It is normal to imagine future situations with the person you are dating. You don't even have to feel close to him or your person. In the absence of feelings, one imagines oneself again, because one gets to know the other side and situations it in one's daily life. For example, my current friend doesn't think our first meeting told me that he screams in anger. I immediately replied that I hated the shouts even more directed at me, and this would be re-educated in him if we were together and got into arguments. I told him I was crying when someone shouted at me. And so far, as many times as we have argued, he wants his time for his aggression to subside, and then he returns to our conversation, because, as he explained to me, he will shout, and I was clear that this is unacceptable. And I really like his attitude. Some time ago I was dating a guy who told me a few months later, that when I told him at the beginning that I had two dogs and a cat, he had imagined some mind-boggling state of my house with leagues and hair, and he thought that things could not get serious. But then I invited him home, and seeing that the situation was not like that and that it was clean, and that the animals were brought up, he was fascinated by how pleasant a home with animals in it could still be. Which is an indication that what you imagine will not always be real. My first meetings with another young man were wonderful. He was a gentleman and an ideological type. He took me to different places, behaved like a gentleman, and conquered me quickly. Until the second or third week, when we decided to be at home and enjoy each other. He turned out to be a complete jerk at home. He can't take the salt shaker himself. He doesn't allow you to change his TV channels, which we didn't watch anyway. He does not allow me to leave things where I decide, because there is some order of his own and every violation causes him discomfort. He doesn't steam to his own kitchen when I'm there, and then I eat a horse because the pepper is in another basket, not where he put it. We broke up. I found that only outside he knew how to behave with the lady, but at home ... disgusting. I imagined it differently. :) Living at the moment is ok and cool. But it is inevitable to still imagine what you have learned about someone, how it would affect your future. You may be wrong in your judgment, but it is normal to think things through. because there is some order of his own and every violation causes him discomfort. He doesn't steam to his own kitchen when I'm there, and then I eat a horse because the pepper is in another basket, not where he put it. We broke up. I found that only outside he knew how to behave with the lady, but at home ... disgusting. I imagined it differently. :) Living at the moment is ok and cool. But it is inevitable to still imagine what you have learned about someone, how it would affect your future. You may be wrong in your judgment, but it is normal to think things through. because there is some order of his own and every violation causes him discomfort. He doesn't steam to his own kitchen when I'm there, and then I eat a horse because the pepper is in another basket, not where he put it. We broke up. I found that only outside he knew how to behave with the lady, but at home ... disgusting. I imagined it differently. :) Living at the moment is ok and cool. But it is inevitable to still imagine what you have learned about someone, how it would affect your future. You may be wrong in your judgment, but it is normal to think things through. ) Living at the moment is ok and cool. But it is inevitable to still imagine what you have learned about someone, how it would affect your future. You may be wrong in your judgment, but it is normal to think things through. ) Living at the moment is ok and cool. But it is inevitable to still imagine what you have learned about someone, how it would affect your future. You may be wrong in your judgment, but it is normal to think things through.
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Male 32, so am I.