My husband and I have a strong love for each other. At the beginning of the relationship we had sex every day and so on for a year. Then he gradually began to want less and less, but I was blind and realized it after a while. I notice that when I want sex he pushes me away, and when he decides he wants he does everything to give it to him, even just to please him. He drinks two liters of beer every night, he doesn't get drunk, but it's enough that he can't pick him up later and when he starts kissing him, etc. he tells me that he doesn't like it and has already drunk. Then we go to bed, I turn my back on him, somehow offended and he then starts rubbing inside me and I feel him ... I ask him, there was no possibility today, and he says that he just checked me to see if I was sleeping and turned his back on me and fell asleep ... I talk to him, I try, but he thinks there is no problem, etc. We have sex twice a month ....
1 ariadne_nolan_ answered
No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise. Sit down and talk about this topic. After all, you are a couple ... ask him "am I not attracted to you anymore"? Tell him you're very offended by his refusals. If the reason is not in this, but elsewhere, he will try to prove to you that you are still wanted!