She Doesn't Want Children !?

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Hello moderators and readers of this wonderful site! I will drive it straight to my problem, if it can be called a problem. A 26-year-old man I am a university graduate and working in my specialty. From 5 years I have a relationship with a woman of 24 years. I will call her Alex because I will mention her often. We met at sea - she was beautiful, thin, slender and unrestrained - a girl determined not to live by the rules. We liked each other and started going out. Gradually I fell in love with her rebellious soul and will to live a free life, she wanted to try everything - we had an open relationship, Alex insisted on it and I agreed. She is bisexual and wanted to have sex with women, rather with a woman, her friend. I accepted it, even though I never did it with another woman, she kept telling me that she does not want the man to be monogamous and to oblige him to sleep only with her. 3 years ago her friend went abroad and stayed there, Alex was very disappointed. It fell into such a period and we ended the open relationship. We really lived as a couple, man and woman without outside interference. I liked - to go together on the beach, on picnics, excursions, parties, even to play sports together. But a year ago I seriously thought about how far I would drive it with this free life, without marriage and without children, I didn't want to be 30 years old. and then to have a child. I started talking to Alex about family and children, but she said she didn't want a family, what a marriage was for, if she really loved the man, she shouldn't show it on a "dirty sheet of paper", and her children were a sick topic. I decided he was just not in the mood and we forgot about the quarrels. After a few days, I started taking her to playgrounds or in front of kindergartens, and I showed that I enjoyed the children, but she stood like a stone, unwavering and adamant. I took my brother's son for 2 weekends. naughty to prove to her how nice it is to have a child, and that we will cope, but she goes crazy. She said that if I wanted children so badly, I would abandon her because she had no intention of ruining her health and body just to give birth. He said that the population was already growing exponentially, why should she give birth to another person to poison the earth. I was shocked by this way of thinking, I did not suspect that she was thinking this way, in her anger, and I said that she, as a woman, was obliged to give birth to my child, and she laughed at me and left. She didn't come home all weekend, her phone was off, and when I went to leave my brother's son and I came back with luggage and he was gone, as well as her car. She had left me a note: "I am a free man and woman and I have the right to refuse to give birth. She is looking for a mother, to give birth to your family, don't tease me, I don't live in the Middle Ages!" Wherever I looked for her - I never found her, a week passed from the incident, I called her father and told him about what happened, he said that she had a difficult childhood - her mother had something like depression and abused her. Maybe that's why he behaves like that. I do not want to give her up, I love her with all my heart, if you can give me advice on how to act, I will be infinitely grateful! I called her father and told him about what had happened, he said that she had a difficult childhood - her mother had something like depression and abused her. Maybe that's why he behaves like that. I do not want to give her up, I love her with all my heart, if you can give me advice on how to act, I will be infinitely grateful! I called her father and told him about what had happened, he said that she had a difficult childhood - her mother had something like depression and abused her. Maybe that's why he behaves like that. I do not want to give her up, I love her with all my heart, if you can give me advice on how to act, I will be infinitely grateful!

Last Updated
November 08, 2020
Author:
LittleFrankie

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