Hey, sweetheart!
First of all, I want you to get the thought of "self-harm" out of your head, because it's ABSURD to even think of such a thing because of some slobs who think I can make fun of others and compare you to the ground for no reason. Whether you have beautiful clothes, do your hair or make up, we all have the same rights and no one has to endure such psychological harassment. It's not a joke. Listen to me, you have to be strong and show them that your attacks don't affect you. For example, when you notice that someone is going to talk about you, ask them if there's a problem, why is he talking about you? Be tough and strong, don't give in to people like that! They trample others to feed their own egos and feel good. Be more cheeky if you have to, don't show your fear, ask them what their problem is, why they talk about you all the time and don't deal with you. You don't have to insult them or anything, just speak in a calm tone. If they start messing with you, just turn to your class leader and say they're harassing you mentally and you're going to turn to the principal if that doesn't stop. The class educator is obliged to warn and prevent such conflicts, so he needs to talk to these children and try to do something. If this does not happen, you go directly to the director and complain about the persons in question and ask for help. If you have to say you're going to involve your parents, and that's not fair. You went there to learn, not to tolerate criticism and ridicule from some (with an apology) unconscious and inflated! Please be strong. I'il be here to read and write you something else if I have to. Do what I told you soon, because the harassment won't stop if you don't stop it yourself! I'm keeping my fingers crossed and I'm going to follow the theme of your answer! Be strong! Greetings, baby!
- M-
Three years ago, I graduated from high school. I always hated "bullying" (because my sister bullied her when she was a student). And in my class there were a few, but from a young age I trained combat sport (it doesn't matter what) and I slapped them on those who kept harassing the weaker ones. Don't think of such nonsense as reaching for yourself!!! Don't resort to any substances you think can help you because they can't. Try showing them they can with you or tell your parents. If you have to slap them a slap to learn
Hello, sweet girl!
It's like reading about myself. Exactly the same situation. My girlfriend and I are daily harassed by our classmates, many of whom feel they are superior than the Lord. These creatures (I don't call them people, because for me it's not a human attitude) are so obnoxious that a few times when I saw them outside at recess, I threw up at their feet.
Then there was a class war because I smeared their precious branded shoes and smart thugs. I was on my way out, but my principal is a grandmother, and the math teacher and the woman in my brother (my daughter-in-law) so I got away with it. The English teacher is my uncle, but he's very strict, and then that's the kind of fight he threw at me in front of the class, so I became a laughing stock.
The humiliation was complete, so complete that I was physically shocked and physically passed out, and then I bulged my intestines that I spat on her blood afterwards. I started drinking, wearing vodkas at school, just to make them like each other. My uncle beat me up again, i vomited on the floor in the toilets, that I was on a cycle at the time, and because the toilet was flooded, I swam in a river of blood and faeces.
YOU CAN'T GET RID OF BULLYING. JUST DRIVE LIKE ME AND THAT'S IT!
Hey, girl! First, to assure you that what's happening to you is normal things from your teenage years that you don't have to pay that much attention to. In time, all this will subside, it will change. You're 15 - at 17-18 now everyone's starting to think about universities or jobs, and your class relationships are sure to change. Secondly, if you're really heavy and uncomfortable and you want something to change right away, you can seek help from the class leader - sit on the rank with another person, or away from the people who mess with you (I've done it), and you can also talk to another teacher or school educator. Think about which people you get along with the most; For example, the quietest, most "clogged", usually dressed, etc. They tell you again - these are ordinary teenage things, unfortunately unpleasant, but they will pass, and until then, just get together with the people who are nice to you and make you feel good. Come on, good luck!
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For starters, take a little literate that the situation is deplorable. Then think about the other things.
Hello thanks to all the comments do not know really what to say I will listen to your advice...
Comment 1 -Thank you for understanding everything in general even though you are an unknown person I feel great help and understanding I thought about assaults but that was when I entered this class and found myself the terrible company that still haunts me. I'm trying to fight a new student who seemed like a nice student to me, but over time I've noticed that she's just like the others.... However,
Comment 6-Thanks for the criticism in general it is important to literacy yes but for me it is more important to write my problem and find a solution through your words, and how literate it is written is not so important if you have noticed on social media most teens communicate without punctuation signs sorry if there are spelling comments 2, 3 , 4, 5 really, we're all going to do it together.... mistakes and you didn't understand a word... I also thank you to
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