Question To The Female Audience

The Story

Well, I didn't think it would get me to write on forums, but here it is. My question at the end of the story mainly concerns the female audience, but I will be happy for each of you to express your opinion. I am a boy, 22 years old. I got into a serious relationship when I was a teenager (I was 16). I can't say that it was a mistake, because during these 6 years I learned a lot. Almost a year ago, my partner and I decided to end this relationship without ruining our relationship. There was no specific reason, just in recent months things were not going well, we had many different ideas and understandings. At first I felt good, I finally felt free, free from the burden that this toxic connection brought me. My girlfriend was suffering, but she quickly found a new friend and now she looks happy, which I can only rejoice over. I also had the opportunity to commit, but I really wanted to rest and not get back in touch so early after the recent breakup. Well, almost a year later, I don't feel complete. I need a girl next to me, to know that you have someone to rely on, to know that you are special to someone. Here comes my main problem - I am ashamed to write to girls with whom we are not close, I am almost afraid of a new acquaintance. Yes, I realize how stupid it sounds ...

I think with this connection I lost experience in communicating with girls, because I had one next to me. I'm not a model, but I'm not ugly, a lot of people have told me that I'm cute, I'm a regular company soul and I know how to have fun, I have a sense of humor and knowledge in many areas. And despite all this, I feel insecure, no matter how hard I try to cover it up, women feel this thing. I think I'm insecure because I've lost experience with flirting and sweet dumplings. I realized that I have a problem with confidence when I am scared to write to a girl I have cast an eye on and I always find some stupid excuses not to write to her ... It really sounds unnatural for me to start a conversation with the clichéd, worn-out "Hey" / " Hello, how are you? ”Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others in any way if I start writing in this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) women feel this thing. I think I'm insecure because I've lost experience with flirting and sweet dumplings. I realized that I have a problem with confidence when I am scared to write to a girl I have cast an eye on and I always find some stupid excuses not to write to her ... It really sounds unnatural to start a conversation with the clichéd, worn-out "Hey" / " Hello, how are you?

”Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others in any way if I start writing in this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) women feel this thing. I think I'm insecure because I've lost experience with flirting and sweet dumplings. I realized that I have a problem with confidence when I am scared to write to a girl I have cast an eye on and I always find some stupid excuses not to write to her ... It really sounds unnatural for me to start a conversation with the clichéd, worn-out "Hey" / " Hello, how are you? ”Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others in any way if I start writing in this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) that I have a problem with confidence when I am scared to write to a girl I have cast an eye on and I still find some stupid excuses not to write to her ... It really sounds unnatural for me to start a conversation with the clichéd, worn-out "Hey" / "Hello, how are you? ”Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others in any way if I start writing this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think?

Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) that I have a problem with confidence when I am scared to write to a girl I've cast an eye on and I always find some stupid excuses not to write to her ... It really sounds unnatural to start a conversation with the clichéd, worn-out "Hey" / "Hello, how are you? ”Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others in any way if I start writing in this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) / "Hello, how are you?" Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others if I start writing this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :) / "Hello, how are you?" Everyone uses it and I will not be different from the others if I start writing this way. At the same time, my thinking may be wrong, and in fact this is the best way to start a conversation. What do you think? Girls, what impresses you, how do you want to be written and what repulses you? I will be happy to read your opinions! :)

Last Updated
August 15, 2020
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