I met a man at Gepime.com. At first we just wrote letters and pretended to like each other, but we had no intentions for anything outside the online space ... everything was just like that, because we live 150 km from each other, and I let him know that one-time sex is not among my interests. But by chance we found ourselves in the same city, close to each other, and quite spontaneously and quickly decided to go out for coffee. The meeting was quite ordinary, even a little disappointing (for me), but we still continued to write after that and it turned out that we both have a desire for the 2nd. So far, a lot of time has passed during which our conversations became more serious, and often about our relationship, and he repeatedly assured me that he really likes me and what he is looking for is not just sex. So one day we agreed to go visit him for the weekend, but the night before I left there I received a text message admitting that he was really only interested in sexual relations ... I felt affected, but also a little angry, but still I decided to go again. We had a good time, even though there were slightly strange situations at times, and in the end we didn't have sex. But when I came home and we continued to write to each other, something in him had changed - he was much more insistent, he paid me much more attention, I received nice text messages, and I decided that all this was happening because my stay with him he was even more eager to catch up with his goal, so I tried to break off my relationship with him. But when I did that, he admitted to me that he was falling in love with me and a bunch of other things that sounded pretty sincere. Since I had nothing to lose, I decided to trust him and soon after I went to visit him again. But this time we already had sex, but on my own initiative. And sex wasn't the typical thing I was used to, but rather it made lovemaking. It was real and sensual. The next day I had to leave because I had a job, but again, as we continue to write to each other, he behaves as after our second meeting, he is even kinder. Outside of sexual relationships, we have also had a lot of conversations, we like each other as individuals, and the time we spend together can be said to have become somewhat closer. As I get more and more attracted to him, I wonder if it's the same with him or if he really only wants a purely sexual relationship ... I just forgot to mention that we have a 10-year age difference,
1 oyasamu_01 answered
You should have started with the fact that he is 10 years older than you, and not mentioned it like that, by the way, at the end of the last paragraph, because that, at least for me personally, changed my opinion about the whole situation. And it's that he's just playing with you. Take it literally, I guess at first it will be hard for you to believe or you just won't want to believe because you obviously have feelings for him, but things look like this, judging by what you wrote. This is a man who is much older than you and is much more experienced. He knows how to behave and what to do to get what he wants, and once he realized that you don't just want sex, he decided he would get it the hard way. He has entangled you in his nets, he has told you a lot of nonsense, and you have slept with him. I think it will hurt you if you continue your "relationship". Don't be naive and be careful, good luck. :)