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Sex And Me

By mark_and_david November 04, 2020 20 answers Last updated November 04, 2020

Hello! At 22 I am. I have been in a relationship for almost a year and he is my first. I will go straight to the questions. Why don't I enjoy sex I like it when I see that he is fine, but I always want him to finish faster and it is good that we do not do it for 1-2 hours. And the other thing is that I don't get wet at all, I use a cream that penetrates more easily (he doesn't know about it). It just doesn't work without it, I'm so dry that it even fell off. Not to mention orgasms and the like. I am not a fan of oral love and we do not apply it. Don't judge me, I'm just more anxious and it's not for me yet. I love it and I don't want to change it. We don't talk about sex either. I do not know what to do. Is it possible because I have no experience and I can't relax?

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sieralili answered · November 04, 2020

   It is possible. How is masturbation? Do you cum on your own and do you enjoy touching yourself? If so, then you can work on your technique / him and try to relax more and be in the moment and enjoy it. Try more foreplay. Look in your mind for what excites you as an idea and do it.

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deniz answered · November 04, 2020

   I don't understand people in a relationship who don't talk about their problems and just suffer in silence .....

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pszczolkidwie answered · November 04, 2020

   And I don't blow. It should. Men got very used to porn and broke down. And if they care so much about the whistles, they must have pedal inclinations, a small member, too lazy to knock them, or a combination of the above. Already when I hear about men and I vomit, literally. Just knowing what is in their heads.

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sciencemuseum answered · November 04, 2020

   It's OK for you to fool around. What are you going to change, that's a whore. One fuck will not fix your life. You are dry because your brain dictates so, drink a little brandy, vodka for aperitif and everything is correct.

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kxaxmichelle answered · November 04, 2020

   You are still thinking of a child and your sex started before it was time for him. Or you're just asexual. Is the desire at the level at least? In my opinion, find someone more experienced than you will get wet while he is approaching you!

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jewelshire answered · November 04, 2020

   You have hormone problems or anemia. The lack of hydration in me turned out to be iron deficiency anemia.

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ayleengrey answered · November 04, 2020

   Don't worry, many women are born that way, they don't like sex, that's why life is wonderful and diverse. Don't die without sex go ahead.

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b8w answered · November 04, 2020

   The problem is in it. Drop it. This man is not good for sex and you have no experience of realizing that you are sick of him.

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user30930920 answered · November 04, 2020

   Find someone you get wet from just seeing him!

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futababroth answered · November 04, 2020

   Hi, I also have this problem, I already think that I was just born a jerk, all my girlfriends explain how they love sex, what amazing sex they have. But as soon as it penetrates me - nothing, or pain or nothing. It's very nice to see him feel good, but it hurts or I don't feel anything. I went to 2 gynecologists, I tried to explain to them what the problem was, but they always said it was an infection, they would treat me, it would pass, they would get used to the walls .. Yes but no .. I can advise you to go to the doctor to see if you really don't have something, it can work for you.

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blackgirlmagic_ answered · November 04, 2020

   And I'm one of those people who thinks you should get wet when you see them. If you don't relax, doesn't he see this thing, or is he just a FLEA there ... How come you don't talk about sex like that, don't you leave comments "tonight I'll break you", how come you don't talk about sex like that, he doesn't see If you don't like it much, wait for me to think a little more, but I don't think you know you don't like it. Abe, I don't know, I wish you happiness, I don't want you to take it badly if you feel it's not like that, but I don't think you're coming, you don't know that you don't like each other and the day will come when one will say "abe, come on" and the other "Oh good thing you said it and i can't anymore ". Why do you hide from him that you use cream? Aren't you used to sharing with your partner, whoever he is? Or you just don't like it, dude, but you think that this is the connection? Don't confuse what a relationship really is? (I'm single but I talk a lot). If you think it's worth it, fix the communication with him, but why doesn't he see that you don't have fun especially during sex, you don't moan, etc ... Is he skinny, there's something rotten here. If I don't remember something else by the end of my comment, some other exception, it seems to me that you are in this relationship as an obligation. Who teaches you like that, it's not good, mom and dad? You have to enjoy each other, smile and rejoice, he should walk away from you looking at you and JUMP if you change clothes, and you, for example, if you see him after training, your juice will flow from below. Don't feel how you got to the end of sex, because from the moment of the JUMP to the end you focused only on the feelings of love and sexual pleasure. E ** si,

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adiadi123 answered · November 04, 2020

   I made a super similar post like yours because I didn't see it. Mine is just much more detailed and long, but the essence is the same. Great that you already have the answers, I have a feeling that the answer is in '' hormone problems or anemia. The lack of hydration in me turned out to be iron deficiency anemia. "

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joychonticha answered · November 05, 2020

   Well, people, I think you're crazy. You know how you spit on people who take someone of the opposite sex because they look good: you only hear "ah this winter just because of his appearance, and he's dumb as a pillar." Okay, what do you think is the other extreme? Both extremes do not bring a positive result. One of them can only run when she sees her partner, but they have nothing in common but physics, and the other can complain to her husband that he is such, such, caring, that he has a university degree, I don't know what's there, but for make no difference to the excitement of touching her husband or the wall in the hallway. Anemia, iron deficiency .. MAYBE, it is possible, but do not forget! People have buttons and these buttons are pressed automatically when you get what you want, or manually from some drugs that fix deficits or something else. These deficits, I don't know what reason you think it's because you don't have enough iron, or you have problems with hormones, what reason do you think? What's wrong with you lacking iron or having a hormone problem, have you ever wondered? What's the matter with you? Don't you want to know the point of WHY? What is the reason? Yes, it can be stress, in principle a lot of things come from stress and a lot of people justify it also even if it is not stress, but you can just be extreme not to be satisfied physically or mentally, it can also be limited to physically and / or mentally by your partner is not excluded. Don't think that by avoiding insults to your parents "not to be a fan of a simpleton, who has a nice ass" or "Look at him, what a scoundrel he is because he graduated law and has a lot of money" and you went to the other extreme, you can't get an imbalance, it's just hard work but FUCK those people who make you go from extreme to extreme, they don't know what you want, and to watch it there are simple parents who tell their children to do something because THEY, the parents, they will feel good, and they will have fun in front of neighbors, and they will not be ashamed in front of people who meet them often for what you are, but you may try to be that thing, and not want to be so, yes your consciousness is distorted, you are crippled for life by relatives and friends. Yes, they are our parents, some of us are relatives, but don't tell me that they all think the best for their children, when I say "the best" I mean really the best WITHOUT exception. I'm sorry that I expanded the topic, but if you enjoy a cool ass, be your land, it will make you feel better, and your health will be better. It's true! This anemia and iron deficiency, I can't say it's because you're not with each other, even if I knew you, I wouldn't say it, but it's certainly something that doesn't make you feel good, how the hell Do these things happen to you, you wondered? How so? LLL

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ronnie1948 answered · November 05, 2020

   From the author to 13: Thanks for this comment, but how can I tell him I use a cream because I'm dry? Or are you in a hurry and I can't get aroused? How will it feel? We don't share things about sex. I am ashamed and he is my first. In the beginning we used lubricant, but I decided to go with cream. Maybe it's wrong, I'm misleading him anyway. After sex, he asks me if I'm done, how many times, and I'm silent. I do not know what to say. I love him and maybe that's what our relationship is based on. There is nothing dirty, messages or I will tear you apart. Always a childish love, which is not bad, but he passes 30 should know women.

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barbieprincessbbw answered · November 05, 2020

   Oh, girl, find another one. There are men who are great in bed and predispose a woman, and those who are useless. Ask the patillo. I am an old woman. At the time I married a handsome man, for love, sex was not important, love was important. Everything is important and especially sex. Yours is one of the second-clogged fuckers. I have had experience, though not great, with men with whom just the thought of sex makes me wet, and I have had great pleasure. And those with whom nothing, no pleasure, no desire. Well, in the end, I was cold and insensitive, frigid - that's how they got me out. You don't need mold in bed. You are young. Life is ahead of you.

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timeababos answered · November 05, 2020

   My advice is the next time he asks you to tell him you're not done. To try harder. There is nothing wrong with using a lubricant, even most are extra arousing. Emphasize kissing and foreplay and hope things work out. Plus, once you're the first one, it takes time to relax and get to know him, at least.

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sam_concepcion answered · November 05, 2020

   Up to 17 Are you one of those who go to the experienced, probably gifted? And how are you in bed? How do they evaluate men? And one more thing: If all women turn to men as you describe, then you will share such a copy with many others! I want to say that with your logic you form an impossible variant of human relationships !!! A kind of super lovers will have harems and you will be theirs! Are these super lovers sheikhs for now ??? Because, if they are not, I don't think who will support you !!! Have you ever wondered if the current sheikhs and super-rich people on Earth are as good lovers as you would like? And do they sexually satisfy the women they sleep with in the way on which you want to be satisfied or just l * shkat without thinking what the chick feels? WHICH DO YOU THINK OF THE TWO IS MORE LIKELY TO HAPPEN AT THIS MOMENT ???

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christophedabir answered · November 05, 2020

   I'm up to 19 Men. If you look for info, you will find that harems have been quite common in the past. Now it's not much different ... 5% of men have all women.

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youngy_18 answered · November 06, 2020

   Not up to 19 Shekhs, but financiers, traders, entrepreneurs, department heads, young and old meringues ...

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lilou4u answered · November 06, 2020

   From 19 to 20 You are alluding to influential people and those with a lot of money. Again, I want you to think about whether they sexually satisfy the women they sleep with, whether their wives do not suffer from always being with someone younger OR just beautiful. " snowdrops "have all tamed to one, because of the STEAM? Until 17 - The world doesn't seem very rosy, does it?