Hi, I'm a woman of 20, my boyfriend is 21. I live alone, at a lodge. We've been together for six months. He lives with his parents. The problem in our relationship is that he wants to stay exactly two days a week, a word for a third day to sleep at my house. Three months ago, I asked him about the reason--he wanted time for himself. I decided that because we've recently been together, he needs time to get used. We do not go out very often because I follow dentistry and my studies take a lot of time, and generally we see each other for two days when we stay home. I had to leave him here, but it's been six months and he's still talking about the third day to stay. I decided to ask him directly, I told him that at first, I thought he was not accustomed but now it has been enough time, plus I live alone, decent dwelling, there is no one to disturb us or uncomfortable, even shared that the apartment in which I live is pure luxury in comparison with them (I have never set foot at home). Answers MK also wanted time for himself, well but he neither goes out with friends (none) nor has a hobby (sports or others), not watching movies and serials so I wonder what time it is for himself. Plus we only have sex 2 times a week (when it comes) and I think it's a little bit about dvajsetgodišni young people and I own it. I don't even know when there will be any minimum development in this regard, about to stay more often, say, counsel, what should I do? I think I'm going to stop talking about the subject because I've already said my opinion, and see how much longer we're sitting there, but that doesn't get me much. What do you think? Thanks in advance to all:)
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pml1234 answered · May 26, 2020
You've answered your questions in the title. It's time to act, i.e. To get rid of him. That's not your guy.
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almusha2 answered · May 26, 2020
Whatever we think, it's your decision. Man may have other women, can read books, is TV only entertainment? He can go stealing or just sleeping? But whatever it is, you've had enough of him twice a week. As long as it's not enough, you're splitting up with him, and you find some sex athlete banging you seven days a week. Simple and logical.
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vibewithvick answered · May 26, 2020
Why do you ask us what we think? What do you think?
Find out by force if you have to, what you do in the rest of time! If he doesn't let you go, you get up and leave, and you don't have any problems.
Your story sounds fake! I do not know how 20 years old is placed for long in such a situation!? If there is no openness in the relationship, then there is no normal relationship!
I have a friend like you, only it's bigger than you, VISSCHRIST!!! With hers, you only see who you are three days a week as one day is just a night-case like yours...
Well, I don't know how you believe in the rest of the time...