Hello .. I am a boy I have a special question for girls .. but I will not refuse advice from boys .. if they know the answer to my dilemma and can help solve the problem :) I will be brief. (relatively ....) I have tried many times to talk to the fairer sex. But I always fail ... I tried to understand why. And I have some suspicions. Which I want you to tell me if they are justified. So .... in the beginning some people wind up for "chat" as if ... they show interest. It is clear that appearance is a major factor ... I am convinced. But even those who lie to "bite" after a while withdraw .. I show them in every way that I am well-meaning. polite .. cultural .. disciplined .. caring .. informed .. tolerant .. frank. I think .. all the good traits that I have .. and that I also thought that .. and girls value it more than anything. BUT .. even if we find a common topic of conversation .. then after a certain time of processing they soon lose interest and distance themselves. End of the game .. and that's it! WHILE what I hear from the mouths of "weak" men ... in a sense. unintelligent .. rude .. impudent and even stupid. Any with a disgusting character that I think ... I surpass them. Not that .. I say that .. I'm high level. I just believed that ... I have everything I need to satisfy a girl's desires - in my character. It turned out that the girls easily tied to such anti-heroes. I was surprised at how many ladies spin in a week - which I can't for years! What he told me was that ... there is no secret formula. He just complimented them on their looks and gifts - and that's it !! Then they ask him to take them to the sea ... sleep with them. Even with a few for one night. So .. really !! ?? Aren't girls interested in a person's personality but are selfish people who want to hear only good stories about their appearance? Flattery? And then to be "properly used" I'm just too shy and I find it outrageous and worn out to talk to a girl about how beautiful her eyes are and how "sexy" she is .. I rely on my knowledge but .. it seems a great pity .. after they have given you a few chances to anoint them and you have not done so - they throw away. "You didn't tell me that ... I'm a chick ...... goodbye!" Maybe I'm getting bored of them? Is that correct? Is it so difficult for a girl to be enough that ... someone likes her and thinks that she is beautiful without repeating it constantly and just looking for a story - to touch the mind and not just the body for one night. I'm disappointed ... I'm convinced that even the biggest fool can sleep with a "chick" even if he pretends to be a jester and I won't even impress her if I recite Hamlet by heart. So .. what do you think !? Why am I being cut? I will be very grateful if you help me !!! Thanks in advance :)
1 icevel answered
I only like and appreciate boys like you. I don't know what you came across, but they're obviously not decent, so don't regret the "missed". They missed you. And the one who told you how turnover he is, either sleeps only with whores, or lies. There is no other option. Appreciate yourself, love yourself and you will always find a girl who is worthy of you. I hope he appears very soon. I wish you from the bottom of my heart! F, 22