Question For Girls From 16 To 25 Years Old.

   Twa is not a dating site in case you haven't yet, and realized it,,, my question is not like ... "Is there a dispersed ..." "actually to somewhere it looks like to me, I also have the feeling that you don't have another job or you don't have a boyfriend and you set out to advertise here with some vague hopes. something bothers me, but I don't think this is the place for what you wrote.

   Hello! I am a girl and I am 16 years old. I was extremely happy when I read everything you wrote. It made a very good impression on me and somehow gave me hope (so to speak) that there are guys who think like you because I really liked the way you thought. :) I will allow myself to give you a piece of advice, which I hope will be useful to you. I also like guys older than me, I would even say men. I just have common topics of conversation with them, common interests, I like that they behave more maturely and do not talk nonsense. But I realize that it's better to find a boy who is my age and who understands me. It is true that such boys are now less common, but I still believe and hope that one day I will meet my boy. :) The same goes for you. Try to find a girl who is your age, who has interests like yours, with whom you can share both happy and sad moments. Not that a 21-year-old woman wouldn't understand you and wouldn't help you - on the contrary, but she just has a slightly different way of thinking than yours. That's how I understand things. Maybe I'm wrong, I'm 16 and I'm just starting to build some ideas about how things should look on the subject. But I decided to share an opinion and I say again, I hope I helped. :) I will not leave any e-mail or Skype, because I think that face-to-face communication is much more real and complete than virtual chat and things on the Internet in general. Look for a girl outside, among your friends, at school. Go out, have fun and your girl might be out there. I wish you to find her! And when you find it, don't miss it under any circumstances! Success! :)

   I have crossed your line - I am 26 and I hope to be more or less useful. First, it is normal at this age to be more interested in women, "catch yourself poisoned" - the problem is, are they interested in you? I know you feel quite mentally mature at 16, but you're not. Not only because of the lack of life experience that you can not get, but also because of the lack of many things - behavior, gestures, experience, topics of conversation that can offer you a 30+ gentleman. Do not give up. I advise you to first introduce yourself at least on the Internet for an 18-year-old - it's not very fair, but what? With your 16 years, you scare. Second, if it's really more about contact, not sexual - read books, more serious and deeper. People aged 20-25 ask themselves about the meaning of their lives, about their path, what they want. I recommend Dostoevsky, Orwell, Eco and all kinds of world heavy literature ... philosophical on topics about life ... The problem is that in fact these torments are quite unknown to 16-year-olds, a little more hormone shakes you, in my opinion - and this is good and normal. In my opinion, at the age of 16 he is a victim of depression and moods and just wants to get out of the power of his parents ... he still wonders about the meaning of life, but from a different point of view. Otherwise, I think you are normal and your taste for 20-25 year olds will not change over time - but you will grow old and gradually, of course, you will be able to offer them what interests them. Now do not miss the experience with young girls - do not deny them, there are quite stable of your generation ... And do not make various fixed ideas ... The fact is that a lady would rarely go out at 16 years old. Along with a game, I have contact with a lot of them, but I accept them as boys, they are very fresh and sweet to me, but nothing more. I like mature men and I attract them. Interestingly, my taste does not change with age - I myself am getting older, and before, and now I do not like men under 35, my boyfriend is 21 years older than me and I fully understand your interest in more the biggest. Unfortunately, it is not accepted in society for a woman to be older. There are natural reasons - women are fertile (we can have children) only as young women, while men can have children if they are healthy for the rest of their lives and do not bear them for 9 months - so the woman is expected to be young , fresh and fertile in a relationship with a young man ... or a new relationship with an older man is at least not abnormal. I personally know a man like you, but who has kept this difference - he has always liked at least 6 years older women. Well, he finally convinced one of them to marry him - an old girl of 36, he of 30. Now they are together because of the children, etc., but he is not happy - she is in menopause and no? nothing is done, he wants to go crazy inside - to fly a parachute or hang glider, to wander the mountains, to do something - to go out - but she is already over 50 and he now leads her lifestyle, tolerates the mood and etc. at this difficult age for women. .. but you don't need to end things like this ... for now such a relationship with an older woman is positive for your development and would help you a lot for future relationships - the people say it - catch yourself poison! he wants to go crazy inside - to fly a parachute or hang glider, to wander the mountains, to do something - to go out - but she is already over 50 and he now leads her lifestyle, tolerates moods, etc. at this difficult age for women. .. but you don't need to end things like this ... for now such a relationship with an older woman is positive for your development and would help you a lot for future relationships - the people say it - catch yourself poison! he wants to go crazy inside - to fly a parachute or hang glider, to wander the mountains, to do something - to go out - but she is already over 50 and he now leads her lifestyle, tolerates moods, etc. at this difficult age for women. .. but you don't need to end things like this ... for now such a relationship with an older woman is positive for your development and would help you a lot for future relationships - the people say it - catch yourself poison!

   Hello, young man! I'm like you, but from the other team - I like great men :) You surprise me, to be honest. If you really are what you pretend to be, then you are another proof that age is not a measure of a person's mental level. For what you ask - there is nothing wrong or abnormal to like khaki. As soon as they drag you, go boldly :) Stay afloat, don't use memorized phrases. The intelligent woman feels and is irritated. If you feel that he is "belittling" you, attack from the front - like a man! That is, ask her, "You think I'm tanned for nude photos, don't you? Or a boy? Give me a chance to prove I'm different." Just be completely honest. Say that you do not find common ground with your environment, that you just enjoy communicating with it, etc. Everything you said to us. If you are yourself, EVERY intelligent lady will appreciate it. One word of advice: your writing and perhaps speaking style is not very good. It is diluted, messy ... If a person is not specially set to read you, he will get bored and lose you. Don't worry, it's fixable. Write a lot and then read. Strive to remove unnecessary phrases, repetitions, unnecessary clarifications. Striving for a clear and concise style. This will be useful not only in the dumps, but also in many other areas of life. I wish you success! And ... don't feel compelled to look for a "girl your age" just because 1000 years ago a grandmother said so and various people who refuse to think for themselves have accepted the ready thesis (that it is easier) and repeat it as a mantra. Follow your heart :) PS To number 2: If you like men, be with men as long as you like. Nobody said almost marry them :) Enjoy them! What's wrong? Who pays tax Public opinion is not far enough ... Boronia, 21 years old.

   From number 2 to number 4: Boronia, I absolutely agree with this phrase "I do not pay public opinion tax" only that I do not care what people will say and whether they will accept that I go out with men older than me. I look at things from my point of view and as much as possible from the point of view of the man I have any feelings for. I judge when what is right is not for people, but for myself. I am not against either between "bigger man - smaller woman" or "smaller man - bigger woman" relationships or, as people call them, "normal relationships", ie between sets. Everyone chooses what is good for him! In my opinion, the person you feel good with is far more important. You asked me what was bothering me. What worries me is not so much the age difference as the way of thinking and priorities, which a person of a certain age has. I'm 16 years old and I don't want to sound modest, but I think I think a lot more maturely than other girls my age. Yes, but I do not have the experience that, for example, a man older than me has. By "experience" is meant in any field. Not to mention that if the difference is too big and the priorities 100 to 100 will diverge and at some point one will have to "lag behind" to wait for the other, or the other to miss some of the things that lie ahead. catch up "the other. I say again - don't get me wrong, I don't mind relationships that aren't like the "traditional" ones, I just look at things from several points of view, not just one. :) Greetings! that I think a lot more maturely than other girls my age. Yes, but I do not have the experience that, for example, a man older than me has. By "experience" is meant in any field. Not to mention that if the difference is too big and the priorities 100 to 100 will diverge and at some point one will have to "lag behind" to wait for the other, or the other to miss some of the things that lie ahead. catch up "the other. I say again - don't get me wrong, I don't mind relationships that aren't like the "traditional" ones, I just look at things from several points of view, not just one. :) Greetings! that I think a lot more maturely than other girls my age. Yes, but I do not have the experience that, for example, a man older than me has. By "experience" is meant in any field. Not to mention that if the difference is too big and the priorities 100 to 100 will diverge and at some point one will have to "lag behind" to wait for the other, or the other to miss some of the things that lie ahead. catch up "the other. I say again - don't get me wrong, I don't mind relationships that aren't like the "traditional" ones, I just look at things from several points of view, not just one. :) Greetings! that if the difference is too great and the priorities 100 to 100 will diverge and at some point one will have to either "lag behind" to wait for the other, or the other to miss some of the things that lie ahead to "catch up" with the other. I say again - don't get me wrong, I don't mind relationships that aren't like the "traditional" ones, I just look at things from several points of view, not just one. :) Greetings! that if the difference is too great and the priorities 100 to 100 will diverge and at some point one will have to either "lag behind" to wait for the other, or the other to miss some of the things that lie ahead to "catch up" with the other. I say again - don't get me wrong, I don't mind relationships that aren't like the "traditional" ones, I just look at things from several points of view, not just one. :) Greetings! not just one. :) Greetings! not just one. :) Greetings!

   To number 2/5: You're a smart girl, you can see. However, do not rush to think on behalf of others. The man himself knows why he is with you. As strange as it may seem to some, not all great men are in a hurry to get married, procreate, multiply, etc. And priorities are not always a function of age. My friend and I are 12 years apart. And we have the same priorities - for me learning and career, for him - to complete his dissertation and also career. We don't think about children in the next 10 years. To be alive and healthy, in 10 years I will be 31, he 43. What is the problem? Men can have children quite late, and women already give birth en masse after 30. Yes, it is true that when he becomes a doctor, I will just start my master's thesis. But this is not a problem for us. We work together, we learn from each other. We are much better in a team than individually - he with the experience, I with youthful courage and experimental spirit ... If you come across the RIGHT man, you won't care how old he is, you will only be interested in love :) It's good that you don't care about other people's opinion. To me, if I cared, I would have hanged myself by now, I tell you honestly :) By the way, my mother has always been against such relationships. She believes that people "from different generations" had nothing to say to each other because they grew up at different times, and so on. But since she met him, she liked him a lot, because she saw what kind of person he was and felt that we were getting along. Even when I get mad at him for things (I'm a big match, I burn quickly :), he usually protects him! And he keeps saying, "Don't fight." His mother is also for the sets, because she wants grandchildren already. But since she saw us together, she has calmed down. So EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON SPECIFIC PEOPLE. If you like a big one and he liked you, give him a chance, don't rush to cut him. Maybe your priorities match, who knows :) Whatever you are (if you want to be 10 years younger :), I wish you to love each other a lot and look in one direction! You have the rest! Boronia

   My husband is 6 years younger and we have understood each other perfectly for 18 years.

   It's me again (numbers 2 and 5) :) Thanks for the advice you gave me. I will really mean it! I also wish you a lot of love with your current friend and may God prove to everyone that there are no impossible things and that you will be the proof of that.

   So I'm 30 men. The problem is that you are smarter and have a higher IQ than your classmates. This also applies to maybe 95% of the girls your age (god how many simple girls there are) but let me not despair and at 20 21 23 24 there are quite a few stupid girls. It's just lucky to come across a girl who is on your intellectual level, she may be 14 but she may be 25. Just after 23 24 the girls become more aware and start becoming women (yes then 23-24). I hope you understood me

   I found myself in a rather awkward situation. I met a boy 2 years younger than me and I liked him a lot! I am 20 years old, but neither my environment suggests it, nor my previous relationships. My partners, my friends, the people I interact with most intensely are far older than me. It's terribly unnatural for me to be in his company because of my delusions, maybe. I feel like a pedophile ... And most likely, I wouldn't start a relationship with this boy, because of the limitations in my head ... Good luck, young man! :) I hope you come across more liberated girls!

   Hello! From me - the author :) I want to apologize for writing after so long, but only now I have the opportunity. Anyway ... I want to thank everyone who wrote, except for number 1. It's just very misleading ... okay. I read a lot of things that I liked as an idea, others not so much, but everyone has a different worldview. Hmm IQ, I've outgrown my peers, etc. For some yes, for others no, but it sure is. I want to comment on every single comment from different you. Number 1 - Oh, yes, I have nothing to say here ... there's no point in harnessing myself. Number 2 - Obviously there are decent ones at 16 which is great, but the problem is that I find these general stories in the bigger ones. Maybe with a girl like you or your thinking, although everyone is unique in their own right ... Number 3 - Huh 18 years ... I'm not taught that. What do we do after a while if something happens and the girl wants us out? Sorry, I'm not 18, I'm 16. The chances of understanding and guessing in the future "go to the movies." As for the books ... a good choice if you've read them too, but for now I've stopped at "Don't Touch This Book" - Jan van Helsing. However, thank you very much, parts of what you wrote made me think. Number 4 - I practiced this with directness, but it is not always taken seriously - "Was it you ?!" An unexpected answer followed by blocking and so on ... Here is a certain dialogue between the numbers, which helped me for something. .. Number 7 - Proof that age doesn't matter ... once loved, let it be taken. Number 9 - I quote: "Just after 23 24 the girls become more aware and start becoming women ..." That's exactly what I'm looking for. They didn't lie (in most cases ... and my respects to number 2! Let me emphasize again that I returned the lost cause to me.) But this is exactly what I am looking for, more conscious girls, women to have a full conversation, a dialogue full of meaningless caresses, pronouns, etc. Number 10 - Everyone has their limits ... maybe these are yours, and there may be more, but the important thing is that you have realized what not to look for and what not to give your hope to. Greetings to all and I look forward to further comments. I review this article every day and for now my motivation is getting bigger and bigger. Thank you! pronouns, etc. Number 10 - Everyone has their limits ... maybe these are yours, and there may be more, but the important thing is that you have realized what not to look for and what not to give your hope to. Greetings to all and I look forward to further comments. I review this article every day and for now my motivation is getting bigger and bigger. Thank you! pronouns, etc. Number 10 - Everyone has their limits ... maybe these are yours, and there may be more, but the important thing is that you have realized what not to look for and what not to give your hope to. Greetings to all and I look forward to further comments. I review this article every day and for now my motivation is getting bigger and bigger. Thank you!

   Man, anyone who is honest is repeatedly cut (by the mediocre, and they are the majority). However, he is also respected (by the people on the ground, who are few). Don't give up on the direct approach - that's how you sift them. Not every woman in her 20+ is literate - there are also 30-year-olds. It is they who cut you. You don't comment on my remark about the style :) Think about it, it's important. Too many talkative men are defined by many women as "chatterboxes". I don't want a good boy like you to get this label, which significantly lowers your chances ... Boronia

   Thank you! I will take your advice into account. This is the result of my thinking at the time of writing and it becomes one: D I expect more comments. Greetings!

   Hello! So it's not just me who's fed up with slimy boys. I'm a 16-year-old girl and I think most boys think about the big deal, that I can impress a girl if they're football players, athletes, etc., but that's not the case. The author impressed me with the fact that apparently somewhere in the world there is still someone who is romantic, gentlemanly and does not think only about who to sleep with and who to get up with!

   Author: For me, in a relationship, sex is not the most important thing! A serious relationship is based on trust, understanding, unity ... I can't understand this, for example, V. Bozhinov "Huh the 50th piece ..."? !! That since when is a woman of subject value and is number 1, number 2, etc. With each passing day, the girls who wrote here inspire me with hope that not everyone really supports their "girlfriends". Greetings! I expect comments from others :)

   Hello! And I will get involved in the dialogue, even though I am a 15-year-old girl. Some time ago I met a boy because our mothers were colleagues. I went to visit his mother and that's how we met. I was 13 then and he was 15. It made a great good impression on me, I was amazed. He spoke extremely culturally, modestly, read books, was nice, and had his own website, which he maintained and sent me links to it on Skype - a great rarity for a boy so old. I have only seen him once, now if I meet him I will not know him, but this boy will always remain in my mind with his good mentality. A more personal opinion: Although I don't know you, I would consider you a boy on the spot, in slang - dude. It's pure luck to meet someone like you someday, or most likely, if I do, I'll be afraid to talk to you, because I'm shy. I often say something completely simple in my quest to say something clever. I hope that when I grow up a little (say after 2-3 years) it will not be so. I live in a good family, but any other environment I am in (school, etc.) does not work well for me. Plus, I don't go out much except play sports. Is there a place, an environment where I can feel at home - maybe not. So far, circumstances have forced me not to have, as they say friends "on hand", which speaks ill of myself. where to feel in my own waters - maybe not. So far, circumstances have forced me not to have, as they say friends "on hand", which speaks ill of myself. where to feel in my own waters - maybe not. So far, circumstances have forced me not to have, as they say friends "on hand", which speaks ill of myself.

   Author: Hello number 16 :) Interesting, but we are quite similar. Meaning and I don't go out quite a bit ... not to mention discos and night drunkenness in general I like to gather with friends at home. I go out as much for training and to see during the day with friends maybe for the same reason that I don't feel at home like you. As for whether if you meet someone like me, like the boy you met ... maybe now you think you'll be ashamed, but no one can say then what will happen ... instinct will work for you without to feel you will already be talking about some common topic. As for being 15 ... what I wrote "from 16 to 25" is because I thought there was no point in lowering the line because I didn't expect an answer from younger ones, not that the difference is big. It's just that some people your age still don't know what they want, but here you refute all my thoughts, which motivates me even more. :) So far I've seen so many positive thinking people and I'm filled with positivism ... it's a pity that the policy of the site is "This is not a dating site ..." I would gladly chat with many of the writers so far. It's amazing how you can learn so much on a site like this ... how people show up and open your eyes and show you how things are and give you hope. Thanks again! Greetings! Awaiting more comments. :) It's amazing how you can learn so many things on a site like this ... how people show up and open your eyes and show you how things are and give you hope. Thanks again! Greetings! Awaiting more comments. :) It's amazing how you can learn so many things on a site like this ... how people show up and open your eyes and show you how things are and give you hope. Thanks again! Greetings! Awaiting more comments. :)

   It's me again - number 16. Well, I want to thank you too. I am also very happy with the site, I have learned dozens of things and I have a better idea of ​​the understandings of different generations. You gave me courage and faith that it is possible to "swim in my own waters" somewhere in the future :) Now I am on the border girl-woman, I now belong to the 20-year-olds rather than the 10-year-olds.

   Author: Hey, I'm glad I helped you! I wish you success in the future and, as they say, all the best :)

   hi so for i'm a girl of 14 i know i don't get involved in the border and i don't want you to think of me as some little bitch ..... and meaning i want to find a boy like you but all the guys just want sex from me and like I tell them no smoke to be gone (I had 3 boyfriends) I'm small and I don't think I'll do it, I just want someone like you to have common topics with, etc.