Separation-stesha_myr

   You didn't fail, you just didn't meet your man. Believe me, not everything you see from the side is what it seems ... There is so much falsehood in human relationships, so many relationships without love and love without relationships ... You don't know what is in anyone's soul, what torments him .. .Don't think it's just you, most people suffer for something or someone. I say that because I am one of those people who take them by car after work. Set aside a perfect life, and my soul is empty ... :( Don't think negatively, I'm sure that the sun will soon rise on your street. And it's better to have a separation on time, instead of living a life you don't want, but you can't just turn your back ...

   Of course, not everyone is in pairs. It's a kind of depression of yours, you don't see the reality. I know many people who are single - divorced, widowed, separated ... or never married, also people with fake relationships and marriages. Come to think of it, there are few couples I admire for a sincere, real relationship. But this still means nothing - everyone has their own life and should be compared only to themselves. Otherwise it becomes like the statistics - one ate cabbage, another pork, finally all - pork with cabbage. It's not like that, is it? Tighten it, this is complete nonsense for your partner. Man is one whole, not half a watermelon or an eggplant!

   Thus written topic, predisposes only to general comments for reflection. You did not give information about yourself and the relationship that failed. Now I even think that there will be a dispute, everyone will try to impose their opinion. I'll tell you what I think - I think compromises are important and one has real expectations. A relationship is a serious thing, bills are paid, there is responsibility. It is important when choosing a partner to be responsible, modest and compliant to walk. Everything else is a prerequisite for problems that may not be solved.

   A year later I still am not. J.

   It takes as much as you love yourself Once you realize that you deserve the best, the bad qualities of your ex-partner will stand out. And through them you will be comforted and you will overcome it. You will boldly move forward to new horizons. But if you're worried about what people will say you're divorced and the comments, or if you love the guy in question and you're caught drowning in a straw, there's no overcoming soon.

   I was so desperate, too, but I began to look at life more rosy. It's been 4 years since the separation that crushed me. There are good things in life, enjoy nature, its beauty, create and laugh, be a good person and help. Keep your kindness and in time you will see that there was no point in worrying. There are such moments in life. Success!