's going to start rolling her eyes for something better [for her]. Spit on her on top - she doesn't deserve love.
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lukehunk answered · June 06, 2020
She's honored that she told you, not to lie and smear behind your back. Else... i think things are going to break up. This line of her "i hope it's not too late then" shows that she doesn't appreciate the effort you're making for her at all. I don't think he's setting you an ultimatum.
I also in my 20s and I'm in a remote relationship, we met in England at the beginning of last autumn, I came to study here first year, he was last, summer finished and got a nice job and came home, I was also home for the summer, from autumn back to England, but we made a trip back to London autumn, then I was all month at Christmas , now I'm back for a month and a half in England and next week I'm going home and I'm going to have my internship at home and we'il be together. I'm very happy, and I was worried about the distance initially, but when communication between people is good, distance is not a hindrance, also when you hold the person by your side, it comes into your account and plans for the future - my education is of course important as well as the future career, but it is also important to me and makes me happy more than diplomas , works and things like that.
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speedo_guy answered · June 06, 2020
This one doesn't know what she wants. There's no point in going to her. Come back if she cares about you. If you make a compromise like that, it'il kick you in the balls every time you have some kind of conflict. So either come back if he wants live contact or go to the psychologists.