Ruined Life

Ruined Life Here is my story very briefly. I hope it's not too long to read, because I have a question at the end. I met her, we were boyfriends, she told me she was divorced and sterile. She had no strong front teeth then, they were decayed, corroded, and brownish. A year later she said she was pregnant by me, I offered her an abortion, she refused on the pretext that if I didn't want the child she would look after it alone as a single mother. I was a student then. It was born. I loved her. I was a happy father and the three of us lived for about 2 years. The day came when he told me he didn't want to live with me anymore. She took the child and moved to another city, where she later had several adventures with others, one of which lasted longer, she became pregnant and had an abortion. I dropped my thesis for which I had just taken the topic. It was incredibly hard for me and I told her. I begged her to come back, but she said the world revolved around her. After 6 months I went abroad. I found a good and secure job. A year and a half passed and I had forgiven her. I started talking to her on the phone to come with the child to me. There were times when she struggled to get faster. I rented a big apartment, we got married and they came. I was happy again and very much so. After 2 days she told me that she did not want to come abroad. I pretended not to hear. After 3 years, the second child was born. Happiness! We loved each other for the next 4 years. The Internet appeared. She went in there and didn't come out - chats, forums ... despite my requests, remarks and scandals. Her dependence on the Internet continues to this day - 15 years already !!! It did not have a green card and could not work, but many immigrants worked illegally and eventually received it. Work in several low-paid jobs, a total of 3 years and one year of maternity, ie 4. In the meantime, received the card. I worked 12 years on a three-shift schedule, then another 4 years in 3 other places. I took care of our family. And so until 7 years ago, when he entered a mental hospital with an acute mental crisis for 2 weeks. The diagnosis was BAR. She was prescribed medication, which she never took. She did not believe the doctors that she had such a disease. My efforts to persuade her to take the treatment were in vain. A normal, meaningful conversation with her was impossible. After 1 year a new crisis and another 2 weeks in the psychiatric clinic. The older child went to study in another distant city. I stayed with our 12-year-old child to fight against her illness. I quit my job, went on unemployment insurance. I felt like I had two children, alone, without understanding and support in a foreign country. I decided to return the three of us to Bulgaria. We finally returned and the problems with her illness deepened. I mobilized her and my relatives and friends to convince her that something was wrong with her - without success. She responds by saying that I am wrong. Constant insults to me and my relatives, lies, inadequacy and infidelity. Her Internet addiction manifested itself in full force. I shared things with our family doctor hoping to get treatment advice. He said that a person with BAR means a creature disguised in human skin. I despaired. I no longer believed he would ever realize. I also tried the sedentary threat, telling her: "Either you take your medicine or you take your bag and leave." After 3 months he filed for divorce and moved with his luggage to a distant city. Mentally difficult, difficult months for me again ... I still loved her. He called every 2-3 weeks to ask for money and divorce. I filed a lawsuit in court under the law on health - compulsory treatment. The judge decided that she was not dangerous for herself and others and terminated the procedure after 3 hearings. She is no longer interested in the children, she does not help them, on the contrary - she burdens them with her walks. They also don't want to talk to her. I also gave a divorce. She said we had a good time. Later on the phone I asked her what her claims were. He asked for a house with a large yard plus BGN 200,000 - 250,000 !!! I haven't had a relationship with her since. That's it. Who / what have I lived with for 28 years She said we had a good time. Later on the phone I asked her what her claims were. He asked for a house with a large yard plus BGN 200,000 - 250,000 !!! I haven't had a relationship with her since. That's it. Who / what have I lived with for 28 years? She said we had a good time. Later on the phone I asked her what her claims were. He asked for a house with a large yard plus BGN 200,000 - 250,000 !!! I haven't had a relationship with her since. That's it. Who / what have I lived with for 28 years?