Hello, so I am a very strange case. The problem is that I am ashamed to talk to people with whom I have hardly talked. And because they know me shy, it becomes even harder for me. That's why sometimes I don't dare to say anything in groups. If they didn't know me like that, I would easily dare to join the conversation. I'm not ashamed of strangers anymore, but I was from 8th to 10th grade. That's why I couldn't make friends at school and I was left alone. I'm still alone now, talking to some people in the class, sometimes, but separately. Now I'm trying to join the class group to help with something and soon be in class. But I don't feel like making friends, because everyone is in groups, and they are friends with each other, should I go and intervene? I prefer when no one has met yet, then. I have a feeling that if I relax, they will want to make friends with me and get to know me, but I can't trust everyone and I can hurt someone if I say I don't want to be friends, for example. I don't want to hurt anyone. I'm not looking for help, I just wanted to pour out my soul and know if there are others like me?
1 laila_la answered
Then make them talk to you. Become a top chick but don't forget where you came from and be everyone's friend. There is no magic approach. I've read some psychology and everyone says that people like to call them by name and not hey you hey brother hey edi what are you. Always smile. This breaks the ice. You may be shy but people may think you are arrogant lol.