Hi! I'm a 22-year-old man, I'm a homosexual. My huge problem is that I was intimate with a man older than me - 35 years old. In the beginning, everything was OK, behaving normally and as a person who could be trusted. For a few months now, however, his desires in sex began to become the way I didn't like it, or at least I didn't want to put myself through the same thing, he wanted to make me feel fisting and feel very excited. I said no naturally. A few days later, he came up with another suggestion- to have a threesome with a friend of his. some 40-year-old man, which is almost my father's set, I said no again. I realized that this man was not what he pretended to be at the beginning, and I decided to end any relationship with him. That's when the real bullying started. He started threatening me that if we split up and didn't make his fantasies come true, he'd spread some material with me, after which no one would want to look at me. He was going to mess with my family. They don't know I'm gay, and if they find out that it could really change my life a lot. I don't know what to do. To be exact, no one knows about me. Until now, only him has revealed myself, and he very skillfully uses this hair, and he knows very well that if anyone finds out about me, I may not be among the living anymore. I can't complain to the police either, because there I'm probably going to get just mockery and the case is just going to blow up. He has now given me an ultimatum by next week to decide whether to make him the happiest person or make me the unhappiest.
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slave21cmboy answered · June 07, 2020
If you fulfill his wishes now, he'il keep asking you for more and more, using the same threats, and at some point you're going to say no. But with the difference that after each time you'il be weaker and he'il manipulate you more and more. He draws strength from your fears, which I mean, he'il lose his power over you when he sees you're not afraid of him.
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chrysanthulu answered · June 07, 2020
So he blackmails you in the meanest way. A typical faggot - not gay, but a bash faggot! In fact, it's not his sexual fantasies that are the worst, but that he thinks it's permissible to carry them out through coercion and blackmail. There are two roads: either let yourself get crushed, or break up without fear of the consequences. I think you should consult a lawyer about what you can do in a public embarrassment.
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anitamiamur answered · June 07, 2020
Even if you make his wishes come true, do you think he'il stop there? He's going to keep racking you up, and will you be able to live with a guy like that and be bullied all the time? Maybe he doesn't have any material against you, and he's just bluffing. But now that he's found out you don't want to and are pulling, he's sure to look to secure himself with evidence. I advise you to cancel any contact with him if you need to change your phone and close the social media account. As for yours, if they're people on the ground, they'il love you and accept you for who you are. No one is homo or heterosexual at will, it is encoded in it.
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paulas_room answered · June 07, 2020
So, what if the others find out you're gay? Just tell your parents, they'il find out sooner or later. Now you're 22, by the time you're 30 or 40, there's no way people didn't know anymore by changing 100 boyfriends, at least.
How did he take a picture of you, with what? Can't you find the tapes and delete them, on the pretext that you want to go to him and consider the offer? Send him to the store, for example, and dig up his computer, they've made a mess.
I don't think the police are going to laugh at you, it's blackmail. Recording without consent is a crime. If he puts this on the internet, you have to sue him, he'il get a minimum suspended sentence. Go to the police. They'il cooperate. If something's done in one of the ppu, go to another. That's how I'd made a complaint about mental harassment, in one of them I was given good advice and sent me to the other to process the complaint faster. They took me seriously, too, although they didn't insist on filing a complaint, that is. f. if I had a good say, and i wouldn't, they'd let me go, because that's how they get a lot of work. So you insist, things are going to happen, we're not in the third world. And nobody cares that you're gay, people take this stuff normally.
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countryborn089 answered · June 07, 2020
To make him the happiest man and give him grievous bodily harm by cutting off his balls, you're going to get a suspended sentence and he's going to find out how crazy you are, or just ignore him, and that's obviously the time for your parents to find out, and that's because it's bad, it's going to come back to him.
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fastball154 answered · June 07, 2020
Don't give in to this pervert's manipulations! Let him reveal you, a miracle big! I very much doubt he's going to do it, he's threatening you to force you later. Okay, you're gay, have the guts to post, just don't exaggerate the consequences for you. Anyway, you have to do it anyway, why not now? Be brave and take it easy, you didn't kill a man, you did! Don't buy it, block him everywhere, good luck!
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exclusive77 answered · June 08, 2020
Tell him you're straight now and don't fall for his threats. And if he doesn't leave you alone, you'il file a complaint.
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studenthorny19 answered · June 08, 2020
You've been advised upstairs!
It is best to go to a lawyer and in any case and to the police
And you stop all communication with him, forever... Only with lawyers...
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wtfo89 answered · June 08, 2020
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I'm not expecting it! I think the lawyer option is the best. There was a gay organization that deals with legal issues, and I might ask them what to do.
Otherwise, the option of revealing myself for the moment is impossible, because my family and loved ones are very conservative and will beat me up if they find out, and as I said, I may not be among the living afterwards.
Thank you again, people!!!
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veronica_rosse answered · June 09, 2020
Share with yours, do not keep them in the dark, after all we live in the 21st century, they will understand you / I would understand and protect my child/. Don't take into account public opinion, what your sex drive is, it's your personal choice! Good advice has given you one of the pre-rations - consult a lawyer, break it down at all, my boy! Success!
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camillabenz answered · June 09, 2020
Man, this is a serious thing. You can't let them blackmail and manipulate you in such a vile way. First of all, tell your loved ones. What's there to hide? Being gay is not a crime, and that's what your preference is. If you're a Muslim ilo gypsy, I understand. If you reveal yourself, you're going to have a lot of harassment. But if you're Bulgarian, I don't see any reason to hide. Tell your parents they'il be struggling and disappointed, but in a few months they'il be fine. They love you anyway, they'il accept you for who you are.
Go file a complaint with the police. The police are a law enforcement body that must protect the rights of citizens! How come they're going to make fun of them? If they make fun of them, you're going to sue them for discrimination. Know that they won't stop watching with ridicule of gays if you don't do something yourself and seek your rights. By no means should you be manipulated, show this lunatic that you're not afraid of getting out about being gay. Be indifferent.
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sexysamworkouttime answered · June 09, 2020
Why don't you give him a fight and he knows his place?
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judee_coy answered · June 10, 2020
Don't you have any acquaintances that for 50 bucks will break both caps? I love someone pretending to be a man to me without knowing it's the wrong decision to eat through a straw and pee with a catheter.
It's Bratan.
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mikako_tabe answered · June 10, 2020
Just pack up and go somewhere. Whatever's going to happen.
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redandboujee18 answered · June 10, 2020
Go to the police and file a complaint! What's so embarrassing? No one's going to violate your confidentiality! If he exposes you to the family, you can deny it. It's okay to threaten him that if he sends out pictures or stuff, you're going to get a shot, for example. you're going to start his car, or you're going to beat him up or something to make him feel better. And by no means do you keep in touch with him anymore. Block it from everywhere. If you can, go abroad for a few months. A student brigade or something. And now be careful who you reveal yourself to, for those who need meaecs to get to know each other, not one or two views. Success
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anabellaxxx1 answered · June 11, 2020
Don't let the world please him, but nothing. He doesn't have any sex with him, because now he might have nothing to embarrass you with, but next time he can put on a camera and you don't even suspect at all, and then it's going to get even more embarrassing. Break up with him right now!!!
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clei_ answered · June 11, 2020
people who pretend to be some of the other are mentally ill psychopaths, but it's an incurable condition, a sick soul and a sick psyche, run away
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suzianne answered · June 12, 2020
Ignore it completely. Block all communications, completely avoid places and routes you would detect. If he says, say, you'il think so. Don't become a masochist and a victim. And above all, calm down and stop filming.