Hello. My problem is this: I have a serious friend for about a year but not once when we had sex did I end :(
I only cum when he licks me because he puts his finger in my vagina and at the same time stimulates my clitoris. I have been with other guys but the result is the same: sex without pleasure and orgasm !!!!! It probably happens because when I masturbate I stimulate only the clitoris without inserting various things into the vagina. and during sex, my clitoris does not touch at all. and I am used to touching and therefore I can only cum when licking. please tell me what to do. give me some advice
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maasha18 answered · May 16, 2020
you did not hit a right partner
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arianna_g answered · May 16, 2020
I suggest you have sex on a back sling and so your partner can stimulate you with one hand and clitoris or you can stimulate yourself while he penetrates.
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lucian_amber answered · May 16, 2020
in the missionary position, gather your legs so that his arms cover you so that his penis will enter you vertically and will press and stimulate your clitoris.
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sexmachineisback answered · May 16, 2020
Some women need many years to reach orgasm! Don't worry, try different poses until you find yours, and don't despair, the reason is by no means masturbating.
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western_guy answered · May 16, 2020
I get wet every time I kiss, what is it and what should I do? help
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amelinda_01 answered · May 16, 2020
I myself have the same problem - I have sex, but I do not feel pleasure. But my friend doesn't know about it, I'm hiding it from him.
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peachygia answered · May 17, 2020
I have had sex with several different partners and I do not experience any pleasure, or even sometimes pain, and I have never experienced pleasure or orgasm.
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cuteandslut answered · May 17, 2020
On the question of why there is no pleasure when you make love dear ladies, I can make the following assumption:
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natasha_cute15 answered · May 17, 2020
During orgasm, when I cum, I pee .... Is this normal? What should I do?
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evelyn_foxx_ answered · May 18, 2020
It's squirting.
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mistermagoo5522 answered · May 18, 2020
Don't listen to them, they don't understand anything. They didn't love you with love, if they loved you with love, love would hit all the nerve endings in your brain that are connected to your genitals. Something is not tied. Come, chicks, to Daddy's name ... let's see if you know what an orgasm is or you'll first understand what a multiple orgasms is. There are techniques for these things and my advice is to try with someone more experienced ... LIKE ME! :) Joke :)
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infinitysimo answered · May 18, 2020
Many women are like that. And I can only cum if my clitoris is further irritated. The way out is sex positions in which while he penetrates you can crush your clitoris alone. And don't worry about what this looks like in the eyes of men, they find it quite arousing!
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hellocleo40 answered · May 19, 2020
Well, what to do - that was our destiny - it is not fair at all - we have all the unpleasant sensations and on top of that our most erogenous zone is outside and does not participate in the penetration, which means that standard sex is much more fun for men, because that's how they end - again a joke with the female sex
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musscllegay2 answered · May 19, 2020
Well, I'm 12 years old and basically fuck with a marker, but I have an orgasm .. and I don't know about you
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driver7569 answered · May 19, 2020
then draw your hair
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kaykay5286 answered · May 20, 2020
Educate yourself a little, it was girls. Rejoice that you can finish somehow. A large proportion of women have never had an orgasm. Most can only end in the clitoris and have had a vaginal orgasm several times in their lives. You have to get it a few times by chance, and then you will learn how to provoke it yourself with a good enough partner, of course. However, this takes a long time.
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dexter_dick answered · May 20, 2020
G30: So I'm happy with multiple orgasms at every intercourse ... Enjoy life and sex, of course ...
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mbbc35 answered · May 20, 2020
And I have not experienced a vaginal orgasm .. but sex with my friend is the greatest pleasure .. we start slowly in the missionary, as he does not stop kissing me .. :) then, of course, we get hot and sex becomes animal - biting, pulling on my hair .. I love sex with my man! :) nothing that I do not reach orgasm .. so I have a clitoris :)
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ebony2727 answered · May 20, 2020
I want to say a few things ... I hope it helped.
100% is not related to love and whether enough feelings are invested by the man. I was with a great boy, he was famous as a playboy, he was good in bed, we were together for a year and a half .. we loved each other a lot and he tried very hard during sex, but I never got a vaginal orgasm .. I thought that I have a huge problem. I only received a clitoris, it was much easier, and he licked like the world ... I cried for a minute with pleasure.
I also enjoyed it when I leaned back on the bed with one hand, but then the girl had to do everything and it was much harder to finish ... I failed because the boy liked it a lot and it ended so long before me. .
Whatever partner I was with, I could never reach orgasm. Recently, however, I had sex with a boy who had no feelings for me, everything was obviously just for sex, lasted over an hour, because he saw that I could not finish, but it happened 2 times and 2 times were while I was with my back to him on knees, canine legs open and only when I bend my upper body up enough so that it touches my G-spot long enough.
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jellyfantassy answered · May 21, 2020
As number 17, I am also happy - I finish in various ways and many, many times. The fact is, however, that I get the strongest orgasms when I masturbate. I think most women don't end up because they have all sorts of complexes and worries. Of course, it also depends on the partner and experience. But I can also finish with someone who is an absolute tree, as long as he is not small - I climb on top and I'm fine :)
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j0hana_bbw answered · May 21, 2020
The key to the shed lies in the love game. So far I have been with a dozen partners, but the only one brought me to orgasm. Love game for about 30 minutes - kisses on the neck and between the legs, caressing with a barely noticeable touch in certain places, licking the clitoris. Then sex for about 20 minutes and I reached orgasm. It's not that complicated, but few men do. I share the opinion that men look only at their own pleasure.