Hello! My boyfriend and I have been a "couple" for 2 years, we have been living together for the same amount of time. I say "couple" because I'm not sure if that's the case anymore. The problem is that he has 1 kidney and we haven't had sex since we were together. Neither he nor I are virgins, we are almost 30 years old. He satisfied me with a finger, and I made checks on him, but we never had sex. When I asked him why he didn't want to, where the problem was, he replied that it was early, he didn't want to hurry, etc. I already doubt a few things: Isn't he a virgin / even though he told me he was had sexual intercourse in the past /, whether he is not impotent, whether it has anything to do with the fact that in the past he got pregnant by one of his girlfriends who had to have an abortion. Sometimes when he touches it harder he says it hurts. Please tell me more informed, what could be the reason? I still think it's related to one of his kidneys, but I'm not sure. At the same time, I know he's watching porn, or at least he's watched it before. Thanks in advance everyone!
1 aliceshowgirl answered
A person needs a functioning kidney to be healthy. This is not the problem. There are also people on dialysis who are sexually active. I think he's virgin or impotent, but you may not be sexually attracted to him