Did you cheat now or in the past of your permanent partner? What were the causes of infidelity-neglected, out of curiosity, for diversity, in love, attraction? Have you had a guilty conscience during the infidelity and if yes how did you do that? Did they reveal it to you, or was it all gone and under control? G/32 bound, no children, I have a colleague family with whom things are going towards infidelity, we attract each other and want to escape at least for a little bit of everyday life and routine. My friend often travels on missions if that matters. Please write only people who were in a similar situation. We are here to share and make the right decisions based on shared experiences from people who have been or are in a similar situation. I beg the moralists and the pseudo-moralists to omit this topic with their constant moralizing that you must first terminate your permanent relationship, and only then at the will to do what you want. Just do not ask them, let in another topic to exercise in the preaching of morality. Thanks for the replies.