you did not hit a right partner
I suggest you have sex on a back sling and so your partner can stimulate you with one hand and clitoris or you can stimulate yourself while he penetrates.
in the missionary position, gather your legs so that his arms cover you so that his penis will enter you vertically and will press and stimulate your clitoris.
Some women need many years to reach orgasm! Don't worry, try different poses until you find yours, and don't despair, the reason is by no means masturbating.
I get wet every time I kiss, what is it and what should I do? help
I myself have the same problem - I have sex, but I do not feel pleasure. But my friend doesn't know about it, I'm hiding it from him.
I have had sex with several different partners and I do not experience any pleasure, or even sometimes pain, and I have never experienced pleasure or orgasm.
On the question of why there is no pleasure when you make love dear ladies, I can make the following assumption:
During orgasm, when I cum, I pee .... Is this normal? What should I do?
Don't listen to them, they don't understand anything. They didn't love you with love, if they loved you with love, love would hit all the nerve endings in your brain that are connected to your genitals. Something is not tied. Come, chicks, to Daddy's name ... let's see if you know what an orgasm is or you'll first understand what a multiple orgasms is. There are techniques for these things and my advice is to try with someone more experienced ... LIKE ME! :) Joke :)
Many women are like that. And I can only cum if my clitoris is further irritated. The way out is sex positions in which while he penetrates you can crush your clitoris alone. And don't worry about what this looks like in the eyes of men, they find it quite arousing!
Well, what to do - that was our destiny - it is not fair at all - we have all the unpleasant sensations and on top of that our most erogenous zone is outside and does not participate in the penetration, which means that standard sex is much more fun for men, because that's how they end - again a joke with the female sex
Well, I'm 12 years old and basically fuck with a marker, but I have an orgasm .. and I don't know about you
Educate yourself a little, it was girls. Rejoice that you can finish somehow. A large proportion of women have never had an orgasm. Most can only end in the clitoris and have had a vaginal orgasm several times in their lives. You have to get it a few times by chance, and then you will learn how to provoke it yourself with a good enough partner, of course. However, this takes a long time.
G30: So I'm happy with multiple orgasms at every intercourse ... Enjoy life and sex, of course ...
And I have not experienced a vaginal orgasm .. but sex with my friend is the greatest pleasure .. we start slowly in the missionary, as he does not stop kissing me .. :) then, of course, we get hot and sex becomes animal - biting, pulling on my hair .. I love sex with my man! :) nothing that I do not reach orgasm .. so I have a clitoris :)
I want to say a few things ... I hope it helped.
100% is not related to love and whether enough feelings are invested by the man. I was with a great boy, he was famous as a playboy, he was good in bed, we were together for a year and a half .. we loved each other a lot and he tried very hard during sex, but I never got a vaginal orgasm .. I thought that I have a huge problem. I only received a clitoris, it was much easier, and he licked like the world ... I cried for a minute with pleasure.
I also enjoyed it when I leaned back on the bed with one hand, but then the girl had to do everything and it was much harder to finish ... I failed because the boy liked it a lot and it ended so long before me. .
Whatever partner I was with, I could never reach orgasm. Recently, however, I had sex with a boy who had no feelings for me, everything was obviously just for sex, lasted over an hour, because he saw that I could not finish, but it happened 2 times and 2 times were while I was with my back to him on knees, canine legs open and only when I bend my upper body up enough so that it touches my G-spot long enough.
As number 17, I am also happy - I finish in various ways and many, many times. The fact is, however, that I get the strongest orgasms when I masturbate. I think most women don't end up because they have all sorts of complexes and worries. Of course, it also depends on the partner and experience. But I can also finish with someone who is an absolute tree, as long as he is not small - I climb on top and I'm fine :)
The key to the shed lies in the love game. So far I have been with a dozen partners, but the only one brought me to orgasm. Love game for about 30 minutes - kisses on the neck and between the legs, caressing with a barely noticeable touch in certain places, licking the clitoris. Then sex for about 20 minutes and I reached orgasm. It's not that complicated, but few men do. I share the opinion that men look only at their own pleasure.
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