Years have passed ... I had sex for the first time with a man who told me in my eyes that we are not boyfriends, that we do not have a relationship, even though it was my first and that we saw each other for several years, during which I did not see with my eyes his, but he was hardly alone with me during that time. I fell in love with him a lot and it was normal as he was my first husband. When I didn't see him getting more serious, I started dating another boy from the same town, and then the first one raised scandals that I had cheated on him, that he was disappointed, that he was with me for one night, so I left. in another and what not. Then he denied again that he was under the influence of alcohol and that's why he did so, and the following week he made the same scandal again. Finally, we broke up with this boy. A year passed and after I ended my relationship with both of them, I met a third boy, which I fell in love with almost immediately. And as he behaved super well with me, he suddenly changed his attitude until I finally saw him with my own eyes with my first husband at the same table !! Can you imagine! The boy in question stopped calling me and even told me not to bother him anymore. I lived in a bigger city and started serious work. But what is this, both not wanting to be with me my first, but also to ruin my two relationships. Even after so long I had once texted the last boy and you know what? That night I received a text message from my first one, where are you, I miss you a lot, come to our country ... apparently some people showed him my text message. And one day he wrote to me, almost telling me that he knew who I had in common with after him. But with what right he judges me, what he has given me, what he wants from me, he calls me drunk at night, I can't understand this man!
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In my opinion, the mistake is in you personally - 1. You say that you start dating someone else, provided that you still have a relationship with the first one - I won't say what it's called, think for yourself ... 2. Since you don't you know what you want - why you had a relationship with both (you say below in your post that you end a relationship with both) - this again sounds low ... In my opinion, a person when he wants to have a serious relationship with someone should give account of whether this is the person, if not - to separate (nothing will happen to you if you stay alone for a few months or a year if necessary), then to pass the time, to make sense of things and then to embark ready for a new connection. 3. Don't feel sorry for the third boy - yes, he liked you, but it was nothing more than when he gave up on you because of the words of your first, so he wasn't real yours, there was no trust, nothing between you - so the next time you have a relationship tell him everything about your past, start from there, be transparent with the person you have serious intentions - if he has a real interest in you and real feelings - he will swallow it and will expects a change in you if you can achieve it of course. But with such a frivolous attitude towards relationships - first, second, third, and at the same time two ... well, it will be difficult to expect a serious attitude. I have had fewer connections than the fingers of one hand - always real and meaningful. This irritates me in many women, that they are like monkeys - from branch to branch - until he catches the second one, he doesn't let go of the first one - a big problem is if he stays out of touch ... holy men with such behavior and thinking will not keep him for sure!