Routine Kills Me!

Hello, I have a friend of 8 months. In the beginning everything was fine .. we hurried in my opinion, but .. a fact. Move to live with me because I live alone in my apartment. He helps me in the household, we love each other, but there is a big problem. I am a person who loves life ... I love to travel, to have fun with friends, to visit new places and generally to be constantly somewhere in the world and in our country when I have free time. I am a student and I work. I have opportunities and so do my parents, while he doesn't. That didn't bother me until recently. I'm not the type of girl who wants expensive restaurants and gifts ... it doesn't matter, BUT. He just sits at home and watches TV in his spare time or gathers with friends and plays some stupid computer games like he's 12 and he's 24 for good. One time he didn't come with me when he invited us to a reunion or something, once he didn't offer us to go somewhere and his justification was the money (I pay the accommodation and the bills, we share the food). His salary is around BGN 1,000 and I don't know where he spends them and he still has no money. The other problem is that it is only in words, but no action. For example, he starts something outside of his job for extra income and gives up quickly, starts a second thing and gives up again for his reasons. He has ambitions for something, but he sits and clicks on the computer with his stupid friends, who do nothing all day but just smoke weed and nothing else. I have talked to him countless times on this topic, but there is no result and that is it. Every time there are scandals and quarrels. He just knows his. At the same time, I am angry at why I go everywhere alone, with my friends or my parents on trips and outings. He is almost angry that I prefer them to him. I can't explain to him that I like sitting at home with him and watching movies. It's hard for me to get used to his routine! We are young people after all. When I get up at 60-70 I will sit at home without any problems. I had a relationship before him with another boy we were touring with, surprises, travel, etc. (he didn't pay me for them) and I kind of miss that and I can't get used to sitting in us all day and watching movies. He keeps telling me that it was enough for him just to sit with me, hugged and spend time together. I understand that, yes to me, but the routine of his lifestyle kills me. I love it, it's hard for me to say no and I don't know what to do anymore. I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, but I wrote it quickly. We are young people after all. When I get up at 60-70 I will sit at home without any problems. I had a relationship before him with another boy we were touring with, surprises, travel, etc. (he didn't pay me for them) and I kind of miss that and I can't get used to sitting in us all day and watching movies. He keeps telling me that it was enough for him to just sit with me, hugged and spend time together. I understand that, yes to me, but the routine of his lifestyle kills me. I love it, it's hard for me to say no and I don't know what to do anymore. I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, but I wrote it quickly. We are young people after all. When I get up at 60-70 I will sit at home without any problems. I had a relationship before him with another boy we were touring with, surprises, travel, etc. (he didn't pay me for them) and I kind of miss that and I can't get used to sitting in us all day and watching movies. He keeps telling me that it was enough for him to just sit with me, hugged and spend time together. I understand that, yes to me, but the routine of his lifestyle kills me. I love it, it's hard for me to say no and I don't know what to do anymore. I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, but I wrote it quickly. n (he didn't pay me for them) and I kind of miss that and I can't get used to sitting in us all day and watching movies. He keeps telling me that it was enough for him to just sit with me, hugged and spend time together. I understand that, yes to me, but the routine of his lifestyle kills me. I love it, it's hard for me to say no and I don't know what to do anymore. I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, but I wrote it quickly. n (he didn't pay me for them) and I kind of miss that and I can't get used to sitting in us all day and watching movies. He keeps telling me that it was enough for him to just sit with me, hugged and spend time together. I understand that, yes to me, but the routine of his lifestyle kills me. I love it, it's hard for me to say no and I don't know what to do anymore. I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, but I wrote it quickly.