Hello! I want to share my story with you and find out what your opinion is. I had a relationship for almost 5 years. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. In the last week of our relationship, he didn't pay enough attention to me, didn't call me, constantly liked other girls, which irritated me and I wanted him to stop doing it and give me more time. He told me he wouldn't stop and I told him it was over, but I didn't think it would really end. During the years we were together, I always said that, but after day two we got along. Then I looked for him and showed him that I didn't want to separate, but the day after our separation he started writing to another, said he loved her and was happy with her. They even already live together and he quarreled with his family over her. It turned out that this girl was his colleague and, like me, was 20 years old, and he kept telling me how small I was and didn't understand anything. He is 28. He also said that I always want something from him and I just trample him. He accused me of not wanting to go and live with him because I had to sleep in the living room on a sofa and live with his family. Now, a month after our separation, I understand that they live together and that hurt me a lot. What is your opinion?
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I think the man is just tired. I am a woman and I am in the same situation. I'm tired of my partner's immaturity, I'm tired of parting for a while to say harsh words and to be disappointed again and again. I'm not saying it's your fault, but there comes a time when one realizes that he no longer has the strength to fight. Your friend realized it and just moved on with another.