I write because I want to share and if someone experiences the same, tell me if it makes sense in the whole thing :) There is a boy we have known for many years, and he liked me very much. But it so happened that he first had a girlfriend and then moved to another city, and I did not respond in any way to his feelings. Years later, the wheel turned so that now I am the one who likes him very much, I feel very strong feelings, but the problem is that we rarely see each other and he somehow changed his attitude towards me.
A few months ago we went out as friends and acquaintances and ended up in bed. For the first few weeks, everything was fine, as if we were boyfriends, but gradually he stopped calling me. Now we see each other very rarely - our relationship is very strange. We have sex and everything is wonderful, but then nothing again - until next time. Every time I swear we don't get to bed, but he's the only one I have sex with and I'm just fine with him and when I see him I don't hold back, but the next day I know he's in town and he doesn't call me, even if he hears me how I am and I feel very sick. I don't know what to do. I don't have enough will to stop seeing him, but I realize that the work is not good and that I'm just hurting myself. Someone give me some advice, please!
1 ayann333 answered
Have sex with him if you are well, you may soon find someone with whom you can not only have sex but also share your daily life, and with the other you can just remain friends ... Good luck!