Hello everyone. I have a very big problem and I don't know who to share it with, but I hope you will give me an idea. I am a 15 year old girl, a nice, fun, sociable person. I have never put anything in front of my education, because I think that this is a top priority for me at the moment. But one night a friend convinced me to go with her to "the coolest party you've ever seen!". I agreed, mostly because I didn't want to look like a fool or a jerk. A party with a capital K, as the girl put it. Alcohol, cigarettes, drugs and loud music. I don't want to think about what happened to the people there, I don't want to try to remember what happened to me. I didn't drink much alcohol - in fact, I barely licked the beer in the glass. I focused mostly on cola and mineral water - I didn't want to smell my mother's alcohol, which is already very conservative. I don't know what was in my drink! At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl to let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely an abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl who would let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl to let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make myself innocent ... Help me, please ... I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... I don't even want to think about who he is and how his conscience allowed it. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... that I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... that I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ...
1 The_Cutie answered
there is no better way to say it. Because you are not an adult, you cannot have an abortion without her consent. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I want you to find the strength to handle it.